Help! Tricky situation turning down realtor
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Comments (19)I have rentals from college students to retirees. I agree with lazygardens that hardwood in the kitchen is fine if you have a great finish and the right tenants (never college students). It appears it can take more abuse than the laminate in my rentals. Laminate tiles are cheap and quick too but can look worn in a few years (again, depending on the tenant). Tile flooring for me can take the most abuse and not show it. As someone previously said, determine your target rental group and set the kitchen tone with that. Check out a few other rental houses in the area. Now I only list on craigslist. 10 times more responses and better quality tenants than from the local paper. It's free and easy. You can see the other local rentals there too with pics. Since this is not a high end market laminate countgertops (Wilson Art at HD) is great and cheap. Get something with a few colors in it so you can't see cuts, etc. I have white cabinets in one apartment and I would never do that again. Yes, it's low end HD but it always looks dirty and worn (vs. darker or stained cabinets). Darker cabinets and appliances will make it look darker but go with light laminate flooring, light paint color, light countertops and good lighting and it will make a difference. And remember - don't go too crazy since this is a rental (and you're going to charge below market rent) Also, MA state law says you cannot take a security deposit more than one months's rent. Not sure of the laws in your state....See MoreNeed help with the 'protocol' of handling this situation
Comments (34)OP here again, with the update Firstly, Elmer, I asked opinions from 'anonymous' people, because DH's background can help them crunch numbers. But we were ignorant about any 'protocol' that might be breached, regarding involving his manager. In any case, SIL did speak with his manager yesterday. His manager did not know the details and was wondering what was happening. SIL told him the terms of the offer, explaining his concerns. His manager did feel the starting salary offered to SIL probably couldn't be negotiated any higher. But he addressed SIL's concern of the slow housing market, possibly meaning the risk of having to pay 2 mortgages simultaneously. He agreed that HR should be more flexible regarding the terms of relocation, as the company has never moved an employee from that city before. (That was the main issue SIL pushed with HR, but to no avail.) SIL's manager mentioned again that he selected him, as he feels SIL is the best candidate for the job. He told him that he cannot personally override HR's offer, but can 'put a bug in their ear.' He urged SIL to not contact HR to turn down the offer, and to not back down on the negotiating. SIL got a call from his manager this morning, asking if he'd heard from HR yet. SIL hadn't, but got a call within the hour. It seems the 'miracle' I assumed was a long shot, occurred. HR said they would extend a 'slight salary adjustment' and agree to pay his mortgage if his house isn't sold by the time the rental provision expires. SIL was happy with that, and will sign the Letter of Offer! SIL has no idea what his manager may have said or done behind the scenes, (since he insisted he couldn't override HR's offer.) But the last call SIL got from HR was suddenly amenable to further negotiation. I wouldn't have asked here, if SIL should speak to his manager, if he planned to accept the position and was just trying to sweeten the deal. I believe bosses don't normally get involved in the negotiation process. But because SIL was going to turn down a promotion that his manager had specifically offered to him, I wondered if this would fall outside standard 'protocol.' I'm glad I did ask for opinions here, as it seems SIL's manager 'putting a bug' in HR's ear, may have made the difference. DD and family are now looking forward to their move. Thank you for your input!...See MoreHelp! How to remodel a tricky staircase
Comments (29)I have to say the "fear of stairs" contingent is a bit over the top. Millions of homes across the world have stairs. In certain geographic areas, stairs are the norm. Afraid of stairs? Build or buy a ranch. But disparaging someone for living in a historic home with stairs is not helpful. If you are mobility impaired or elderly you probably would not be purchasing this home. If you have small children, safety gates are in order. Common sense prevails here. OP, there seems (from the pictures at least) not enough of a "run" to get these stairs "up to code." Further I think they look adorable. Lots of ideas to paint or make them stand out. We have a back staircase in our home that is similar to this.Handrails and treads can make these safer. I see no reason to rip them out or change them. Generations lived with stairs like these and did just fine. My grandmother had an extreme staircase in her rowhouse in Copenhagen. She lived until 98 and never had a stair injury. I don't discount that people can fall down stairs, but the more we fear them and whistleblow on the danger of an extremely common home element, the less people use them or get used to how to navigate them safely. Physicians have even commented that stair climbing can increase mobility into the later years....See MoreTricky situation with trim and window covering (and mixed treatments)
Comments (5)Look at Vertiglide by Hunter Douglass. https://www.hunterdouglas.com/operating-systems/manual/vertiglide We used one panel on our master bedroom slider and it stacks back neatly on the side of the fixed slider door. Comes in blackout fabric. You can do matching duette shades on the windows. We have used Hunter Douglas in 3 houses over the years and have been happy with their products....See MoreSuzi AKA DesertDance So CA Zone 9b
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