Work Etiquette. Saying Goodbye.
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Comments (8)number 1, what a great parent's you both are, for some reason I think your Mum?, don't know why, just the use of the hehe, don't know why, just seems girlish? It must have been a hard/easy decision! as in giving up one thing you love that is for you, in favor of someone you love that is for them. good call, but I can understand having started gardening last year the loss you may feel, but compared to the guilt you would feel if you hadn't followed your heart, will make up for that. I am with marlinggardener on don't lurk, us ejit's (sic) need advice :-) can you fit in any garden in the new place? or is the space available, for play? I wish in the UK I had known about Sq Ft gardening, because the last 2 homes I had, I gave up to children running about, not realizing the small space that Sq foot takes, even my starter home's garden (yard) was large enough to accommodate this. ( I am from the UK we are happy if we can get a playset and table in a garden...sorry yard :-) I have nearly an acre in the US and in the UK I could never dream of owning a home that had that type of land. I am gardening in a really small space of it, when I am out with my children, it's the only time I am truly happy and at peace with being away from home, family, friends, when I can grow my little piece of England :-) (don't tell my DH that, he's Scottish!) Don't get me wrong by the way, I love America and Americans, but I left home for the adventure, not for anything bad, and so therefore my memories of the UK are all good. I think you will get that, rose tinted specs and missing the crack (as my Irish friend's so wonderfully put it, (and not the drug sense!)) So good luck in the next chapter of your life....See MoreGetting ready to say goodbye to Chammi
Comments (71)I saw this at the top this morning, but I didn't have time then before rushing off to work to read the latest. I was afraid of what had happened. It's so hard to lose such a loved one, but at least she had you by her side all the way. My heart goes out to you. Sally...See MoreSaying goodbye to fur babies is hard.
Comments (27)I'm also typing with tears in my eyes...I think this has to be one of the toughest times in our lives... Just yesterday, when I got to the Meals on Wheels kitchen, the gal that lives right next door told me, Charley, her brown lab was dying....We've known Charley wasn't well, but you just don't want to think of the end...Every morning, Charley and his momma would be walking in the parking lot and we always had treats for him...If we happen not to be out when he had his walk, we put the treats on the back bumper and if he didn't see one of us, he go straight to the car....Life can be so hard but remember all those good times...We know Charley will be in doggie heaven getting his treats every day..... Thinking about you, Patti...See MoreSad day - must say goodbye to my best girl today :(
Comments (23)Thank you again so much. I cried long and hard this morning after everyone else left for school and work. The house is dreadfully quiet. Last night I woke up at 4:30 a.m. because I'm so used to having to get Casey up to go to the bathroom at around that time. It will be a while before I can sleep through the night again, I'm sure. Annz, what you said has helped me immeasurably to know I did the right thing. I was really thrown for a loop when the vet began discussing treating her and I've been plagued with guilt that I didn't think harder about giving it a try. I must have known in my heart that she was too far gone and that it was inevitable that the end was near either way. But hearing your words comforted me so much. My sister (the only other person I know personally who is as much a bonafide animal-crazy person as I am) told me essentially the same thing. She owns a pet-sitting business and they have had anywhere from 4-7 pets of their own (they, too, have had to put a couple of their pets to sleep during the past couple of years). She told me that renal failure is extremely serious and that Casey was so fortunate to have lasted as long as she did. It helps assure me that I did what was best for my girl. You're all right, though -- it really does just hurt like crazy. It almost takes my breath away at times. I'm grateful that I've been able to spill my heart out here, as I really have no one else who quite understands my grief, other than my sweet sister. In an odd way, I feel like the experience is giving me something, though. I hope this doesn't sound strange, but I've been grappling with feelings of guilt for all the things I didn't do for Casey (should have cleaned her ears and teeth more often, should have gotten her groomed more often, should have taken better care of her, should have walked her more, etc.) I suppose it's all a part of the grief, but it's pointed out to me not to take others for granted. There are a lot of things in my family life and even with friends, etc. that I realize I've been taking for granted, being "too busy" is really the excuse. I'm oddly comforted by the notion that I have the opportunity to stop taking these relationships for granted and really show them how much I care. I don't want to have "regrets" where anyone else is concerned. I don't mean any of this to sound strange. I know Casey had a good life and she absolutely knew she was loved. I just feel like maybe her legacy is to remind me how much I love not only her, but so many others in my life. I'll get through this one day at a time....See Moreamylou321
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