What do you call your "athletic shoes"?
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What do you call your in-laws if NOT 'Mom/Dad'?
Comments (29)I call my in-laws by their first names. they asked me if that would be OK when we got married, and I was very relieved. I would not even consider calling them mom or dad, because for me, it would feel like a betrayal to my parents in my heart. think if you were in a situation in which you were divorced and your husband remarried someone that you either couldn't stand or were jealous of. and your children started calling her mom. I would think that would be painful. so in that same thought process, I wonder how our parents feel to hear their adult children calling someone else mom or dad. Actually, I would like to hear from those whose adult children are married. Would it bother you to hear your adult son/daughter call someone else mom or dad?...See MoreWhat do you call your Live-In?
Comments (45)The last time I looked it up, many states no longer recognize what was called "common law marriage." A common law marriage was a binding marriage contract, observed and celebrated in public, until the soonest opportunity for the circuit-riding minister or judge to come back around and make it really legal. The few states that recognize "common law" require the couple to have joint financial accounts, hold property in both names, have a public announcemnt of a future wedding dates...etc., etc., etc. It was far easier to be legally married than to try to show "common law." And when "common law" connot be proved; (and it's almost impossible to prove it) it's the women and children who usually suffer. While working all those years in a large jail facility I got so tired of hearing the druggie gang-bangers screaming "common law" as soon as the realized their shack-ups weren't getting the same benefits as a legal wife. Marriage is holy and spiritual and binding and awesome. It's also a legal tool that protects women, children, and men. I couldn't care less if men and women chose to live together. It's their business, and does not make them "good" or "bad." But a living-together couple is not a married couple. The legal issues are seperate from a married couple. One couple I knew, in their mid-40s, decided to move in together in spite of the raised eyebrows and wagging tongues. Each had been divorced; one had grown and moved-away children. They were both wonderful people and rather shy and conservative. In their area this was still rather shocking that they chose to "live together." It bothered them, too, except they weren't about to announce the fact. After three weeks they "snuck off and eloped!" They did not tell anyone they were married until their second anniversary when they threw a party, produced the marriage certificate, and made their mamas extremely happy....See MoreWhat do your children in-law call you? How about grandkids?
Comments (72)Elmer, you said, "...times have changed and I suspect views and practices of the modern day aren't what you assume them to be." I don't live in a cave, Elmer! I'm not assuming anything! I know my DD and DS still call the parents of their friends and my friends Mr & Mrs. My daughter uses a dear friend of mine as her broker - she's known him all her life and she still calls him Mr. I have not lived in Los Angeles in over 34 years, but when I did, I never heard a child in my neighborhood or at my church, call an adult by his first name. And my CA friend's children still call me Mrs... I know what my children's grown friends on Martha's Vineyard call me and what my children call their parents. NEVER by a first name! My DGS informs me that only one of his professors at his Ivy has suggested that his students call him by his first name; he's quite young. All the rest are Professor.... One of the professors there is his godfather and he calls him Uncle Professor... and he loves it! He was a groomsman in my DD's and DSIL's wedding - he had been their professor - and they still call him Professor...and he has never suggested that this change. Elmer, I could care less where you've lived and worked. Clearly we move in very different circles, I would suggest that you not assume you know the social norms in mine. I do know them. The use of honorifics has nothing to do with being stuffy or not being casual; it's a sign of respect. We could use a bit more of that these days....See MoreDo you collect rainwater for your plants? Call me crazy)
Comments (18)I do collect rainwater but don't keep a lot on hand, so inevitably have to go back to tapwater until it rains again (or if it's winter until we have a thaw). The reason I started doing it was that I noticed my garden plants would respond noticeably to a good rainstorm after a long dry period where they only got tapwater. I mainly saw this effect earlier in the growing season when the plants grew more actively. I am assuming the quality of the rainwater caused this effect but realize the quantity of water may have had something to do with it (rainstorms that last several hours can give a deep watering that you can't get from a watering can). I don't worry about pollen and dirt on the roof getting in the water.... plants grow in dirt anyway so they shouldn't mind it....See More- 8 years agolast modified: 8 years agoplllog thanked morz8 - Washington Coast
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