What comfort food helped you through 2020?
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Comments (39)Mostly simple food from one's childhood, then. Makes sense. When I'm down, I eat nothing. I wonder what that says about my childhood. Who knows what I'd eat if there were a death in my family. So far, there's been none, except my grandfather who passed away at 100. I can't recall eating after that. SWMBO has had a lot more death in her family. She has many times more family than I do, a profusion of siblings and cousins and nieces and aunts. Gotta love those Catholics. They don't have the superior Chinese genetics (wink, tease). And, I tell you, the health care in their little corner of western Washington is abysmal (okay, maybe I'm being unfair, but it sure isn't impressive). Everyone who can afford it goes to Seattle for serious treatment, SWMBO's sister goes all the way to UCLA, but for most folks, that's not an option. Finally, since I am feeling ornery (try getting on a plane in Portland at 7:30 am, sleeping five hours inflight, forcing yourself to go to sleep at a normal hour in NYC, and now wide awake at midnight - I'm about ready to get dressed and go out for a walk) I don't get the bathtub thing. SWMBO loves her bubble baths, I won't get in a bathtub unless I'm sick or injured. P.S.: For those of you with trainable husbands, I recommend starting with a latte in the bathtub. Then you can work him up to full meals. Worked in my house :-(...See MoreWinter comfort food
Comments (35)Speaking of okra, my all time favorite comfort food is gumbo: Seafood Gumbo 1-1/2 pounds okra, sliced into 1/4” thick pieces (fresh or frozen) 2 tbsp canola oil 2 cups chopped celery 1 large onion, finely chopped 1 green bell pepper, finely chopped 4-5 large cloves of garlic, minced 2 tbsp grapeseed oil (or canola or avocado oil) 8 cups water 4 vegetable bouillon cubes or 4 tsp paste 2 tbsp clam or crab soup base, or to taste 2 tbsp butter 2 tbsp canola oil 1/2 cup flour 3-4 bay leaves 1/4 cup chopped fresh basil (or 1 tbsp dried basil) 1-1/2 tsp chopped fresh thyme (or 1 tsp dried thyme) 4 tsp chopped fresh oregano (or 2 tsp dried oregano) 1/3 cup chopped fresh parsley (do not substitute dried for this one) 4-6 Thai chili peppers, seeds removed, finely chopped 1 tbsp filé powder 1 10 oz. can chopped tomatoes, drained 1-1/2 pounds King Crab legs (or 1 pound lump crab meat) 1 pound shrimp, shelled and de-veined 1/2 pound bay scallops or clam or oyster meat 1/2 tsp salt, or to taste 4 cups cooked rice Saute the okra in a small amount of oil in an iron skillet for 8 minutes on high heat and then about 7 minutes more on medium heat, or until the stringiness is gone. Set aside. Note: Do not substitute olive oil in this recipe. Saute the celery, onions, bell pepper, and garlic in 2 tbsp oil until the onions are translucent. I usually start the celery first for a few minutes, and then I add the onions and bell pepper and saute those for a couple of minutes and add the garlic last. This way the garlic will not burn and not turn bitter. I saute with the garlic only about 2 minutes. You can then store these on top of the okra. In a large saucepan or stockpot, make a roux with the 1 tbsp butter, 2 tbsp canola oil, and 1/3 cup flour. Cook the roux until it is a deep reddish brown - this will be just a few minutes past the “peanut butter” color stage. Add more oil, if needed. The roux should have the consistency of yogurt and be fairly easy to stir at this point so that you do not burn it. Add the tomatoes and cook until all liquid has been absorbed and the mixture is thickened into a paste. Add the file, basil, oregano, and thyme and cook about 5 minutes more. It will be a very thick paste at this point, similar to a choux or puff paste. Add the water slowly, stirring constantly, and then add the bay leaves and bouillon. Stir until the bouillon has dissolved, and then add the sauteed vegetables, including the okra, and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat and simmer covered for about 30 minutes. This is a good time to start making the rice. Just before you are ready to serve, add the crab, shrimp, parsley, and scallops, and cook for 5 minutes more, or until the scallops are done. Check the seasoning, and add a dash of cayenne, Tabasco sauce, Chinese Chili Paste if it is not hot enough. It should be slightly salty, as the rice will require a bit of salt, but be careful not to overdo the salt - this will ruin the flavor. You can always add a tiny bit of salt at the table. If you are using precooked shrimp, add them only at the time of serving, and store leftover shrimp separately. Serve in large, deep soup bowls over rice. You may want to offer Tabasco or chili paste for those who want more pepper flavor, but I don’t find this necessary. If you use Thai chili peppers, it will be hot enough. If you use milder peppers, you may have to increase the quantity or you can leave the seeds in. When I make quantities that I expect to freeze, I always store the leftovers in individual containers of whatever amount I want to reheat at one time. Gumbo can be reheated once, but not twice. Yield: 4 quarts, or 8 large (2 cup) servings, not including rice Lars...See MoreWhat's your comfort food?
Comments (38)If I’m sick, I want Campbell’s tomato soup, Nabisco saltine crackers, and a real Coke. Other than that, if I’m needing comfort almost anything creamy will do. 🙋🏻♀️ Another La Madeleine lover here! When I can calorically afford it, my favorite lunch is a chicken salad croissant with Strawberries Romanov for dessert. Ten or more years ago, they had a wonderful breakfast/brunch dish that was like potatoes au gratin with ham in it. It also had a large clove of garlic baked in the middle. I always just ate around the garlic. I took DD and a couple of her sorority sisters there for breakfast before they hit the road back to school. One of the girls ate the garlic in her dish. What a surprise!...See MoreBoomer comfort food . . .
Comments (117)Yes Nekotish, my Dad does that too, always claims he can do "amazing feats of strength and endurance." Things that no sane person would even feel the need to do, convoluted extra work things are his specialty. Then he gets exhausted and cranky. All this for no logical reason. He cannot enjoy life, he has to find something to rail against. He's always saying he can find someone better to do something, someone else will help him, he can do it himself, he doesn't like this helpful aide, he knows a better one, etc. Whenever anyone is trying to help him, he's always claiming he doesn't need help and can do it better himself. Then cries that no one wants to help him. He's a hot mess for sure . . . I get his anger and frustration, but much of it is due to him focusing always on what he doesn't have, what he's dissatisfied with. He still has friends around, can still walk, see, think and although he has some elimination and hearing challenges, he can manage those if he puts his mind to it. My husband and I would help him in any way he wants but he never asks, I ask him what he needs, make suggestions for what we could do to help, but he rejects it all. He tells people they need to do this or that, but then is always dissatisfied with what they do, and tells them, at which point they say, "Hey I tried, you rejected it so I have to move on." Case in point, he stands over my carpenter husband when he is working on a project for him and tells him he is doing it wrong. Gets mad when hubs ignores him or says he knows what he is doing, then Dad gets pushy and nasty. Now claims husband is a hack and ruins all his projects (nothing could be farther from the truth) and wants nothing to do with him. Then he claims we are too lazy and self absorbed to help him. Instead of realizing how lucky he is compared to most his age, he wants to go back to being superman so is always depressed. No amount of resources is ever enough for him. Yes, emotional vampire is the right description. I try to just do easy stuff that I can do without extra effort, but even then, I have to endure the constant barrage of negativity....See More- 5 years ago
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