Help with bereavement/Passover ideas?
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Comments (33)May, several years ago, you posted your Vegetable Kugel recipe. (I've reposted it below.) Your notes say that the flavor was good, but it didn't hold together well, and you would add more matzo meal or potato starch next time. Did you ever experiment further? I'd like to try the recipe this year, with a couple of changes. I was thinking that it needs a few eggs to bind it together: maybe 3 or 4 for that volume of veggies and matzo meal. I'm also considering the addition of some chopped sweet onion, raisins, or even pineapple. Any other suggestions? Here's the recipe: Kugel (Sweet Potato Carrot Apple) Ingredients: 2 cups grated Red Delicious apples 2 cups grated raw sweet potato 2 cups grated raw carrot 1 cup matzo meal 1 stick margarine, melted 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon baking soda 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon ground nutmeg 1/4 to 1/2 cup granulated sugar Instructions: Preheat oven to 325 degrees Fahrenheit (160 degrees Celsius or Centigrade). Grease a 9-by-13-inch (22.5 cm x 32.5 cm) pan. In a large bowl, combine apple, sweet potato, carrot, matzo meal, margarine, salt, baking soda, cinnamon, nutmeg and sugar; mix well. Pour into prepared pan. Cover with aluminum foil; bake 45 minutes. Increase oven heat to 350 degrees Fahrenheit (180 degrees Celsius or Centigrade), remove cover, and bake an additional 15 minutes. Slice and eat hot. Makes 12-16 servings. Sue...See Moretricky corner dilemma...need ideas/advice
Comments (26)Liriodendron: I will think it over. Most of the time we throw everything in the DW so it's only problematic on the holidays. I will try to do some sort of mockup tonight with the laundry sink where we're washing dishes to get a better idea of what it will be like. David: Thanks; that might make a very good home for the KA mixer. Diana: DWs which have electronics that come on when opened are a problem. If you can disable that they're usually okay but really strict people will check with Star-K or another authority before purchasing. F&P used to be certified but now I see it's not the Star-K list anymore. :-( The Rubbermaid tubs in the shower is a brilliant idea! WRT the corner pantry area, I am now waffling between two solutions: 1. Build a pantry unit with 24" base cabs and 12" cabinets above that appear to sit on the counter. When opened, there would be space at the bottom for appliances and coffeepot but space for dry goods and glasses above. The fridge will stick out like a sore thumb next to it but I can live with it till it breaks and then replace it with a counter-depth model. There was a picture in a saved thread of wonbyherwits' pantry: http://starpoohonline.com/pantries.pdf If I did this I think I can get maximum lenth of the run because it can wrap around the corner to the wall oven run. 2. Build a step-in pantry similar to natal's in this thread: http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/kitchbath/msg0802070524922.html I could build it 30" deep but would have to make it shorter to allow the wall oven run to be the maximum length because otherwise it will be too short to be useful. And I will have a backup pantry at the base of the stairs for less-used items. Other less feasible idea would be to run the step-in pantry as far as it can go, leave the DR door in its original place (near the chimney on the bottom right wall, where the wall oven run is going) and have an 11' run to work in wall ovens, baking space and servery. Turned it over and over in my head but couldn't really come up with a configuation I liked. I'm really torn between a cabinetry pantry that would give me counter space and a perfect coffee spot, but look a little silly next to the 30" deep fridge and a step-in pantry which would give me more food storage (and save money on cabinetry!) but feel a little tight. I think I'm leaning toward the former--what do y'all think? It would look less silly at 24" as a freestanding piece which could work since I'm going for an English look anyway. Something like this, only with the counter raised to 32" or 36": Oh, and one more thing? LOSING MY MIND....See Morefood for bereaved neighbours
Comments (19)I realize that I'm different that most, but the *last* thing on my mind when grieving the dead is packing my face with food! Somehow I see it more as the Fat American Syndrome and most of us could stand to skip a meal or two. Harshness aside, the tradition is simply that, a tradition started a century or more ago to help out the families when cooking was a far bigger chore than today. Also it was a tradition (with which I think is obsolete today too) where you have to feed everyone who attends the funeral. Really, why today? In the past when people walked miles, rode horses, were in ox carts and traveled hours upon hours, even days to attend a funeral, it was a kind courtesy to give them something to eat before they ventured the long journey home. It's not that way anymore. For cryin out loud, you can hop a plane, go thousands of miles, attend a funeral and be back home for supper if you want to these days. And today it's expected that you be *fed* even on a plane! LOL When my mother died some people brought oddball casseroles which nobody in my family liked, especially my dad. And then the people would pull me aside and tell me to make sure he eats it, he's so frugal he shouldn't let it go to waste, etc. Sorry folks, no thanks. Better to hit a restaurant, sub shop or deli, which had no availability when the tradition started. Sometimes traditions need to end. Personally I think this is one of those that should be allowed to sunset. I do like the idea of paper goods, stamps and help clean a house. That's far more thoughtful than food that will get dumped out and people are expected to commend them on the "favorite recipe". I gave a friend a prepaid cell with some time on it since they didn't have one. That way they could make the long distance calls from anywhere, be available when someone needs to contact them about the estate and the like. I also believe that donating your *time* is valuable these days, more valuable than your money most of the time. Help with the lawn work, make sure they have gas in the car, do they need groceries? Maybe they need help getting rid of the deceased's clothing and posessions? Maybe they just want some companionship? Maybe they want to be left alone. Everyone is different. Some like food. OK, but at least show the courtesy to find out if they *want* it before forcing something on them that could cause them stress. Some really hate to waste food, even bad food....See MoreWhat plans do you have for Passover or Easter?
Comments (42)Enjoy hearjng about everyone’s plans. We will be having between 13 to 15. I am with Annie this year, usually I spend a lot of time on my table and have a fabulous appetizer spread but cutting back. We are starting later this year, so half of our group are eating brunch or lunch with others before coming to our place for dinner. Will still have appetizers, but keeping it lighter with fewer choices. Hoping people will save room for the main meal. Our plan is: Appetizers - Deviled eggs, vegetable spread with toasted baguette rounds and baby carrots. Main - Ham (spiral, honey glazed), cream corn, strawberry spinach salad, cheesy potatoes (similar to funeral potaoes), Watergate Salad and rolls. Dessert - Pound cake and/or cheesecake with strawberries and whipped cream. Will be serving both desserts. Will make a nice table, but it will be thrown together today rather than the usual much thought-out table design, planned weeks ahead of Easter. Happy Easter and Passover to all....See More- 9 years ago
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