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Comments (31)Interesting twist...tidying other folks' houses. RE. the kitchen clean-up-both my husband and I are unable to leave dirty dishes sitting, even stacked/rinsed. It doesn't help that we have no dishwasher! Frankly, I *dread* the inevitable moment after one of our family parties when the meal is done and several people jump up to 'help' us. Hate it, hate it, hate it. To start with we have a relatively large extended family so generally we're talking 12-20 people's worth of dirty plates, silver, glasses etc. We have a galley kitchen with not a lot of counter space either. And we have a lady of the house who not only has my little system down for kitchen storage but hates having things put away in the wrong places. So the scene is, 3 or 4 well intentioned people are jamming into this small space, piling and piling and piling dirty items onto one small area of counterop until it is physically impossible to even move anything, let alone clean, and then busily putting stuff away in the most random places so I spend days trying to arrange my kitchen again. I know it sounds terribly ungrateful but I really insist that people don't help. I sometimes have to get pretty firm about it. My husband is a jewel about this; our general balance is I cook/he cleans up so he will cheerfully go in and just start washing up till things are done. And we are also people who don't go to bed till the house has been cleared to the point you can't tell there was a party. This is usually my area since he does all the dishes. I put away tablecloths and decorations, rearrange chairs or remove table leaves if need be, sweep up and wipe down etc. I guess we're fortunate to share the same outlook on this kind of household chore! As for other peoples' lifestyles, I agree that some people really and truly just don't perceive mess or disorder the same way as others do. The best example I have of folks who are oblivious is probably one of my sisters and her husband. I visited them a few years ago and when I got there the kitchen garbage can was full to overflowing. The rest of the house was not too clean or tidy either but the full trash can was really noticeable. I assumed it would be emptied that evening-silly me. We stayed 3 days and it NEVER was. The trash was first sort of smooshed down, then eventually things were thrown at the bin where they collected on the floor around it. I didn't have the nerve to empty it myself, but at some point I told my 2 kids to please find an empty wastebasket if they had anything to discard and not throw trash on the floor (they were vastly amused of course since they sure can't do that at home). When I left the trash was still there-heck it may be there today :). But the kicker is, my sister really truly did not seem to see it. The day I left I finally broke down and said, looks like your trash can is full. She looked mildly surprised and laughed "Oh, [Husband] really needs to take that out huh?!" ......See MoreStill have sticky Walls after Diffing (twice)
Comments (2)The walls need some repair. However, I copied a response from Michael from awhile back that I understood to say Gardz should be used before and after repairs. I am thinking that the repair products need good "tooth" in order to adhere and that the paste might interfere with that? Sue...See MoreI didn't do it, but I still feel bad
Comments (38)I think Ashley has zeroed in on the essence of the issue: an opportunity to teach a lesson about 'hearsay', or 'gossip', as opposed to eavesdropping. In reading all the responses that go back & forth on trying to determine exactly what constitutes 'eavesdropping' or who should be blamed, I agree that it's a very ambiguous issue. We all, as fully grown adults, basically 'know' when we're straining to overhear something, and even if it's technically 'wrong', we all know we *sometimes* do it anyway. Or we *have* done it, at least once, even as fully-grown adults. So it's really hard to guarantee that you will be able to do anything to 100% fully prevent a kid from listening in... especially if you have a conversation where you know he's around and could possibly walk in at any second or perhaps overhear. So I agree that in Ceph's case, it wasn't really anyone's fault ---neither Ceph for not fully realizing at that moment how utterly fascinating & tantalizing adult discussions can be to a kid or A____ for being a curious kid--- but that adults should be a bit more careful, and kids should have it explained to them that they may at times overhear things out of context that they are best not to repeat because they can accidentally distort the truth and end up really hurting someone without meaning to. And that they wouldn't like it one little bit if the tables were turned and it happened to them! Maybe make up a hypothetical scenario, using some humorously exaggerated details, wherein A_____ becomes the unfortunate victim of an unchecked rumor spread by mis-heard hearsay. Like for example: "A_____, let's say after I dropped you off one morning at school I *just so happened* to overhear some very cute girls saying 'A____ looks like such a STEAMBOAT in his red-and-white sweater!" And then what if I told some other kids, and soon everyone at school thought that? Then what if I much later found out that those girls had REALLY said "A_____ looks like such a DREAMBOAT in his red-and-white sweater!"? Wouldn't YOU prefer that I'd made sure I'd checked with the girls before I told a bunch of other people that you resemble a big, slow, square-ish BOAT?" So that he gets the point but in a non-harsh way and you both can giggle about it at the end....See MoreNeed help...I have painted my kitchen 4 times and still not happy
Comments (64)I like what you did with the matchstick blinds and curtains, better than the roman shades. I wouldn't order those blinds if the shipping is high (I had bamboo ones in my old apartment that I bought at target for decently cheap). Not sure how to post links, as I'm to all this but try these: http://www.target.com/Bamboo-Roman-Shade-Spice/dp/B000KUCEI6/ref=br_1_5?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&searchView=grid5&searchNodeID=15751241&node=15751241&searchRank=salesrank&searchPage=1&searchSize=30&id=Bamboo%20Roman%20Shade%20Spice My one suggestion would be use a more colorful curtain than the white long ones. It makes the room look modern, but a bit to stark and plain. Maybe even just white with a delicate print? Maybe like these from ikea.. http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/00135551 or these from target http://www.target.com/Home-Damask-Window-Collection/dp/B001J215Y8/ref=br_1_1?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&searchView=grid5&searchNodeID=596480011&node=596480011&searchRank=salesrank&searchPage=1&searchSize=30&id=Home%20Damask%20Window%20Collection (and they're on clearance for super cheap!) As for paint colors, I'm sorry I'm no help. I'm having a mini breakdown trying to decide on a palette for my house as well.. Good luck! And happy decorating! Megan...See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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