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Traumatised at the grocery ;-)

colleenoz
15 years ago

I was in the canned vegetables section today getting some tomatoes when I spotted a new range of canned vegetables. Why on earth anyone thought canning broccoli, cauliflower or sliced (unpickled) cucumbers (all separately, I hasten to add) was a good idea is beyond me :-P

Then I spotted the canned macaroni cheese. :-P :-P

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  • User
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Interesting thread .. as a child in the 50's I had a stay at home mom who loved "processed food", she never met a can she did not like. Now she did have a couple or more of good dishes that she could cook ie: her stuffed cabbage, chicken and dumplings, paprikash (sp?) but I always thought a cake was "betty in a box". She never baked from scratch except on holidays, and even her stuffing was premix.

    Nope, for her it had nothing to do with the "women's movement" :)

    OTOH, I have always cooked .. even as a young woman, and tried to interest my children in these skills. They are just not interested, unless of course I cook/bake it.

  • bunnyman
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    LOL! This is getting to be one of those classic GW threads! The news was so ugly today that a little CF tonic really helped.

    : )
    lyra

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    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    This is just my opinion, OK? Not mad at anybody.

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  • annie1992
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    ilene, you just brought up another of my issues, the over packaging of all that convenience food. I do recyle anything that the recycling center will take, but what the heck do I do with all those ziplock bags? At least my homecanned vegetables use the same jars, year after year. I'm still using some of Grandma's, at least 30 years old. When they break or chip, I can recycle them too.

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  • rivkadr
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I just have to comment that I really wish that I had learned how to cook when I was younger -- I was raised by my grandmother, who was a wonderful cook. Why didn't I learn from her when I had the chance?? Now that I'm trying to learn how to do it, it's a bit of a struggle. I've been subsisting on prepackaged meals, and very simple things (pasta, scrambled eggs, etc) that can be cooked with minimal effort for years.

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  • mimsic
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    rivkadr: There is a wonderful book that is out of print but frequently available in used book stores. The Kitchen Primer, by Craig Claybourne. He was a wonderful food writer for the NY Times in the 70s (and probably earlier). The book was given to me when I was first married. Besides learning what a lot of those annoying recipe words meant,I made my first souffle from it, following the step-y-step directions. That was a New Years Day accomplishment that impressed my husband, his sophisticated city friends and most of all myself.

    It is really worth the search to find that book.

  • livingthedream
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • mimsic
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    As far as I know, those peeled hard boiled eggs are found in places where people need something to eat on the run and are packaged 1 or 2 in a pack. I don't think they are found in a typical supermarket or meant to be served at home. You know, when you are about to get on an airplane or sit through a presentation at a conference or a meeting late in the afternoon. I rather like that there are things for grab and go that are essentially healthy actual food. An egg packs a lot of nutrition. Sure it is nice to pack and carry a nourishing meal from home, but if you are staying in a hotel or conference center or about to board the train or plane, an individually wrapped hard boiled egg is an excellent option. And that is my less than humble opinion!

  • lindac
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • trsinc
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    What a great bio lindac. I love hearing about the old days - no offense. I think more older people should talk about what things used to be like.

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    Even when I worked 40 - 50 hours a week plus the commute I've always cooked every day. Now, let's look at that a bit closer... I don't have children to shuffle to every soccer game, ballet class etc. And I can't imagine doing all of the housework, laundry, cooking, working AND kid related things. But, in the old days, you had to have clean clothes, etc., so you just made yourself do it. These days, women don't have to. If they can cut some time they do. But, even most women I know who don't have kids and live in apartments won't cook. Most women I know that are my age (30's) seem to find cooking demeaning. Like they are a slave to their man or something. This may just be a phenomenon in the area where I live, I don't know. But, it is definitely a cultural attitude here.

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  • mimsic
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • colleenoz
    Original Author
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    My main objection to convenience foods (apart from their relatively high cost compared to from scratch cooking and their often "fake" taste) is the amount of chemicals in them. I prefer to limit my chemical intake, though I know it's not entirely avoidable unless I go totally organic. There's also a shipload of salt in most of those, as well as hidden sugar. Apparently we are eating so much in the way of preservatives that people don't decompose as quickly as they used to. Food for thought.
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  • ilene_in_neok
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Try having a kid with A.D.D. and the doctor tells you to eliminate artificial flavors and colors and other additives. What can your kid eat? Next to nothing. Can he eat in the school cafeteria? No. Can he buy something out of the vending machine? No. So, because it is so difficult and it makes your child feel like an outcast, you end up putting him on medication, which increases his blood pressure and heart rate and who knows what the long-term result will be? And this is not the only example. High fructose corn syrup is in practically everything. They are finding, now that we've all had a steady diet of it for years and years, that it contributes to obesity because it inhibits the ability to know when you are full and increases your appetite for more sugar. Some states in our country are now banning trans fats, which has been in convenience and fast food for years. These are all valid arguments and none of them have anything to do with money.

    But, in our country, doesn't everything, eventually, come down to money? Many, but not all, people are poor because they don't know how to get the most out of what money they have, how to save, and how to resist marketing techniques. Everyone would live better if they had these three abilities, even the well-to-do. Think of all the good that could be done with the money that is blown on self-indulgence in our country. But, ah, that's another soapbox.

    I agree with Colleen, and I'm on the same track with Linda. Mimsic, I understand what you're saying. And trsink, I get what you're saying, too. Livingthedream, I guess what you're saying is, how does one determine where to draw the line? I don't pay someone to clean my house, do my gardening, wash my car, etc., etc. I do pay someone to change my oil because the difference in cost is not that much and I don't want to skinny under my car and get oil in my eyes. BUT, if the cost went up to twice what it would cost for me to do it myself, I'd do it. I cut my own hair and that of my grandson and husband, although there are times when I will pay someone to put in a perm or repair a mistake I've made on my own head (cause I can't see the back! LOL). But this is not about the money, or about convenience. I do know people who grind their own wheat. In order to grind my own wheat, I'd have to have a source for wheatberries that would be cheaper than buying flour, and I'd have to have a wheat grinder. If flour gets to be expensive, I will probably look further into that. But as of right now, wheatberries aren't available to me except by mail. Then I'm paying shipping, too. However, to grate my own cheese doesn't require anything but a 99-cent grater and I'm able to find cheese in block form in my local grocery store, for less per pound than the grated stuff. So maybe where the line is, depends on availability of the base product and the cost of equipment to prepare it or the level of expertise necessary to know how. And I don't buy ham or bacon often because of the chemicals. Pork roast and pork loin are always in my freezer, though. Another factor would be in how often you have to do something. I need to change my oil only periodically. But I need to cook daily.

    Rivkadr, I can see that if one has never learned how to cook, doing so can be a little daunting. But often it is because "newbies" actually think it's harder than it is. There are some things that are hard, like making a souffle or a two-crust pie, or a seven-layer cake. I'm here to tell you that most of my cooking is not like that. I don't sift flour, I don't always saute, when I bake a cake it's usually in a 9x11 cake pan, and I frost it and serve it right out of the pan. I do like to cream the shortening, egg and sugar together when making cookies, but I discovered when I made cookie mix in a jar one year that even that is not absolutely necessary in turning out a product that's as good or better than something you can buy. I do a lot of tossing things together in a skillet, or in a casserole. If you're interested, I could share some of my family's favorites, that are also easy, either by posting here or you could e-mail me. I bet others could do the same. The rules would be ease of preparation, good-tasting, no expensive ingredients, no fancy equipment required.

    Things ARE different now than they were when I was a kid in the 1950's and 1960's. We lived in a small town and I wasn't on any teams, I don't even know if they had organized sports for kids in our area then, other than that offered by the school. I went to church and youth group and the Friday night ball games at school and I was on the pep-squad. I walked there, or rode my bike, usually with several others that lived along the way. If we had a game out of town, the school bussed the pep-squad and the team there. My mother would never have even considered driving me to the next town so I could chase a ball around with a bunch of other kids, let alone put her life on hold for my social life. (ah, but that's another soapbox too! ;)

    Heck, I don't care if anybody wants to buy a peeled egg, and I do see their place. But I don't see how making your own can be that expensive. I can get six eggs in a small saucepan, cover them with water and boil them for five minutes. How much energy does that take? I don't have to stand there and watch them while they cook. When they're done they go on the counter to cool, five of them go in the fridge for later and one gets dropped in the pocket in the front of my tote bag. The shell keeps it clean and pure till I'm ready to eat it. The pan, well it's just had boiling water in it, you could just wipe it out and put it away if you wanted to.

    I don't think that cooking is demeaning. I think that having to work when you'd rather stay home is demeaning. I worked for some years because I wanted to, and then I worked for some years because I HAD to. We could not afford for me to stay home. It's a luxury to me to be able to stay home, putter around in my kitchen and garden. I feel really blessed to be able to do it. If I wake up with a cold I don't have to call anyone and make excuses, wondering if they believe me, and know that if I'm not better in two days I've got to go to the doctor whether I need to or not so I can get a release to prove I was actually sick. If I want to stay up late and watch a movie on TV I can, and then the next day I can sleep late or have a nap in the middle of the day. What makes staying home and taking care of your family demeaning when going to work for some stranger, who pays you only a small portion of what he makes as a result of your labors, is not?

    This has been a fun discussion and I'm really proud of all of us that we've been nice to each other and all. Truly, we older gals have a different perspective on things. But this is a good bunch and if y'all weren't interested in cooking, face it, you wouldn't be visiting this forum. ;) --Ilene

  • mimsic
    15 years ago
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    Its having the choice that matters most in this whole thing. Remember that ad for Mounds Bars or Almond Joys: "sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't" - well, sometimes you (some people) feel like cooking, sometimes you (some people) don't. Good for us that there are lots of alternatives when we don't or can't. And that's all there is to it.

  • teresa_nc7
    15 years ago
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    FYI - those already peeled, hard cooked eggs are in sturdy plastic see-thru containers and they are in the egg case along with their raw brethren. Usually 4 or 6 in a carton? This is in an upscale Harris Teeter store in my mid-sized town.

    And to save money and the environment, I wash by hand most of my plastic bags, especially the heavy freezer bags. I hang them up to dry in the laundry room and I re-use and re-use them until they get a hole or tear in them. I'm sure there are some of you that can't imagine doing that, but it is a little thing I can do.

  • donnar57
    15 years ago
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    Lunchables - my kids used to beg me to buy them for their lunches. One time I did. They came home so hungry from school that they wanted dinner 3-1/2 hours after lunch. The next time they wanted one, I took a Tupperware container, put in some crackers, chunks of cheese and lunchmeat, and stuck that in their lunchbox. I gave them about twice as much plus their usual "dessert", fruit and drink. They thought they'd died and gone to heaven - one of them called it, "Mom's Lunchables!" How hard was it? It took me about 2 minutes to prepare their lunches instead of 1. Geesh.

    I admit to taking convenience foods for my own lunches a bit: a frozen Lean Cuisine, a carton of Yoplait, and a fat-free pudding. Sometimes I make my own fat-free puddings, and I always include some sort of fruit - whether it be from a can or fresh (depending on what's available and reasonable).

    To Teresa_nc7 - one of the things that "gets" me about the plastic bag issue is a health law. I teach Music...every semester, I put a freshly laundered and folded choir shirt in a brand new clean zippered bag with a child's name on it. The shirt goes home, and when it comes back a couple of months later, it's supposed to have been washed and neatly folded. Of course, being a somewhat persnickety person, I always take all the shirts (40+ tux shirts) home and wash them again before folding them and putting them in the shirt box. Now here's the rub....I'm supposed to throw that bag away and not reuse it. One exception: I can reuse it for the same child the following year IF that child joins choir again. Can I recycle that bag with grocery bags? No. Can I recycle it in our blue-recycling bin? I don't think so...I'm actually not sure. Anyone know?

    DonnaR/CA

  • teresa_nc7
    15 years ago
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    Unfortunately, I don't think zip bags are recyclable. You could wash some of the bags and reuse them yourself? I think they meant that you couldn't reuse the plastic bags the next year to contain the choir shirts.

    That is really a waste. I feel that if I wash the bags in hot, soapy water and let them air dry, then they are as clean as I need them to be for my own use. Works for me, and I am never sick.

  • robin_DC
    15 years ago
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    I have been reading this thread with interest, and it actually prompted me to post on this forum for the first time (usually frequent the decorating & real estate forums). Triciae and others have already said most of what I would have said, but I wanted to share my perspective.

    Lindac asked what people are doing these days that takes so much time. In my experience, and that of my friends, the answer is work and commuting to and from work. According to my parents (who are 66 and 70) careers and "jobs" today expect more of your time and life than they used to.

    In the DC area -- which is where I live --- and particularly among lawyers (I am an attorney), getting home at 6 or 6:30 is a luxury. On an average day I leave work between 7 and 7:30, and arrive home around 8, and I frequently bring work home with me. In fact the reason I am still up tonight is that I had work to do this weekend. Since my husband works an earlier schedule and needs to go to bed by 10 or 10:30, we usually need to eat within 15 minutes of when I walk in the door (and I am not a fast cook!).

    I enjoy cooking, so I have found ways to squeeze it into my schedule. Sometimes I cook dinner at night after my husband has gone to bed, and refrigerate it, so we can reheat it the next day. Other days I will go to work a half hour or 45 minutes late and cook in the morning (easier for me to start late than to leave 'early'). Also am getting better about cooking large enough quanitities to have leftovers for a few days. "Fresh" meals, cooked shortly before eating them, are reserved for Sundays.

    Cooking is only one of my hobbies; I also love gardening, decorating, reading, and playing tennis. Errands and chores all need to be done on the weekend too. So something has to give. I use some convenience products to reduce prep time (e.g. canned salmon for salmon patties vs. cooking a fillet and flaking it myself; rotisserie chicken for enchiladas and burritos vs. dicing/shredding and cooking chicken breasts first, corn muffins are usually from a mix). I primarily use frozen vegetables, vs. fresh, so that I don't have to worry about throwing out produce that has gone bad because I didn't have time to cook it that week. I may doctor up a premade pasta sauce instead of making my own sauce if I'm really in a pinch. And if I'm spending a lot of weekend time on one of my other hobbies (like spring/fall garden work), or work I brought home from my job, even Sunday dinner has to be something I can whip up in about 30 minutes (or stick in the oven after minimal prep time), and is more likely to include some type of prep shortcut.

    Sometimes (but not always, depending on the product) these preparatin shortcuts mean compromising a bit on taste, so that the food is a B+ vs. an A. But I have recognized that, to remain sane and have a little bit of time to rest, I can't expect every meal to be perfect, and/or elaborate. And by reading labels and experimenting, it's actually not hard to figure out which of these time-saving products (like trader joe's frozen french green beans or specific stores' rotisserie chicken/turkey breasts) are a good substitute for more labor-intensive but 'authentic' ingredients. And which are not (prepackaged frozen chopped onions usually are too mildly flavored for me, so I chop and freeze my own).

    As someone who really loves to cook (and reading recipes and cookbooks), it is a challenge to make dinner the 2-4 times a week that I manage to cook. If I did not enjoy cooking as much as I do -- and most people don't -- I would probably use more convenience products, like the premade roasts or heat and eat side dishes.

    Very few of my close friends from school and work cook. Some have husbands who cook. And others mostly eat take-out, frozen food, and prepared (or pre-seasoned uncooked) foods from whole foods or other nice grocery stores. It works for them. I don't think cooking would be an efficient use of their time, since it is not something they enjoy or particularly want to do, and there are plenty of things they do enjoy that they wish they had more time to pursue.

    Also, not all pre-packaged foods are less healthy than scratch cooking. I've seen several pre-packaged mashed potatoes that are lower in calories and fat than any home-made recipe I've seen (even in cooking light). Trader joes and whole foods sell lots of frozen and refrigerated prepared food that has no preservatives or artificial flavors. There are even health food versions of boxed macaroni and cheese (although I've never tried them; just too different from the southern style macaroni and cheese that i grew up with).

    I choose to cook, sometimes entirely from scratch, sometimes not, mostly somewhere in the middle. But that choice comes at the expense of other things. I can understand why other people choose differently. I admire the people on the forum who have time, and have decided to, do 100 percent scratch cooking, and I enjoy reading the recipes and looking at pictures. But that doesn't work for everyone.

  • rachelellen
    15 years ago
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    Ilene wrote: Many, but not all, people are poor because they don't know how to get the most out of what money they have, how to save, and how to resist marketing techniques.

    This is true. Because my mother was a divorced, sole-custody mother before it was fashionable, we were quite poor in terms of finances, but for the most part (aside from a few, really lean years in the beginning), we ate quite well because she was educated, intelligent, and concerned about nutrition.

    I had friends who's families were on welfare that always seemed to have more cash and possessions than we did, and they very often ate over priced junk. $1.50 for a sandwich from the local convenience store sounded cheap, unless you realized that you could buy a chicken for that price that could provide more than one meal for one person.

    One of the difficult things about being poor, is that you really can save more money if you have a bit to spend...or rather, invest.

    I save us amazing amounts of money by buying large quantities of items I know we use on a regular basis when I find a good deal. If I had to buy these items one bit at a time because I couldn't come up with the cash to buy a lot of them at once when they were on sale, I'd end up spending a lot more money in the long run.

  • mimsic
    15 years ago
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    Welcome to the cooking forum Robin dc. My experience here leads me to believe that just about everyone on the forum cooks like you do, "...sometimes entirely from scratch, sometimes not, mostly somewhere in the middle...". Its just that we also tend to be 'sometimes entirely understanding and fair, sometimes not, but mostly somewhere in the middle' when it comes to judging what others do with food. Often times I find myself to be pretty judgmental at first then read other posts and see the beauty in different ways of doing things.

  • ilene_in_neok
    15 years ago
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    I hope nobody thinks anybody is being judgmental here. We are all just stating what works for us and what our opinions are. :) I certainly can see that there are situations where one must make choices; however they need to be informed ones. Someone who has not read this forum before can read this thread and see that we are a diverse group and that no one person's opinion is quite the same as others; therefore whatever path a person takes is not to be looked down upon just because it doesn't conform with someone else's. Just because I wouldn't buy something doesn't mean I ridicule someone else for doing so. My main point is, know what it is you're getting, read the contents label, if you're paying extra, know that and be OK with it. Too many people just grab something without thought. Too many people buy things because they have been so bombarded with marketing that they think it's a wise choice when maybe it isn't, or because their kids are clamoring for it. And many people think cooking from scratch is so hard and so time-consuming that they couldn't possibly do it, which is not necessarily true.

    Donna, I loved your home-made lunchables!

    Teresa, I think plastic bags are recyclable in some places, but in my area, the only recycling center is run by people with disabilities. They only take cardboard, plastic containers (but no plastic bags of any kind), newspaper, magazines and office paper. No glass, no styrofoam. When people leave bags and other stuff they don't recycle, they have to throw it in their dumpster and sometimes it actually costs them extra to get rid of it, which is a burden to them.

    Being a "scratch cook", more or less, I do take some shortcuts. I have a chest-type freezer and after having had one all my married life I just don't know how I could get along without it. It's full all the time, with meats I have bought on sale, vegetables and fruits I have grown myself, shelled pecans from a friend's tree, and things I have bought in bulk, like baker's yeast, flour, dry milk (yes, that's a shortcut I take, I use it to make some of my own mixes, such as cornbread, biscuit, pancake, pudding and sauces. I keep those on a shelf in half-pint or pint canning jars, reusing a flat and a screw band. I figure I have to store the jar anyway, why not have it full of something?). But where I was going with this is that when I cook, I nearly always make extra. The extra meal(s) go into the freezer, either partially prepared (potatoes and rice change in consistency when frozen)or totally, and sometimes in individual portions, sometimes not. Right now, my freezer contains: 24 plate-sized baked pizzas, 1 cabbage roll casserole (add rice and bake), a 5-qt ice cream tub full of chocolate chip cookie dough, 1 tamale pie casserole, a bag of cooked meatballs, a bag of homemade noodles, uncooked, cooked brisket in one-pound packages, cooked turkey breast in one-pound packages, and some chicken enchiladas. There's a chocolate twinkie cake baked in advance for an upcoming event. I also save the liquids and bits and tads that remain after cooking a vegetable, adding layer after layer into a half-gallon-sized freezer container kept in my kitchen refrigerator/freezer until it is full. During the winter I make a lot of soup and one of these is my base.

    I always keep cookie dough in my freezer because when I run my oven, I don't like wasting a shelf. I've got a casserole on one shelf and I pop a tray of cookies on the other. Sometimes I can bake 4 dozen or so while the main dish is baking. If my family doesn't inhale the cookies right away, I can always freeze them for later.

    I don't know how it is where all of you are, but where I am there are lots of places to eat. I always go check out the restrooms before we sit down to eat at a place we're not familiar with. If they are not clean, we don't eat there, and believe me, we've walked out of quite a few places without ordering. The problem with restaurant eating is that you don't see in the kitchen. You don't see if someone sneezed over the tomato sauce pot or if the guy standing at the grill has his hand down his pants, scratching. You sit down at a table some stranger sat at moments before you and you don't see if their little boy picked his nose and wiped it on the table while they were there, or know if the table was properly cleaned off before you sat down. If you pick up fast food, you don't know if they have mice or roaches or even whether they dropped your hamburger on the floor before they put it in the bun. And you paid more for your meal than it would cost you to make it at home.

    Being poor DOES make it difficult to save, but I've been poor and my family never went hungry. It's pure drudgery getting out of the rut, and I remember wondering if things would EVER get better. Every penny I could pinch from buying basics went to pay off debts and buy tools that would help me be more economical. Rachel, you made a good point about watching someone buy a sandwich for the same money you could buy a whole chicken with. The mentality is, "It's only a buck-fifty, what's the big deal?" But if you do that on an ongoing basis (and lots of people do, especially the under educated), over a period of a month you could probably squander away a lot of money. I'm adding a link that expounds on that very subject. This guy is making a lot of money teaching people that very concept.

    This is long and I apologize for it. I also apologize if I've hurt anyone's feelings as I've never had that intention. --Ilene

  • rachelellen
    15 years ago
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    The "Latte Factor" seems like such a simple thing, but it's very true. During my years in the restaurant business, the servers who complained often about being broke and begged extra shifts off other servers because they had to pay their rent or whatever were almost always the ones who ate their meals at the restaurant instead of going home to eat (we got half price, but half price fancy restaurant meals are still not cheap), came in with a Starbuck's in hand (though we could drink all the coffee we wanted) and routinely sat down at the bar after their shift for a cocktail or six. Sometimes, after a slow night, I know by the time they paid for their meal and their drinks, they would go home with half or less of what they'd made that shift.

    I'm not saying that I never ate or drank at work, but it was the exception, not the rule. We got free salads, soups and bread in any case, so if you didn't want to go home or were working a double you certainly didn't have to go hungry.

    But it was as though these people didn't make any connection in their minds between the thoughtless way in which they spent money and the fact that they were broke half the time.

    I have a tendency to think of luxury purchases in terms of work hours. That fast food meal, that foo foo coffee, that glass of wine = what percentage of my earnings per hour at work? Would I be willing to work that amount of time in exchange for that item if things were done on a barter basis? If the answer is no, then I go home to eat or drink.

    Thinking this way, I look at the time spent grocery shopping, prepping and cooking meals as earning money for things I want more than I want the burger and fries that isn't that great anyway. The money I save by my effort at cutting up a chicken for it's parts instead of buying them pre cut is going for the downpayment when my husband and I finally buy a house. The money I save by repairing our own clothes instead of throwing them away or paying someone else to do it will help buy that keyboard my husband has been wanting.

    I have often thought that public assistance should come with a requirement of financial counseling of some sort. No, I'm not saying that everyone who has gone through hard times is a spendthrift or anything of the sort. I'm just saying that a good many people who are on public assistance could greatly benefit from some education/training on how to get out of that rut, as Ilene put it. It isn't easy at all, but it can be done.

    Because my mother had the education and understanding of how to do it, we went from having those days at the end of the month where dinner was peanut butter sandwiches or spaghetti noodles with butter, salt & pepper to purchasing a home in about 5 years. There was a lot of self denial on her part to get us there, but she did it.

  • emmisme
    15 years ago
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    I'm a devoted lurker and seldom poster but I have to jump in on this conversation because "Lunchables" has been mentioned several times.

    My niece was in first grade and Mother's Day was coming up. The teacher had them write a short essay describing their favorite meal their mom made for them, including ingredients and instructions. You guessed it ...Lunchables! Funny but so sad.

  • wannadanc
    15 years ago
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    Quoting: "Hey gardengrl-- there are people out there who have never ( and don't want to know how) peeled or chopped a vegetable."

    To that I must add my shock upon hearing from a dear friend that she had NEVER eaten a fruit or vegetable right off the vine, the tree, the bush. This came up when some friends offered her peas fresh from their garden and she watched carefully to learn HOW to pick them! She had never picked a berry from a vine while walking a country lane, nor picked a cherry or apple from an abandoned orchard tree.

    As for canned vegetables: My brother and I LOVED canned spinach w/ lots of vinegar --- but canned peas are just about the worst thing I ever had to eat ....... not that I appreciated lima beans or creamed (fresh) celery, either.

    This thread is a huge, insiteful education!!!!!!!

  • ilene_in_neok
    15 years ago
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    Agreed, both emmisme and rachel.

    Rachel, yes, you certainly can dig yourself out of the rut. When I married my husband, 40 years ago, he had been married before. We had one child born to us, adopted my nephew and bought a car and then the debt collectors from his previous marriage found us. We went from "squeezing by" to "in the hole". It nearly ruined our marriage.

    I had no homemaking skills except for a little learned in high school Home-Ec. I began to educate myself with library books (there was no internet then). I learned to cook and manage money, and I had to use some pretty strong-arm tactics to re-educate my husband!

    By the time our children were grown, we had paid off our home in advance, saving $17,000 of interest on the mortgage, and we had no debts. We have been totally debt-free for years and we can't imagine, now, living any other way.

    If I could say just a few things to young couples just starting out, it would be, "Get out of debt and stay out of debt. Don't buy anything on impulse. And show respect for the hours of toil that it took to be able to purchase what you have by taking good care of it."

    I used go to yard sales a lot, back when gas was cheaper. Sometimes I still will, and I consider it a recreational cost because I get to visit with people I didn't know before. Sometimes I'll find a great deal on something that will make it worth the cost of getting there. But I notice how much "stuff" people are selling for pennies on the dollar. And some of it, you can tell, was an impulse buy. It might've been Benjamin Franklin who said, "If you take care of the pennies, the dollars will take care of themselves."

    Well now I am 'way off topic.

  • triciae
    15 years ago
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    When I lived in NH there was a special summer program for inner-city kids designed to put them in touch with their food supply. None of those kids had ever seen where their food came from. They went to farms & picked veggies & fruit then made their lunches from the haul. They toured small animal farms (chickens, goats, lambs). Most of those kids had never seen a farm animal before except in books.

    Sadly, due to budget constraints the program doesn't exist anymore.

    /t

  • livingthedream
    15 years ago
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    There's nothing new about people not wanting to know where their food comes from. I had a neighbor who was horrified that I bought vegetables at farm stands where they could have dirt on them, instead of cellophane-wrapped stuff from the supermarket. The year was 1971, and we lived in a new community where the farm stands were closer than the nearest supermarket.

    All of my sons know how to cook. One of them actually did food prep at a catering business while in high school. But now he pretty much lives on fast food and occasional restaurant meals. It clearly isn't lack of skill, or because of advertising, just that he doesn't much care about food until he gets hungry, and then anything will do. But he's a good sport with the rest of us when we talk about food (just about all the time -- anything from growing and shopping to wonderful things we have eaten, with lots of discussion of recipes), and he's great at cleaning up when we cook. But I wouldn't be surprised if he really thinks we're nuts for spending so much time on food, while we think he's wasting his money because he doesn't.

  • rachelellen
    15 years ago
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    living the dream wrote: I had a neighbor who was horrified that I bought vegetables at farm stands where they could have dirt on them

  • partst
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Way back in the early 60s we lived in No Hollywood but I would spend all summer up here at the lake. From the time DD was old enough to talk I would play a game with her coming down the grape vine into the San Joaquin valley turning off at the Lamont, Arvin exit. It was and still is field after field of vegetables, cotton, grapes, and fruit trees for about 40 miles to the mouth of the canyon. She could name every plant by the time she was 4. I would stop so she could see how it all grew. Her favorite was to stop and pick cotton so she could take it to school for show and tell.

    When she got older sometimes she had a friend come with us and she played the game with them and was always surprised that everybody didnt know all about this. Once I took her Blue Bird group out to the west valley, when it was still farms and ranches, to buy pumpkins and not one little girl in the car knew, but my DD, what the corn was that was growing in the fields along the road.

    Her best friend, Stella, spent a lot of the summers with us and she just loved fried cat fish. One day she asks if I would make it for dinner and I told her if she caught it and cleaned it I would cook it. I took the girls out on the lake fishing and they caught a couple of cat fish. Well needless to say they wouldnt even tough them no way was they going to kill and clean them. Those poor fish lived in a big bucket in the garage until XH got there on Friday. I cooked then but Stella hardly ate anything. When I ask her about it she said she could never eat anything that was that ugly. LOL

    DD played the game with DGS and her DH. Stella died in a car accident when she was 22. She was a great person and I still think about her when I drive though Lamont and Arvin. She always got excited when we could smell the onion fields before we could see it.

    Claudia

  • colleenoz
    Original Author
    15 years ago
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    Livingthedream, I laughed my head off when I read a letter a woman had written in to the newspaper complaining that she had seen fruit and vegetables being transported to the markets in open trucks, and the dirt and flies could get on them. Dunno where she thought they came from in the first place :-)
    I used to go through the fruits and vegetables in the shops with DD and learn the names of them all, and take some of the unfamiliar ones home to try. When she was older and had a high school job as a check out girl, the fruit and vege manager thought she was the greatest thing since sliced bread because she knew all the products and could spot the difference between a cucumber and a zucchini. When I'm shopping now and the young operator doesn't recognise something, I tell them to give it their best shot- I figure they're more likely to remember it if they have to think about it than if I just say "It's a Jerusalem artichoke".

  • mimsic
    15 years ago
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    "The best thing since sliced bread" I wonder if there were folks back then who thought 'sliced bread' was a decadence reserved only for the rich and the lazy!!!

  • rachelellen
    15 years ago
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    Touché, mimsic!

  • robin_DC
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I saw bags of pre-peeled boiled eggs at the store tonight (two different brands). Turns out a dozen pre-boiled eggs cost only 10 cents more than a dozen regular store-brand large eggs (cheaper than brand name eggs). I'm now quite curious!

  • mimsic
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Bags? Eggs in bags?

  • rachelellen
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I'm wondering how many customers would be likely to buy a dozen hard boiled eggs at one time? I mean, I suppose there are times when one is going to make deviled eggs for a potluck or something but otherwise why would you want a dozen hard boiled eggs?

    I think the funniest convenience food ever marketed was the plastic bowls full of dry cereal that came with a spoon and a small carton of milk. The marketing idea behind it, as I recall, was that the kids could get their own breakfast, saving Mom all sorts of time and trouble! Of course, it was never explained why, if a kid could figure out how to open the package and the carton, and pour the milk on the cereal, said kid couldn't just pour some cereal from a box into a bowl and pour some milk onto that from a regular carton. Nor was it explained why Mom couldn't do the same for said kid (assuming the child incapable) in about 30 seconds.

    They weren't on the store shelves for long. I imagine that the marketing whiz who promoted the idea ended up working in the modern day equivalent of the mail room.

  • triciae
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Rachelellen,

    We LOVED those individual packages of cereal with the milk!

    They were perfect for on the boat. Quarts of milk in the galley frig were always being knocked over in rough seas & we didn't use enough for it not to go bad. Also, large cereal boxes take a lot of locker space. Putting the cereal in ZipLock bags didn't work 'cause they got crushed.

    We miss those things...no more cold cereal on the boat. We do use those individual packets of instant oatmeal sometimes when we're underway & want a quick breakfast. I don't like having boiling water on the stove while we're moving so I just heat the water in the microwave.

    /tricia

  • mimsic
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Who remembers those little boxes of cereals that had the perforations for opening up one side?

    They were lined with waxed paper and once the 'doors' were opened you poured the milk in and ate up. I loved those. I never added milk to my cereal when I had it in a bowl - hate milk, always did, always will - but it was such a challenge to tear those perforations just right and get the milky cereal eaten before the container leaked that I had to try.

  • rachelellen
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    ROFL!

    There's always a use for anything they come up with. I can see the convenience of having them on a boat. But people taking cereal on boats hardly makes a viable market, which is why, I suppose, they aren't available anymore.

    My grandma used to get the little boxes lined with waxed paper because when we came she could give us cereal without ending up with the better part of a box that would get stale before the next time we came.

    Nowadays, I suppose that isn't necessary, since plastic food containers are so ubiquitous.

    tricia, have you tried taking milk in plastic bottles? I should think that a sports bottle would be ideal, since it could bounce around all day without spilling, and the little spout would make for a fairly neat pour even in choppy water. Then you could even pack the dry cereal in those zip-lock bowls...you know, the ones that are meant to be disposable but which everyone washes anyway? Really, they are inexpensive enough that you could throw them away and so not have to deal with washing dishes on the boat.

  • lyndaluu2
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    WELL,

    We love to cook from scratch....I've even seen pre colored eggs for Easter. LOL
    If they think someone will buy it they will put it out there.
    I love standing in the kitchen talking and cutting up the veggies for salads, etc..
    I got my DD a childrens cookbook when she was 11 and she loved to cook!! She can't understand why anyone can't cook..she says all you have to do is follow the recipe in the book. LOL

    Linda

  • Adnama
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    My two cents:

    Grated cheese is cheaper per pound than block cheese. I think they use scraps from the blocks for that. I buy it for cost and convenience, in that order.

    Pre-chopped veggies are a healthy way to save 30 minutes. My 7-month-old son is awake for 2 hours of the day that I am home right now, so I'll take that 30 minutes if I can afford it. When the price is too high on those, I chop at night for the next day after he's asleep. Which isn't better than buying the pre-chopped, as I am exhausted and cranky all the time and I have the same product to show for my labor as I would if I bought the convenience item.

    In fact, I realize as I type that I think it's worth it to start forgoing other luxuries to buy the pre-chopped veggies. Healthy convenience, woo hoo!

    Other convenience food prices aren't rising as quickly as raw foods. My previous $20-a-week grocery plan has been blown to Hades. $2 for a half pound of dried pinto beans in the grocery store last week!!! The canned beans were slightly cheaper per oz, though I forgot the price.

    I think that my generation (I'm 28) is very aware of nutrition and incorporates those concerns into our convenience food choices. I think our parents did the same thing, too, as a result of the late 1970s. Or maybe it's just that I run in health-conscious circles?

    Anyway, most of my friends, like me, started out making our own baby food and we realized that the stuff in the jar is probably better economically and nutritiously. Pre-made organic baby food is not significantly more expensive than buying organic (or regular, for that matter) produce and steaming and pureeing it myself. It only contains water and the single food listed, which was processed in-season. I don't have to take up freezer room with the jars because they have been processed in a sterile environment I can't recreate in my home kitchen.

    I know someone claims to like overcooked broccoli. Anyone want to help me find it so I can test this canned broccoli business? (Maybe buried in a cheesy rice casserole?)

    ~Amanda

  • robin_DC
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    mimsic--yes, both brands packaged the boiled eggs in a resealable thick plastic bag a little smaller than a gallon size ziploc.

    I'm not sure why they're sold by the dozen; maybe the idea is that you'd eat a couple a day for a week?

  • femmelady
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Here's another scenario. Our mother abandoned my dad and us children (7 of us) when I was 13. (Yes, lots of therapy and I'm grown and fine now).

    But I can remember standing around with hotdogs on forks over our gas stove. We threw countless pot pies in the oven. I can't tell you how many times we'd peddle to the store and buy a box of mac and cheese and that was dinner. My dad simply couldn't do it all and he didn't know how.

    All of us are now great cooks including my brothers. Any one of them could put on a full Thanksgiving meal that would rival my grandmother's (or my mother's for that matter. For all her faults, she was a great cook).

    So necessity is the mother of invention. Even if there's nobody to teach you, you can teach yourself, IF you're interested. For my brothers and sisters, nobody ever wanted to be hungry again, and we'd had enough boxed and canned food to last a life time, so we all hit the kitchen with gusto in our early 20's.

    It's funny though. My husband, who's also a wonderful cook, still says that I make enough to feed an army. There's a reason for that - I never want anyone to be hungry. We both work full days, but our girls know how to make reasonable meals. They've been taught to make some of their favorites such as fettucine alfredo. Sometimes, we'll simply say, you two are in charge of dinner tomorrow night and it can't be pizza in the oven. So they make a simple pasta and that's fine. Two nights ago, they made Ina's French Potato Salad with herbs. They can make fresh pesto with our garden basil. When they're grown, if they want everything out of a can, that's their choice, but at least they will have been shown the basics. My oldest can out bake me every time, including breads. She has a gift, so I'm just not worried about it. They'll figure it out, just like we did!

    And who knows about canned cucumbers! I have a boatload of fresh that are bound for bread and butter pickling this weekend!

  • femmelady
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    ... and speaking of eggs, those large jars of pickled eggs you see in convenience stores scare the heck out of me. What is in that brine and why pickle eggs? Ok, I know why pickling is done, but ewwwwwwww. Who needs preserved eggs in this day and age? Truth be told, I've not tried one and never will (never say never), but I'll take a pre-peeled one over pickled any day!

  • triciae
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I used to shop at this general store for my molasses & dried beans. They have a 50-ga. wooden barrel with the molasses. There's a stack of Mason's jars next to the barrel. Just dip into the barrel & fill as many jars as you need. Great molasses; but I always wondered about what might be lurking in that barrel...?? lol

    /t

  • kbugs
    15 years ago
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    ok yall, i still love spaggetios with meatballs.... :-)))

    however, it is a rare treat...we eat everything homemade.

  • stinkymcgee
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    Hey many many years ago I lived in a country where fresh food was hard to come by. If we got a chunk of cheese or some "fresh" beef/poultry/fish or whatever it was only once or twice a year, was frozen and came by ship. We could not even consume the locally grown fresh produce because of the lack of sanitary conditions. If we dared to eat local produce it had to be soaked in a bleach solution for 24 hours and then peeled and cooked. When we got a few cans of tomato sauce or macaroni and cheese and such stuff, my parents stocked up on it and we kids threw a party.

    Sometimes it isn't laziness that forces us to eat canned or other prepared foods - it's sometimes a necessity.

    Stinky McGee

  • stinkymcgee
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I should add that once back here in the States I stood beside the stoves of my mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and learned to cook like they did. I have a garden, can with a boiling water canner and pressure canner, drink filtered water, married a former chef (yay me!) and at the moment am making Kosher dills, sweet gherkins, and my own sauerkraut. The other day I canned some green beans and as soon as the farmers market prices come down I will do all the tomoato sauces, ketchup, salsa, etc. My hubby and I decided to soon get rid of the microwave oven and only eat organically. He has mercury poisoning and is detoxifying so his nutrition is a priority. We have learned sooooo much about what is in our food. I recoil when I think of what we have been eating that we were unaware of :(.

  • mimsic
    15 years ago
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    So what are we supposed to do about that?

  • lindac
    15 years ago
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    A responsible dentist doesn't use mercury amalgum fillings any more....and a responsible dentist doesn't avocate removing all amalgum fillings and replacing with porcelain, because that will release more mercure into your system.Those of us with a mouth full of mercury are best to sit tight....and not grind your teeth!!

  • livingthedream
    15 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I average about a dozen hard-cooked eggs a week and would probably use more if I didn't have to peel them. Hard-cooked make the fastest and easiest meals and snacks, nutritionally better than most of the alternatives. Plus there are loads of ways to cook with them.

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