I'm sitting here all teared up, wonder if my cats would miss me?
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pipevine cat query...bear with me, I'm a relative newbie
Comments (10)Well guess what, Misssherry! I went out last evening, thinking I'd comb the area in the woods where I saw the cat on the road. There was a line of storms coming in on us so I knew I did not have much time. I had not even entered the woods when I heard the thunder approaching, and decided to wait until I had more time/better light to do my looking. I was scurrying across the YARD, and happened to see a very small plant at the base of a hickory that had the right sort of leaf pattern, so I plucked it close to the ground and kept going ahead of the rain. You know what I'm about to say. It's Virginia snakeroot. And not only that, but there are three red eggs in a tight cluster and one by itself out on a leaf, all on the ventral side. SO now that I have potentially screwed things up for these cats, I'm hopefully doing the right thing for a change... I have the plant in a glass of water and watching it closely for signs of hatching. Am I assuming correctly that they are ST eggs....seems like I saw a link somewhere with them on it... THis is an area of the yard that was formally an attempt as grass, which in the woods is rather a silly endeavor. And unnatural as well. I quit mowing much of anything here about 4 years ago and now there is a thick blanket of virginia creeper, wildflowers, and young elm seedlings. I had not expected the snakeroot to be that diminutive and I'd been walking right past it, as it's only about 4-5 inches tall with 4 leaves. And honestly I was really expecting to come across a vine that had been overlooked. So now I know....but I wonder why I see so few of the adults? THey are close in size to a zebra, right? thanks again for the help...I learn something every day!!...See MoreI'm in tears - would you ask them to leave?
Comments (39)Caryscott made some very good points. I have had English speakers and non-English speakers work on my house and I have to say that there have been more problems from the English speaking ones in my case. Knowledge of a language, or lack of, is not the deciding factor in how things come out. Skill, attention to detail and communicating with someone until you understand are all very important. Even if someone can't speak directly to me, there is always someone who is bilingual around and gestures, pictures and drawings help. I have had my words ignored by American born contractors who were told in simple English, often with pix, and yet managed to screw something up anyway. I think it is more about gender tendencies than origin of birth (ducking from the men here, lol). My dh will often not hear something that we, or at least I, clearly discussed. Mistakes will be made. I am just sorry this one has been one that is not easily fixable. I am sure everyone feels awful. I don't think the gc needed to yell at anyone as that solved nothing. Talking clearly to the crew in the first place might have been a better strategy....See MoreIt's 4:24 a.m., and I'm sitting here . . .
Comments (15)Hi all - thanks for your good thoughts and advice. I asked the vet about a sedative, but he was reluctant to prescribe one because of Angel's lifelong heart condition. She takes a heart pill every day, and you'd never know there was a problem, but he didn't want to risk it. He suggested a drug for dementia, but said it would cost $65 a month and it would take two months to know if it's working. So I passed on that. I do take both dogs out just before I go to bed. Last night she started barking less than a half hour later, so I knew it didn't have anything to do with needing to go out. My dogs are both large--a Husky Shepherd (Wolfy) and a Briard mix. Over the years I've had dogs I can let out by themselves, but not these two. Wolfy would run off for sure (arthritis and all), and I don't trust Angel to stay near the house either. When I put her out the door in the middle of the night she is on a 20' lead attached to my inside door knob (with the door closed). I can bring her in if I need to, but with her dementia she is not as efficient about peeing as she used to be. Sometimes she stands outside sniffing the air for quite a while. I think she sleeps while I'm at work. I base that on the fact that so far she hasn't had an accident while I'm away. I'm gone a minimum of seven hours; this past weekend it was longer. At night I don't dare sleep longer than six hours at a stretch, or I'll find a puddle when I get up. Usually she doesn't bark if I'm downstairs, but occasionally she'll start in. At those times she's not barking at anything--she's just barking. I've tried leaving a light on downstairs at night, but that hasn't seemed to help. You know, these disturbances during the night, the messes to clean up, the unexplained behavior, etc., remind me a great deal of what it was like during the years of my DH's dementia. Strange. I know family patterns sometimes repeat through generations, but I wouldn't think it would happen within one generation, from man to dog. I suspect my karma is involved. Susan...See MoreI'm really missing my kitchen witch...
Comments (14)KAT...."I'll get you my pretty"!!!...(said in my bestest Wicked Witch of the West voice)...LOL I had a mad on when I was cooking last night...that was 99 percent of my problem... Socks I googled them too...DANG they are expensive...I don't even remember where mine came from but I swore she brought me good luck in my cooking...I had her for years...she was grease laden...stinky...but I swore by her.. MarilynSue...that is so neat that you still have it......See More- 10 months agolast modified: 10 months agoschoolhouse_gw thanked carolb_w_fl_coastal_9/10
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