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sloth_man22

Which life do I choose ? How will the kids turn out?

sloth_man22
7 years ago

Complicated situation but I will keep it short.
I was married once and we have a 10yo daughter that has had problems in school / social situations / blended family - etc. Visitation is 50/50 and these problems are getting better with psychotherapy but still a lot of issues with blended family siblings.

I remarried with someone who already had 2 children and we had a child together who is now 3yo.
The child from the 1st marriage does not get along with anyone else in house and now I have to make a hard decision -

I can keep my current family, with a partner who cares about me and our daughter with the other 2 children and only have phone calls / ~ 4hr visits maybe 2 days a week with my 1st child

OR

I can separate and see both my kids for ~ 50% of the time and loose my wife in the process.

I would like to hear from someone on this who has had to make a similar choice or just anyone's advice in general to get a feel for what life implications this will have.

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