Did I hire the wrong realtor?
Terri Griz
7 years ago
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Comments (14)we did not use a realtor in our purchase. we somehow ended up "married" to the realtor that showed us the first home we were interested in. he showed us 17 homes over 3 months. he was selling a house he had flipped and pushed it at us frequently, despite our repeated polite protests that it was nice, but not the home for us. he constantly added homes to our lists that well above our stated price ceiling, and not because he felt they would drop in to our range - forcing me to continually be saying "yes, those are lovely but we can't afford those homes". when we had questions about a property, and he contacted the other realtor, he would hoard the information he was given and only tell us parts of what they said (found this out later) and lastly he messed up an offer on a house and we lost it - and when i pointed out the errors, he said "well i think you really dodged a bullet on that house anyway, do you want to come look at my property again?" grrrrr. subsequently when i called him to let him know that we would use him if we purchased any of the homes that he had shown us, but that we had decided not to use a buyers' realtor from this point forward, he shouted at me and then hung up on me. and then continued to send me listings as though he was my realtor. grrr! i know our experience wasn't typical, and because of our inexperience we did not shop for a realtor but rather fell in with the first realtor who showed us a home - but wow! way to put me off on using realtors! from my perspective: disavantages of not using a realtor: it took time to make sure i had checked all possible sources - MLS, zillow, craigslist, courthouse walls, fanniemae/freddie mc, fsbo websites, local ad bulletin - usually daily. we also live in a small community so we had word of mouth working for us. when we actually got to the stage of negotiating the price, it would have been nice to have a "screen" between us and the buyer, so we wouldn't have had to worry so much about seeming eager. it also would have been nice to have access to the realtor's list of comps on the house so we would have had an easier time figuring out the house value, although with a little work we were able to figure out the sales prices for most of the houses in the neighborhood from the deeds of trust at the courthouse. that helped. if we had been looking at a much wider area, it would have been a daunting task, not sure if we could have kept up. so i would factor in how many potential homes you have to sift thru - advantages of not using buyers' realtor: often as we looked at a home, we were courted by the listing agent - meaning, the listing agent often considered us as a potential client to show other homes too -- and tried hard to seem efficient, helpful and knowledgable. consequently, they often were very forthcoming about their listing - in fact, i suspect their sellers would have been a little chagrinned at how much we learned about their personal and financial situations and willingness to drop on the price. (note to self: do not share that info with a realtor when selling home.) it's not a huge deal, but i think the REA also was pleased to think that they would not have to share the commission, and so were very accommodating to us as buyers. they would ask us what other houses we had looked at, and then promptly fill us in on all the history on the other listings. we learned a lot more than when we had a realtor. since i watched the mls myself, and tracked houses that matched our criteria - i felt very knowledgable about what a good price per square foot was, how much off the listing price people were selling for, how frequently and how fast homes were selling. in fact, we are closing on a home at the end of this month - and i was a little surprised to realize when i got the appraisal back that i knew the homes used in the sold comparables well. i did like knowing that the information i gave the realtor was communicated clearly to the seller, and our information transactions were faster, i think. i think if we had not decided on this home, my next step, based on the very good suggestion of a GW member, would have been to drop off postcards in my desired neighborhoods, indicating that we were looking for a home if anyone was considering selling but reluctant to because of the market. just my perspective, hth...See MoreWould you hire a realtor without computer access at her home?
Comments (37)Thanks for getting back to me so quickly, Paula. I ordered through Lowe's online. They do not offer them in the store, so I know they came straight from the supplier. The tiles are perfectly uniform in thickness and edging. I loved them until I started moving them around. I am using the lightest touch and they are still chipping, bottom and top. They are not through-body color, so I am left with dark taupe where they have chipped. I am going to contact Olean tomorrow to see if they possibly had a recall on this lot. I am glad to hear yours have held up. Perhaps if I can get them installed without more damage, they will be ok. I am really nervous about cutting and installing them, though. Your bathroom remodel looks fantastic. Do you recall what color and brand of grout was used? Thanks again, Andrea P.S. I hope my son finds a house that doesn't need a bathroom remodel. ;-)...See MorePossession after closing signed , realtor did't protect me at all.
Comments (56)I was not clear whether you were intending to not disclose the date or if one had not been included. That's fine and I am glad one was specified -- this deal i just so wonky that I don't trust your agent. And no criticism intended on your native language or English skills. I hope that was clear. As suggested above, I would certainly do far worse in ANY other language. The issue is getting someone to make sure you understand the situation you are in, what your options are and what the risks are so that you can make an informed decision. Your agent should be doing that even if their commission is paid by the seller. I am especially concerned about the suggestion that you not include the addendum in the documents you send to your lender. That is not okay. That is hiding a significant risk to the lender as well as to you and that can be a fraud -- even if not meant to defraud the lender. It does also raise insurance issues and more -- even beyond the risk of the seller not leaving when they are supposed to or them trashing the place and leaving it worse condition than you bought it in. It is not so simple as your agent might have led you to believe. It can go well. It can go bad. It can go very bad. But there should be a very real reason for not simply delaying the closing 15 days and taking possession then -- and you need to know why, agree to it, know the risks, have your lender and your insurance company know the risk and any of their concerns and yours be addressed if you close before possession....See MoreHow did you thank your realtor?
Comments (17)Jan, we where in a stressful situation too. This is our first and hopefully only home we will buy. At first we went with a well known, well respected realtor that been an agent/ broker for over 30 years. He treated us like we were young dumb idiots. He didn't want to show us houses we were interested in or ones that was in our price range. He told us that he would only show us the type of houses that he would move into if he where on looking, so he that could sell it in 10yrs for top dollar. The last house he showed us wasn't worth the asking price. Other houses in the same are that was for sell or pending at that price point we're nicer remodeled houses with a lot more square footage. Then he told us that the sellers agent had emailed him saying that the sellers we're going to fix up the house. They didn't say what was going to be done. A week later they "updated" the listing and pics. All the pictures was the same, but they bragged about the new paint job and updated kitchen, but nothing had been done. Then "new" pictures looked exactly the same except they had add a stainless steel microwave in the kitchen. Then on top of that the list price went up by $15,000. Needless to say we didn't want it. but the first realtor called me for 3 days demanding we put on offer in because he knoew what house he's clients were going to buy even if it was something they didn't want. A friend of mine recommend the second realtor to us. She is awesome. we can't say enough nice things about her. She made our dream a reality and now we have our forever home....See MoreTerri Griz
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