Looking at adopting a dog
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Comments (28)Then if all that is true I appluad them it takes a VERY good responsible person to be both President,parent and a good pet owner. I'm not trying to think negative about all this, I'm trying to think realistically, thats a lot of weight for anyones shoulders. Good job Runsnwalken, please reread exactly what you wrote here. This is what you need to think about before you post, and even then, it is just your thoughts, it doesn't always need to be said publicly. Some opinions need to be kept to ourselves. You are welcome to think realistically, but unless it will change something immediately or your opinions are requested, it is best to keep quiet. I only respond to a select few posts because my opinion is irrelevant to the thread or because I disagree with the poster, but my opinion wouldn't matter anyway. If someone said "my breed of dog is the best" I wouldn't bother to reply. I am not a dog person at all, I am afraid of them, and I have nothing positive to add to the conversation. Just walk away, it isn't a fight I would win. Good rules of responding are: 1) Ask yourself if the original poster is looking to show off their new pet or ask a question. If they are just showing off their pet, say something nice or don't respond at all. It is like if someone emails you a pic of their new shirt; either say "I like it!" or don't respond. Don't tell them that the material it is made of is made in sweatshops by orphans that make pennies a day. That wasn't what the person was looking for. 2) If the OP asks opinions on food, tell them what works for you and leave it at that. There is no need to bash other brands. 99% of pet owners will get great advice from their vet or know from experience what is good. I have a cat with renal failure; the diet you recommend here on the forum would cause her more harm than the canned diet I have her on. You are not a vet, neither am I. Let those with the degrees and experience with all types of animal illnesses be the ones to administer this advice. I won't even tell someone what to feed their cat, and I have had cats my entire life. 3) Make sure you respond to only what is relevant to the OP. If the question does not involve debarking or declawing, don't mention it. It is irrelevant. 4) Think positively! Everyone comes to this forum because they love animals. They don't come here to be chastised. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Make sure you understand their post and what they are looking for. If you aren't sure, move on to the next post. Everyone benefits from good advice, but advice cannot be taken seriously when you accuse the person asking for it of being a bad pet owner right off the bat. You don't know their entire situation at all, and probably never will. A very general answer of "I have found that a raw diet works best for my cats" or "I am glad the Obamas have decided to adopt, hopefully this will start a trend in adoptions". It is much easier to respond this way instead of expanding and making accusations about how you think someone may or may not act in the future. If and when it happens, then it can be discussed, but there is no reason to speak negatively about someone before you know it is a truth. I apologize for the length of this post, but I really hope this helps and I think everyone can take a cue from this. It is a great forum and we all are here for one reason: we love our pets. Be kind to each other, good things happen to good people....See MoreWhen visiting a shelter dog to adopt question
Comments (16)The two dogs I adopted as rescues took 6 mos to a year before they bonded fully with me. Neither was used to living in a house, my current little dog I believe had never been in a house and probably lived on the end of a chain until the rescue took him in, and then he was in a kennel for 3 years. He really had no notion at all of what it meant to belong to a household. I do not believe he would ever fit in most other households. He has post traumatic stress from being abused on a regular basis by a short heavy-set man (he's told me exactly what his abuser looked like by barking the alarm at two unrelated repair men of the same description who came to my house over the past year) and he will sometimes suddenly snap at or bite my husband and myself. We understand that the ghosts in his past cause him to do this, and we understand. We are so happy that he came to live with us and I know he feels the same, but it has been a long road. I agree that a foster home could give you a better picture of a rescue dog in their care, and also the dog would have been given a crash course in socialization and be further ahead. Still I think that a rescue dog is likely to be feeling lost with the upset in homes, and take some time to bond with you. An exception might be a dog who has been in a stable home and suddenly lost their owner due to death or serious illness. Even then such a dog may well be in mourning for his previous beloved owner and take time to bond with a new owner. Even a puppy from a breeder takes awhile to recognize a new owner as his special person. Looking back I think that all my dogs, and cats too, over the years looked upon me merely as a friendly stranger for the first month or so. Adopting a rescue pet is not instant gratification, but it is a wonderfully gratifying experience to have earned his love and trust over time, and to know what a difference you made in his life....See MoreAdopting a dog treated for heartworms
Comments (2)A young dog probably had little permanent damage. But post-treatment radiographs can confirm that. If she finished treatment within the last 6 weeks, she will need to continue her exercise restriction until 6 weeks past the last Immiticide treatment. Other than that, make sure was put on prevention immediately, and continue her follow up testing at 6 months post treatment....See MoreTwo male dogs in same house?
Comments (7)We have one neutered and one intact male dog. They are both adopted and neither of them mark in the house. Our one boy had a bladder infection and had accidents during the night all over the rug and we haven't had any problems with either marking (of course we cleaned it, my steam cleaner is my fave purchase ever!) Our one boy even pooed on our kitchen floor (we just adopted him and he was scared of the wind and didn't want to go outside, poor thing) and our other boy didn't mark on it, which happens ALL the time outside. I was told it is a habit and if they don't do it now then they wouldn't do it with different dogs in the house. We also set up a trial period because we had another dog and wanted to make sure they would get along well. The adoption agency was very nice about this. I told the foster about our dog and asked if the second dog would be a good fit for us and she said he would and she was right! I do agree with it being breed specific though. If the dog is being fostered ask the caregiver what he/she thinks. I also adopted our two boys through petfinder. I LOOOOOVE that site. It is so wonderful! -renee...See More- 26 days ago
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