I Have Been Depressed!
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Comments (14)moc, you always amaze me. I have a had time taking pictures standing on my feet and you've taken your standing on your head. tee-hee! It looks like your BS from MITS is two different hostas in the same pot. It never occurred to me to feed the squirrels corn as a distraction from my hostas. It seem not natural to reward the little evil ones by feeding them. I'd like to wring their little necks. But planting acorn squash seemed to distract voles from eating hosta crowns and I hate voles also. I LOVE El Nino, which is why I was attracted to Blue Ivory-very similar coloration. When we lived in Arkansas I'd seen squirrels chew through smooth plastic cylnders on finch feeders to eat the tiny seeds. I doubt plastic bird netting would slow them down. I've read that squirrels dig where the smell of recently turned dirt might indicate another one buried a nut. So newly planted small hostas aren't the target but an interference to them. Of course if we don't replant in time it will kill the young hostas as their roots dry out. If this is the case why did I spend an hour today pulling out walnut seedlings? If I could be a squirrel teacher I would hold classes teaching them where to find walnut not hosta plantings. I never had this problem living in Arkansas, but then the problem I did have was walnuts everywhere. The squirrels drove me crazy though sampling my peaches every spring. They would pick a peach, take a bit and drop it and pick another one, only to do the same. Do you wonder why I call them tree rats? Of the 4 hostas I have listed, how much sun should I look for in bedding them? I have Paul's Glory & Old Glory doing well, which are very similar to Paradigm. Would Brother Stefan do well in the same sun/shade conditions. Yes, I always check Hosta Library for EVERYTHING when I purchase a hosta. But what we have in ur gardens, and what the developers show as their registered hostas might be different altogether. For example our Blue Angels are awesome compared to those shown in HL-in my opinion. The best hosta pictures I see are those here in Hosta Forum. Theresa...See MoreI'm sorry I worried you
Comments (3)Bellegirl Please, please don't apologise, we are here to help, and no problem is too small, or inconsequensial. I think this forum really does help people to speak freely, and annonomously. I really think concentrating on finding ways to be happy within yourself is the only way to go. In that way, you will always have the resources to be at peace, to be content. I have battled with happiness over the years, blaming this and that, but really its only within ourselves to find the answers. Its hard to find help, because, I have found if you speak up, the doctor whips out the prescription pad, and your on anti-depressants before you know it. Then there is the cost of counsellors. Lets face it, its hard to front up to people and sit there and talk about yourself. Particularly if you are a person who doesn't usually speak up. I just stumbled onto this website, it sounds like something you could become interested it. All the best to you my friend. Popi Here is a link that might be useful: My language exchange...See Morehelp finding a chat room
Comments (23)I never meant for it to sound like anyone was lacking with help or responses. Also he does not hit me/never has. I do not need a shelter. I guess what I need is just a place to vent. And yes maybe encouragement. I feel if I could get him into counseling many things would change. He is not a complete Jerk. I often blame his parents. Everything to them always came down to nickles and pennies. He is now the same. But in a sick way. Our home was paid when he was 34 and I was 31. He is a very hard working man. I just feel as he has gotten older it is now a sickness. One I cannot take. This is why I was hoping to vent maybe some advice and maybe not feel so alone. I never meant to make anyone here feel as if they were not helping. If I did, I am very sorry. Maybe this is the place to vent/maybe not I just really need to talk. Days like yesterday were awful. Today not much better other than I can tell he feels bad(well in his clueless way) I just need a place to yell and maybe in time find some advice that can get him help. Although I am more than willing to go with him. But as of late things have gotten so out of hand I no longer know if I want to try. Other than I know I love this man. But I also know he needs help, Just not sure how much more I am willing to take! Just honestly in a very confused place. But once again never meant to make anyone feel like there advice was going on deaf ears. I have taken everything in and looked at links. So once again TY Oh and by the way sorry I know I ramble. I just have to many things going on at the moment. Also been worried about a few health issues. but have test next week. Another thing I wish he could just understand and be here for me. But for now part of why I am spassy. Just overwhelmed....See MoreI need to vent...and some advice...no lecturing, please
Comments (53)Chisue, I don't know if it's true about the maternal side but show me a person who is bipolar and I will find a family member in their past who also had "issues". Unfortunately a lot of Bipolar traits (and other mental health conditions) are overlooked as quirks or just people making bad choices. Things like serial marriage or relationships,alcoholism,drug use,obsessiveness, "artistic temperament" etc. There is still a trend to blame nurture or background for certain criminal behaviors. An example would be be something like "he takes drugs because his father drank and beat him". No one takes the next step of considering the possibilty he takes drugs to self medicate and his father drank and beat him because father was mentally ill also. It's much more comfortable for people to look at things as good or evil or appropriate or inappropriate. Looking deeper and beyond is uncomfortable and scary for most. No one wants to look too closely at dysfunctional generations of families. It is easier to blame culture and nurture rather than nature. The idea of so many mentally ill is too frightening for the general population. But until mental illness is de-stigmatized nothing will change....See More- 6 years ago
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