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Comments (106)Here's another scenario. Our mother abandoned my dad and us children (7 of us) when I was 13. (Yes, lots of therapy and I'm grown and fine now). But I can remember standing around with hotdogs on forks over our gas stove. We threw countless pot pies in the oven. I can't tell you how many times we'd peddle to the store and buy a box of mac and cheese and that was dinner. My dad simply couldn't do it all and he didn't know how. All of us are now great cooks including my brothers. Any one of them could put on a full Thanksgiving meal that would rival my grandmother's (or my mother's for that matter. For all her faults, she was a great cook). So necessity is the mother of invention. Even if there's nobody to teach you, you can teach yourself, IF you're interested. For my brothers and sisters, nobody ever wanted to be hungry again, and we'd had enough boxed and canned food to last a life time, so we all hit the kitchen with gusto in our early 20's. It's funny though. My husband, who's also a wonderful cook, still says that I make enough to feed an army. There's a reason for that - I never want anyone to be hungry. We both work full days, but our girls know how to make reasonable meals. They've been taught to make some of their favorites such as fettucine alfredo. Sometimes, we'll simply say, you two are in charge of dinner tomorrow night and it can't be pizza in the oven. So they make a simple pasta and that's fine. Two nights ago, they made Ina's French Potato Salad with herbs. They can make fresh pesto with our garden basil. When they're grown, if they want everything out of a can, that's their choice, but at least they will have been shown the basics. My oldest can out bake me every time, including breads. She has a gift, so I'm just not worried about it. They'll figure it out, just like we did! And who knows about canned cucumbers! I have a boatload of fresh that are bound for bread and butter pickling this weekend!...See MoreKT Table check in!
Comments (79)"No offense to my American friends, but the border between Canada and the US is closed with some exceptions (trade for example); but I'll be happy to see it stay closed for however long it takes." I'll bet you and your fellow Canadians never expected that your southern border would be with a nation run like a Third World country, complete with a dictator as if it were a "banana republic". I don't blame Canada for keeping that border closed....See MoreAny Landlords on the KT? Need Tips.
Comments (19)@chisue, the pitfalls of owning triple net lease (NNN) properties can be with rent being fixed for the terms of the lease. That means you're kind of stuck if property value goes up, and NNN lease terms can be long, such as 10 years or more. Also, you have the risk of a tenant defaulting that obviously can mean losses. That's why we were very careful with choosing tenants/businesses that are well vetted. So far we've been really lucky, as with the property I mentioned we've had since 2002. We literally have sat back and done nothing but collect the monthly rent. BTW, we didn't purchase that one. It was owned by my MIL and went to us when she passed away in 2002. We have a great realtor who pretty much deals with just commercial properties. DH also did a ton of research. He knows waaaaay more than I do about this stuff. We sold 14 residential properties here in SoCal in order to purchase the new commercial properties that were done as 1031 exchanges. ETA - Just wanted to add tenants, in general, aren't usually thrilled about a NNN lease due to the costs I mentioned. However, NNN leases often feature less base rent than tenants get with more traditional leases. Also, I mentioned landlords being stuck if property values increase. DH reminded me that NNN leases can include annual increases while others don't increase until the end of the lease. There's a lot to consider but all's worked very well for us....See MoreLandlord and neighbor causing serious issues for my quality of life
Comments (1)As a fellow renter with sensitivities to fragrance, this resonates. And I know the rental market across the country is impossible to navigate right now. Some thoughts I had you might explore: Could you convert another room into your bedroom so you don't have to sleep next to the furnace? Unconventional, I know, but sleep is essential. Otherwise (or possibly in addition) maybe look into some adaptations other renters have put in place to put acoustic foam panels up, and some combination of white noise machine/ noise cancelling headphones... See if the utility companies or some other agency that does free home weatherization can come out to assess your unit and seal up some of those connected services-- if they can evaluate the whole building, you or they could provide the results to your landlord, and it should show him how much he can save by doing those updates, and there is usually funding for all or part as well. If you are on any kind of rental assistance (or if he has gotten any federal or state assistance for upgrades etc), he may be obligated to improve the building retrofits, esp if you can't control your own heat or if the ventilation system is putting particulates into your apartment and negatively affecting air quality - this might be something you have to dig into, but might be worth it. There are some relatively affordable CO2 monitors available that would be a place to start to collect data, otherwise there may be some agency that can do air testing for you. Look into getting an air purifier if you don't already have one. Good to have anyway, esp since you don't have windows that open - (this also sounds like a building code violation to me, so that may be a point of leverage for you with the landlord, check with your local building inspector/health department...) Your local legal aid service or a nearby law school housing law clinic may be able to give you more specific advice too. Wishing you the very best luck....See More- 3 years agolast modified: 3 years ago
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