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Color help needed - I'm ready to tear my hair out!
Comments (19)Thanks for your suggestions, everyone. I think you're correct that using a mix of colors and textures will make both of us happy. DH has agreed to a different color island, but doesn't like the look of painted uppers with stained lowers. He says it's "trendy and weird." I don't understand his logic, but whatever. I am so FRUSTRATED because he cares what the kitchen looks like but doesn't offer many suggestions of his own. He says I can do "whatever," but wants veto power over anything he really hates. Which is pretty much anything that strays from what's on our builder's website. I've decided that I can no longer look at photos of any kitchens with white; it makes me sad. I'm looking for inspiration from stained kitchens that I DO like. So, here's what DH & I can agree on: - a wood species with a very subtle grain - DONE - simple cabinet design without a lot of ornamentation - DONE - a medium or dark stain that doesn't have strong red or yellow undertones - getting there - a light, subtle granite that doesn't hog the spotlight - considering Giallo Ornamental, which should meet that need - a wood floor that contrasts with the cabinets - getting there - doing something very geometric with the backsplash - painted island - still undecided. I love the idea in theory, but I need to figure out how to integrate it with the rest of the design. I'd love tips on how to do this. Would it be accurate to say that given all our neutral choices, the backsplash needs to be the star? In case you're wondering, DH is making concessions, too. Our compromise is that I'll concede quite a bit on the kitchen, but I get full reign to do pretty much whatever I like in the bathrooms. Two of the three bathrooms WILL have white cabinets. :)...See MoreMy DH made a huge costly mistake with hardware! I'm in tears
Comments (46)You sounded like me when I came home yesterday to find my 6x24 plank wood-look tile had been installed in the bathroom... in the wrong direction. It was just not what I had envisioned or wanted, and I was upset, but no way was I making him take it out. I had gotten it very cheap, job is running behind and I want to be done. Plus, my mistake for not telling the tiler which way. I had just ASSumed it was obvious it should go the other way. Well, not obvious to the tiler (though I wondered why he didn't ask, when there's a 50/50 no turning back issue like that)... but still, he didn't do anything wrong, and even my husband said he liked it the "wrong" way. Still isn't what I wanted, but the tile is gorgeous, and the effect of the color is still the same and I love it, even if I have to accept it as different from my vision. In your case, mistake = beautiful, so once your mind accepts that, you'll be good to do. :)...See MoreIt's 4:24 a.m., and I'm sitting here . . .
Comments (15)Hi all - thanks for your good thoughts and advice. I asked the vet about a sedative, but he was reluctant to prescribe one because of Angel's lifelong heart condition. She takes a heart pill every day, and you'd never know there was a problem, but he didn't want to risk it. He suggested a drug for dementia, but said it would cost $65 a month and it would take two months to know if it's working. So I passed on that. I do take both dogs out just before I go to bed. Last night she started barking less than a half hour later, so I knew it didn't have anything to do with needing to go out. My dogs are both large--a Husky Shepherd (Wolfy) and a Briard mix. Over the years I've had dogs I can let out by themselves, but not these two. Wolfy would run off for sure (arthritis and all), and I don't trust Angel to stay near the house either. When I put her out the door in the middle of the night she is on a 20' lead attached to my inside door knob (with the door closed). I can bring her in if I need to, but with her dementia she is not as efficient about peeing as she used to be. Sometimes she stands outside sniffing the air for quite a while. I think she sleeps while I'm at work. I base that on the fact that so far she hasn't had an accident while I'm away. I'm gone a minimum of seven hours; this past weekend it was longer. At night I don't dare sleep longer than six hours at a stretch, or I'll find a puddle when I get up. Usually she doesn't bark if I'm downstairs, but occasionally she'll start in. At those times she's not barking at anything--she's just barking. I've tried leaving a light on downstairs at night, but that hasn't seemed to help. You know, these disturbances during the night, the messes to clean up, the unexplained behavior, etc., remind me a great deal of what it was like during the years of my DH's dementia. Strange. I know family patterns sometimes repeat through generations, but I wouldn't think it would happen within one generation, from man to dog. I suspect my karma is involved. Susan...See MoreI'm really missing my kitchen witch...
Comments (14)KAT...."I'll get you my pretty"!!!...(said in my bestest Wicked Witch of the West voice)...LOL I had a mad on when I was cooking last night...that was 99 percent of my problem... Socks I googled them too...DANG they are expensive...I don't even remember where mine came from but I swore she brought me good luck in my cooking...I had her for years...she was grease laden...stinky...but I swore by her.. MarilynSue...that is so neat that you still have it......See More- 7 months agolast modified: 7 months agoschoolhouse_gw thanked carolb_w_fl_coastal_9/10
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