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Comments (45)I'm with Judi! I need a pre-hug because I am SOOO dreading the whole thing. Hubs is going out east to spend the holiday with his kid and grandkids. I am totally FINE with that, there's not really room for me in the house, and I don't want to take the risk of covid exposure for me and my 90 year old Dad. I don't usually enjoy long visits there anyway, it's a chaotic household so really best if we keep visits short and sweet. Hubs wants to spend a lot of time there, so he'll be happy and I'll be happy. I really can't be away from my Dad for a long, long time anyway, particularly far away. So I would really love and enjoy a quiet holiday ALONE. But on the downside, I will have to be around my Dad, who takes every opportunity to be miserable and remind everyone why they should be miserable, and make issues about things that aren't issues. He'll spend the whole time lamenting that we are "alone" on the holiday, because I guess I am just chopped liver. He'll revisit every death and estrangement and person who ever spent the holidays with us and isn't there. He'll claim he has no appetite and doesn't feel like eating whatever I make, complain that I made too much, and the only thing worse would be if I didn't do anything. He's clinically depressed and refuses any treatment for it. Which is fine, but he needs to make everyone around him miserable too. Oh, and he has a lovely invitation to spend Christmas with his godson, but insists that I have to come too. I don't want to go due to covid exposure and besides I don't even want to go, it's a long drive. They are lovely people but I would prefer seeing them at a time that is less pandemic complicated. But if my Dad wanted the whole Hallmark Christmas scene he could have it there. But he insists on me going, even though I really really don't want to. Frankly having him gone would give me some much needed rest, but he refuses to take that easy route. So now he's off in search of some public party and gathering at Christmas, Lord knows why he feels like he has to do that. I guess a little covid or flu risk is the way to go. We live in a very high transmission area. So I'm just dreading the whole affair because no matter what I do, it will be wrong/bad,/problematic. Hubs and I are having vegetarian lasagna for our Christmas dinner before he leaves. Not sure what else I will make. Probably just a salad and maybe some cranberry pistachio biscotti and tea if I can get the darn things made in time . . . Dad and I will be having cornish hens, sweet potatoes and wild rice pilaf, with an apple bundt cake for dessert. If I don't feel like fussing I might just make a small apple coffee cake in a square pan instead. I love my apple bundt cake but it takes five thinly sliced apples in layers so it's a lot of work. Or I might make cranberry cherry cobbler, that's always easy peasy but also impressive....See MoreFestive Floof! Resolutions!
Comments (22)I want to continue One Simple Thing, to drink at least four cups of water a day. I keep a pitcher of tap water on the kitchen counter, taste improved with a dash of Crystal Lite Lemonade Mix. It's, "See water. Drink water." I've got DH doing it, too. Come dinner time, *success* in our empty pitchers. This little action has brought my kidney function test numbers back to normal -- measured monthly at the cancer center. And where did I learn this? HERE! From the KT. Thanks, friends. seagrass -- I envy you, having your DM for 60 years -- a little-considered, long term positive for early childbearing! My DM died 43 years ago when I was 37. I know there are several people on the KT who had their parents for even less time...and worse, parents whose children died too young. Seize the Day!...See MoreFestive Floof! Trees!
Comments (23)morz8 ^^^^ -- There is a fabulous artificial tree (IMHO) called the Noblis Fir -- notice this specific spelling please. I have had a 7-foot one of these, bought online, for the past six years. It is perfect. Like you, I prefer a tree whose branches are spaced and open enough for my ornaments (which must "hang' properly, and fill all the way into the center trunk, NOT lay along the outer plane of the branch tips!!!). This tree is exactly what I wanted -- I personally loathe the sheared look. (grin) https://www.grandinroad.com/un-lit-noblis-fir-christmas-tree/698014 (the photo looks odd as the branches have not been "fluffed" which is an easy accomplishment) Above is one link for a current source of the Noblis Fir -- and it is on sale now! If it is the right size for you, get it now for next year... =) At the going rate this year for a natural real tree, this is a bargain as the cost will amortize nicely thru the years ahead. FULL DISCLOSURE NOW of my personal eccentricity: Bought mine six years ago. The first year, it was a delight to decorate and easy to tweak the branch placement. It came pre-lit, but I added more, all white. And then went to town using tons of my ornament collections. Over-done? Some would think so, perhaps, but not to me! When I finished, I stood back and admired the gorgeous thing. And promptly decided I could not improve on this perfection, SO IT HAS BEEN LEFT IN PLACE, FULLY DECORATED, EVER SINCE. LOLOLOL. Fortunately, the living room is very large, so the tree does not impact the overall space the rest of the year. It still makes me happy every time I see it. And I don't have to lug out the decorations every year, nor put them all away again. BONUS! At almost 77 years of age, and less than 4"10". I am totally keeping this tree as it is for the rest of my life (with a bit of dusting as needed). In fact, I doubt I could take it down anyway, as after all this time I cannot remember where the the specific ornament boxes are located by now. That will be a job for my children & grandchildren to deal with after I have shuffled off this mortal coil. (Hee-hee -- payback for all the times I had to pick us their stuff and put it away) Would love to hear your thoughts on this artificial tree, morz8!...See MoreFestive Food Floof! Hearts!
Comments (24)I know you're looking for ready made, but I don't know any. Have you heard of pie pops? I haven't until I saw this gadget just now... https://www.amazon.com/Tovolo-Pops-Press-Prep-Tools/dp/B0077LSB9C/ref=sr_1_27?crid=1BFNCR5XFRNUV&keywords=tovolo+chop+and+spin&qid=1675844084&sprefix=tovolo+chop+and+spin%2Caps%2C168&sr=8-27...See More- 4 years agoamylou321 thanked dcarch7 d c f l a s h 7 @ y a h o o . c o m
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