I just had the worst cheesecake of my life....and I made it
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Comments (33)OOoh, are you up there near those Sand Mountain tomatoes???? You'll find it SO much fun when everything starts growing and remember, the "hunt" for organic materials will be even more fun! I had let my beds go to rack and ruin over the last several years and last year decided enough was enough and was going to do lasagna gardening (it might have been around this time last year...gorgeous weather like we've had the last few days. I was driving by a bank where the landscape company had bagged up the old mulch and dirt to get ready to re-mulch and asked if I could have it. They thought I was nuts but I haven't stopped. I just can't wait for the grass to start getting cut around here! Just pulled 25 bales of hay to the back yard that I'm going to layer on the beds today, ala Ruth Stout method, a precursor to lasagna gardening. (See if your library has any of her books, they are a HOOT!) I am also working on mixing up stuff for beneficial microorganisms from yogurt whey and molasses. Roll Tide! Here is a link that might be useful: Check out this Granny Gardener! :)...See MoreJust about the worst news I could get
Comments (50)There's the rub: no morning sun in my yard and 9 large maples planted just on the other side of my fence, exactly where I need them to NOT be. I can't remove those trees as they belong to the neighboring church. It's afternoon sun or no sun at all. On the bright side, it has been far milder for the last week and we had more rain in one day (Monday) than we had over the last 2 months. So far so good. Odd though, because mid-August is usually the most severe part of the season for us regarding drought & heat. I shouldn't be surprised--lol--the rest of the year has been Bass Ackwards, so why should it be any different now? :)...See MoreI've never planted a flower in my life and........
Comments (11)Hi Stephanie, I am so very sorry for your loss and I feel the pain you and your family are going through. I have been there before with a special feline friend that I had for 13 years and it is painful. Currently, I have been blessed with a very special, extraordinary canine family member that I love beyond words. I have had him for 5 years now and he is my best friend and brings me enormous joy. The thought of his passing makes my heart hurt and brings tears to my eyes. I am certain the reality will be completely devastating. Your story made my eyes water. Again, heartfelt sympathy for your loss. The memorial is a wonderful idea...for many reasons !!! I do agree with Barb...don't be in too much of a hurry to get it done NOW. I am also somewhat of a novice, which is how I came across this forum yesterday. RESEARCH is the key to success !!! There are so many factors involved and if you don't do the "homework" chances are good that many of your efforts, not to mention the cost will be in vain. There is alot of information to be had here and I am sure you will get some valuable advice and suggestions. In addition, check the web. Just search for EXACTLY what you are looking for and presto, there it will be...eventually. Ha-Ha!!! A suggestion for you that I found extremely helpful, check out the Texas Cooperative Extension (through A&M) for your area. I can't send you a link, because mine is for Bexar county. There I found everything I wanted to know and then some (finally). Size, color, planting instructions, pests and disease, drought and freeze tolerance, growth habits and pictures too !!! I printed out a page that gave me 30 choices(customized) of flower with all of the pertinent info. included...PRICELESS !!! A few years ago I planted a LOVELY garden in my front courtyard. LONG story short, a lot of thought went into this masterpiece of mine. Trouble was that I was going for the VISUAL. Let me just say that it wasn't nearly enough and the longevity wasn't there and yes, I did use all perrenials !!! So that this loving tribute will last for years to come....do your homework. It will take some time, so be patient. It is spring,I am in a beautiful new home(blank canvas)I want to plant NOW. I learned my lesson the hard way, so now, I am INDOORS doing my homework !!!! Your motivation for your garden is much more important than just wanting to see the pretty flowers, so take your time. That in itself can be a form of tribute too, not to mention therapeutic!!!! Good luck and give updates !!!...See MoreI just had an epiphany
Comments (4)I don't think you can go wrong living by the slogan: "Prepare for the worst but hope for the best." GIven background and the difficult nature of these relationships in general, I wouldn't think you're wrong, overly negative, mean or judgemental to do as you have, which is to open yourself to the possibility of an improved relation with her while making mental notes about things that strike you as odd or mildly upsetting (i.e. her not chipping in). Given the situation, you'd be naive to go in with rose-colored glasses. On the other hand, you don't want to find yourself scrutinizing every little thing and wondering too much whether you should take offense. That'll just drive you nuts. Maybe just write down your thoughts as they occur (so you can remember/make sense of upset feelings later if situation devolves, i.e. she continues being consistenty more of a taker than a giver) but then close the notebook and put it in a drawer until you need it again. I'm a believer in remembering and even documenting slights for my own memory (even when people say "just forget it entirely") b/c later on if problems escalate and you haven't clarified the issues you can wind up feeling very crazy and even dis-believed by others. "Gaslighted", unsure if you can even believe yourself or trust your own memory. But once these things are written down, you know you've remembered them/put them somewhere for safe keeping, so it can be easier to let them go and put them out of your mind day-to-day. That can give you more of a sense of freedom and fearlessness remaining open to the idea of positive improvement with her. This trick has helped me in my own life, not solved all the problems or taken away all my anger, but it's helped me feel more clear, calm and confident facing the huge uncertainty and unpredictable hornet's nest that is the situation between me, my Dad and his wife at this intense & volatile time... where all three of us feel somewhat obligated to "play nice" even as all our deepest parent/child/step issues come up....See More- last year
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