Help Me Stay Motivated: Waiting for 'Right' House.
jonw9
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Comments (19)First of all, HUGE congratulations on one year sober. Woo! As far as the housework goes, I HEAR YA! It's been a huge struggle for me to get it under control and find that elusive "balance" between housework, homeschooling, shopping, family time, fun, and other chores/responsibilities. Up until the past 6 months or so, it seemed the housework was always coming up short (WAY short) and it was dragging me down. What finally worked for me was realizing that I am much more motivated to keep the house done when it's COMPLETELY done to begin with, and I do well with a plan. So Claude and I made a list of what needed to be done (including catching up on the laundry, rooting out closets, drawers, etc.) and spent a week getting it done. It's super important that everything has a specific place where it belongs, and that the kids know where their things go. Then I made a plan and a schedule for the regular upkeep.... We have a 2 free hours on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings. In that time-slot on Tuesday we do the floors (sweeping, vacuuming, mopping and Spot-Shotting). On Wednesday we do the dusting and the 3 bathrooms. Weekends are free for family time or doing stuff with friends. We designate 1 day of the last weekend of the month for a deeper clean (dusting ceiling fans, cleaning the fridge/stove, wiping down the walls/baseboards....). I do a complete load of laundry every morning (including putting it away) after I've settled the older kids down with some schoolwork. Some days I have 2 loads. I do the bedding on Fridays. Sophie (7) watches the boys daily while I prepare meals and clean up (table, kitchen, dishes & sweep) afterward. The kids have classes/clubs most every evening, so we have to zoom out the door right after supper. We make sure to have the supper mess completely cleaned up before we go. Sophie is also in charge of feeding the cats, tidying the shoes at the front door and the maintenance of her room. We're still working on getting Benjamin (4) more involved (sigh). We certainly have a rule that a toy has to be put away before another comes out, but with babies and toddlers in a busy house, that's practically impossible to enforce. SO, we have "Eight O'clock Rounds" every evening. It's supposed to be at 8:00, but sometimes it's later. Basically, we have to do the "rounds" before bedtime. The entire family goes around from room to room together, picking up and straightening things that are out of place. It works, and feels great waking up (most) every morning to a tidy house. Also, knowing that it'll be fixed up in the evening, I don't have to stress every time the baby dumps a bucket of blocks. :) It might sound like the routine is very regimented, but it's what we found works. With homeschooling I just don't have a lot of time available for housework, so for me, I HAVE to have a plan. The house is pretty much always under control now, it really doesn't take much time out of the day, and I feel SO much better when a messy house isn't constantly looming. Find what works for you. Consider a schedule. Best of luck!...See MoreWhat's currently driving you to stay motivated?
Comments (21)My motivation is to be able to clean/dust/vacuum easily and have a neat, simple living space. I've said it before, I want a place for everything and everything in its place. I'm even recycling up a storm--stopping junk mail from coming in (catalogchoice.org) and using more natural cleaning supplies and personal hygiene stuff. All that chemical stuff in all those different containers takes up too much space and isn't good to breathe or intorduce into the water system anyway. It's like I NEED to keep doing this until I reach that point. I've stopped buying/bringing in more stuff 99% of the time now--which is a big thing for me! I used to load up things weekly! I have to go through my clothing, file cabinets and bathroom cupboards/drawers and I'll have made the complete rounds. Then, I'll go around again until there's nothing I want/need to get rid of anymore. YAY ME!...See MoreHelp! Right neighborhood or right house?
Comments (9)Also, if you think about it solely in terms of figures...when you need to sell, banks issue mortgages based upon the appraisal. Therefore, buyers need to have the appraisal come in for more than the agreed upon sales price. Generally, appraisers take the price per square foot of other comparible houses in your neighborhood, then adjust the value up or down depending upon condition and finishes. Now, this is a very simplified explanation, and appraisal is not an exact science, but it will give you an idea of the long-range value of the house. So, let's take an example on a 1800 sq ft house. If the average ppsf (price per sq ft) for similar (not exact, but similar) houses in your less than desirablable neighborhood is, let's say, $200, and your house has $40k worth of upscale finishes/renovation, appraised price is $400,000. Then, take the same house, with the renovations, and plunk it into a more desirable neighborhood. Similar houses in the neighborhood sell for $300 a square foot, appraised price is $540,000. Quite a difference, no? I recently spent 2 years looking for my 'dream house', and I ran into the same dilemma as you, time and time again. And I ran the recently-sold house numbers time and time again(used www.mlspropertyfinder.com)...and price values varied, by neighborhood, sometimes more than $200 per sq ft. For me, it was a better investment to wait & find an undervalued house in a better neighborhood. And, after 2 years of searching, I did! Hope this is helpful, and good luck.......See MoreNeed Motivational help
Comments (22)Got the quote for the mini-split system. I'd researched these quite a bit online, so thought I'd be prepared . . . The Electric Co-op wants about $10,000 to put in a system that will only provide AC and auxiliary heat for THREE rooms in the house! And they will knock off $1,000 if we do the hard work of installing the one unit that goes in the ceiling. I was hoping to get a bit of a discount on the materials through the Co-op -but instead it looks like they are trying to recoup the costs on the new facilities they are building. The estimator was a really nice guy, and loved my kitchen. He asked all kinds of quesitons and I had fun showing him all the neat parts (all ideas from GW) he even said it was a good thing his wife didn't come on estimates with him, or she'd be tearing out the kitchen the next day. Maybe with seeing the neat features, he figured we have lots of $$$ to spend. Right now we spend about $500 a winter to heat the house. We do have a wood stove, but don't use it regularly as we aren't home. This mini-split system would not work much below zero, and I live in SD were we get temps that low on a regular basis. It would work well for the AC needs, right now we use a window AC in the kitchen, and one in the bedroom. We only run them maybe 20-30 days a YEAR. I think if we had a quite system we might use it more often, but it's not needed. I did a little figuring, and even if this system saved us half on our heating/AC bills(which it would not come close to) it would take about 20 years to recoup the cost, and we don't plan on being in the house that long. Our house is old, but has all new windows, new inslutaion, exterior house wrap and interior vapor barrior. A lot of people in our area pay more a month for heating than we do all winter. On the good side, this means no crawling in the attic to put in supports and cutting holes in joists. Option two was to get a radiant ceiling cover heater for the kitchen (about $150 and we use the existing wires and thermostate). Then I can still have my window seat (and a lot more storage). We are going to look into getting a single mini-split system for the bedroom (ac only) that should run about $1,200 and it's about as simple an istallation as you can get. All in all, it's not a real bad thing - nothing like getting really mad to get a person motivated! I'm going to dig out the plans I did a while back for the window seat, and get to work....See Moremihelene
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