Panic Buying..."it's not me"
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Insects In The Garden Are Not A Reason To Panic
Comments (13)Y'all are too funny. The 'panic' statement was NOT aimed at or inspired by any one person, but don't y'all think there's a little bit of that "oh no" panic in all of us when we discover one garden pest or another has arrived? I just figured it was that time of year, and wanted to encourage everyone to view their garden/yard/landscape as an ecosystem and understand that ecosystems need balance, and that includes a balanced bug population. The only people I know who have really serious insect issues are the ones who routinely spray broad-spectrum chemical pesticides (and I have folks around me in the country who do this too, it is NOT restricted to only city folks) every time they see a bug. Once they've wiped out the good bugs, there's no one left to help them with the bad bugs, and bad bugs always rebound more quickly. Andria, bugguide.net is a good bug ID site and there are others, but that's the one I use the most often. Bt products should state on their label which Bt they are, unless it is clear in their name. The ones I buy have an Ingredient list and specify which Bt in that list. Bt kurstaki is sold in many products, and often it says Caterpillar Killer in large letters on the label. You'll find it in Thuricide and Dipel, among other products and, yes, the caterpillars you see on cole family crops are controlled by this form of Bt. The 'san diego' strain used for Colorado Potato Beetles will feature a Beetle somewhere on its label or in its name, like the product 'Colorado Potato Beater". The 'israelensis' strain used for mosquito larvae will have mosquitoes on the label and is found as mosquito dunks or as a granular product you can sprinkle into ponds and other still bodies of water. To avoid harming butterflies, I try to use Bt 'kurstaki' as little as possible, but it would be hard to get a good crop of cabbage without it. I don't spray the broccoli though, and I don't spray tomato plants with Bt to kill hornworms and fruitworms. I just handpick them when I find them and count on the help of the parasitic wasps. Boomer, Thanks. I think we have more than two kinds of gardeners here...we have many kinds and we all just do the best we can with what we've got. I gardened in a big city until I was 39 years old and moved here. I remember when folks sprayed DDT for everything when I was a child. Heck, I remember us kids running or riding our bicycles in the 'mist' that came out of the tanker truck when the city sprayed for mosquitoes. (It is a wonder the chemical exposure didn't kill us all!) I've tried raising a big 8' x 10' garden in a yard that was 95% shade, and was thrilled to have 6 tomato plants. I've done square foot gardening. I've done container gardening. What I do now is Biointensive gardening the John Jeavons/Alan Chadwick way. It works better for me than anything else I've ever done. You have to work with what you've got, and we've all got different challenges. And, in case you're thinking it is easy out here in the country, let me tell you.....I have ranching neighbors who spray large amounts of chemicals and it sometimes causes me problems. You just have to deal with the hand you're dealt. I get very frustrated when their herbicide drift kills or damages plants in my garden, but there's really nothing I can do to prevent it. I don't think pesticides are used as much as they used to be out here, but they're still used at a level that makes me uncomfortable. In one very, very bad grasshopper year, so much junk was sprayed to kill grasshoppers (and it didn't kill them!) that many songbirds died. We didn't see a single bluebird for over three years. During the last decade, I've seen a big shift in attitudes here...even the diehard chemical-using farmers and ranchers are trying really hard to do things in a much more sustainable way, and that gives me hope. They used to laugh at me, the organic nut, and now some of them ask me "What would you do for....." and I try to give them the best organic answers I know. Being more sustainable and 'green' is in, and that's a really good thing. Still, even though I prefer to garden as naturally as possible, I would defend anyone's right to use a chemical product if that is what they believe is best. I just think there's a better way. I don't even like using pyrethrins/permethrins because of their toxicity, and I would never use Rotenone. Neem is OK, but I only use it as an absolute last resort...so maybe one time every three or four years. I avoid most soaps and horticultural oils because they can burn foliage in hot weather. I guess, when it comes right down to it, that's not much I use other than hand-picking, squishing, or drowning pests. I do like Spinosad and love iron phosphate/Spinosad for the sowbugs and pill bugs. I use Nolo Bait every few years for hoppers (this probably will be that year....based on what I'm seeing in terms of how large the current nymph hatch is). I use more companion planting than anyone I know, and I use the companion plants either to attract beneficials and pollinators or to repel unwanted pests. I always describe my beds as a crazy quilt, because each bed is a blend of veggies, flowers and herbs. Some of the 'old farmer' types here refer to my companion plants as 'your weeds' but I just laugh it off. In case you think I don't get that little panicky 'oh no' feeling when I see a sudden influx of pests, you're wrong. I get it too. Then, instead of reaching for a chemical solution, I work on using a natural one. There have been a couple of times that I panicked and bought a chemical pesticide, and then couldn't force myself to use it. lol Guess what? The pest issue resolved itself and I didn't lose my crop or even a significant portion of it. Sometimes the best thing to do is nothing, but it has taken me my entire life to arrive at the point that I understand that. When we moved here, we had lots of pest insects, and seemingly few beneficial insects. I worked really hard for 4 or 5 years to control the bad guys and attract the good guys, and finally had one of those years where the good guys showed up and took care of the bad guys. There were a couple of years like that, and then one year, the good guys didn't come. Do you know why? Because our population of pest insects was too low to support the good bugs. It took me a while to understand that, but then it was an 'aha' moment and I finally got "it". Laura, I loved your description of your ecosystem and all the wild critters in it. I think it is simply wonderful that your daughter is learning so much at such a young age. Debra addressed the lady bug issue....all shapes, sizes, colors, including solid black ones. I've even seen pink ones here. They're pretty cute. Jleroi, Some of the most fierce battles I've ever seen are between praying mantids....but there's all kinds of life-and-death-drama between the various wild things every day. It is fascinating! Tigerdawn, This wasn't aimed at you. lol You're going to be fine. Trust me. I have a gardening friend who used to reach for the pesticide every time he saw a bug and has just decided to wait until a certain level of damage is being seen. Guess what? He rarely sees the damage rise to the level he thinks is 'too much' and now he realizes that the insects are not nearly as damaging as he thought they were. Glenda, My friend, Fred, is a big Sevin user, but he's really backed off in the last few years, and I can't tell his garden has any more pest issues than it did before. I think that after years of giving me a hard time about 'hogging all the bees', he finally decided to stop spraying so much and see if his bees would come back....and they did. He proudly stopped by one day recently while I was working outside to announce that the bees were working his fruit trees like crazy. I was excited for him. Dorothy, I think I'll look and see if Rodale has a bug guide somewhere online. You'd think they would. I used to have a great insect book, but I must have loaned it out or something because I can't find it now. All of you might get a big kick out of this: one year when our son was in high school, they had to do an Insect Collection, which of course was not high on any teenager's priority list. Once our son's classmates realized we had every bug in the world here at our place, some of them came by to 'catch bugs'. I wasn't sure if they thought it was great that we had so many bugs, or maybe terrible that we had so many, but they were able to catch all the different kinds of bugs they needed in just a couple of hours! Then they all worked together to identify them, and that helped me learn the names of some of the more obscure bugs, like Southern robber flies. After that, we were the 'go-to guys' for anyone doing a bug collection...nieces and nephews who lived in 'nuked' neighborhoods in Texas, DH's co-workers kids from Texas, etc. Need a bug? We've got 'em here. : ) And, once they came here to collect bugs, they learned we had lots of wildflowers.....which then gave them an idea where to come when it was time for the Texas kids to do a wildflower collection. Dawn...See MoreRange hood install panic
Comments (5)Angie, seriously how did I miss that the hole is nearly exactly the same square inches as a 6" pipe. Now I'm questioning where I got the 8" number from. I think 6" is the right size since 3.75 * 7.625 ~ 3.14159 * 9 ... yay. Casey, that is exactly what I bought (a 4" x 8" from 6" round register transition) but I was questioning if my thought of snipping and bending flaps was right or not. Thank you so much for confirming that. Though in your google search the 'end' boot looks even better because it would combine the rectangular to round transition and one of two 90 degree elbows into one piece. I might try to find one of those locally just to save some space in the cabinet and have fewer seams. circuspeanut- Thanks! I would prefer the 8" but I don't think I can fit the necessary elbows in the cabinet... unless I do the end boot + 1 elbow... hrmn. I will look into this as I don't want to end up with a hood too loud to use comfortably....See MorePaint Panic - Colour help!
Comments (3)I looked at the colors you mentioned in BM's online virtual paint program. Below is a screen grab of how your colors looked together. The top photo shows Classic Gray around the fireplace and Gray Owl on the window wall. Oxford White covers the trim and the ceiling in both photos. The bottom photo has Newburyport Blue on the fireplace wall with Classic Gray on the window wall. I prefer more contrast so I like Gray Owl with the white trim better than Classic Gray. I very much like the contrast of the Newburyport Blue with the light wall and the wood. I personally prefer that color is balanced across a room so I would add a dark blue sofa to sit opposite the fireplace wall in the bottom photo. I know the above photo is not your room; it's how I would do the room in the photo....See MorePanic Buying.....
Comments (66)Not a panic buyer. The only thing that could send me into panic buying mode is if it were announced that they were going to discontinue the dark chocolate covered dark chocolate oreos. Then I would throw some elbows to get to them. They freeze well. Ask me how I know😏. I prefer to buy things fresh. I am just not good at planning a weeks worth of meals and shopping for it. We are day to day,meal to meal type people. The times I have tried to meal plan and shop for it, we wouldn't want what I had planned when it came time to make it,and I would end up going back out to get stuff to make something else. As for other stuff, like paper products, I buy big packs of those when we run low,and it lasts awhile. I have not tried to buy paper towels or toilet paper since the freak out started. We have enough for the two of us for awhile. I also keep plenty of cleaning supplies on hand because I keep my house clean,so there is no reason to go clear the shelves of cleaning products, i have some already. I went back to publix today on my way to work to get stuff to make a salad with and they had lots of empty shelves in the middle aisles,but still plenty of fresh produce. No bread, no bottled water, and the only eggs left were the very expensive,organic,free range yada yada yada ones. I needed eggs so I got some. I can get eggs from my sister but her very fresh eggs are impossible to peel when boiled. I buy the older eggs in the store for boiling. I did bring a can of lysol from home to work,because my day shift counterpart has called in sick the past 2 days. She is not sick but her poor one year old baby has the flu. And since she doesn't want to use up all her sick days, she will probably come back to work tommorow, bringing her kids flu germs with her. We share a desk and computer. I have never had the flu and would rather keep that streak going. And I will lock my lysol in my locker before I leave so that they wont use it all. My boss has gone waaaaay off the deep end lately. He had a plexiglass barrier installed to separate us from people who come in here. Madness. He would probably use the whole can on one doorknob if left to his own devices....See More- 6 years ago
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