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Festive Floof! Valentines plans.....

amylou321
2 years ago
last modified: 2 years ago

Do you have anything special planned? I do not yet. Well, not entirely. I already took care of the gifts. SO asked me to order him some rims and tires for his latest car, and a part for another one of his vehicles. He went to give me the money for them but I told him that could be his Valentine this year.

I prefer the stereotypical, cheesy, traditional Valentines gifts. I like big bouquets of flowers and stuffed animals and stuff. And I also asked him to take his truck and trailer to pick up the dirt I need for the raised garden beds I ordered. I already put together and filled one, then I ordered 2 more because I was so thrilled with it I wanted more, and I would rather not have to make several trips to fit all the dirt I need into my SUV. I need at least a pallet of topsoil and a pallet of Jungle Growth soil. He will also have to do most if not all of the very heavy lifting when I go to fill the beds, so I will claim that as a Valentines gesture, if you will. Whatever works..

I am happy to have the actual day off this year again. I plan on making some sort of heart shaped meal, though that won't necessarily be "special" as I like to throw in heart shaped food for most meals anyway. I need ideas for something new I can make heart shaped. I've done pizza. calzones, meatloaf, pot pies, patty melts, and other stuff. Dessert will be easy. Anything can be baked as a heart shape.

It would not surprise me in the least if we were to end up back at the casino for Valentines Day. SO really enjoys it.

But no CONCRETE plans yet.

I really love Valentines Day. Even when I was single, I always did something extra special for myself. I always subscribed to the idea that you MUST love yourself before you can fully love someone else, or fully accept love from someone else. I know some people are sad or lonely on Valentines day because either they are single or widowed, and I honestly wish I could share my love with them on that day and make them feel better.

What are your plans?

Comments (48)

  • LynnNM
    2 years ago

    We’ve been on a celebration run with Christmas, NYE, NYD, our anniversary on January 15, my birthday just the other day, and then yesterday was my DH’s birthday! Today feels like such a great, relaxing NON-event day or planning event day (LOL)! But, then along comes Valentines Day so soon (for me)! After all of above, we absolutely do NOT go out for dinner on VDay! I have a killer recipe that’s fairly easy to make for dessert: Bon Appetit’s Winter Spiced Molten Lava Cakes that everyone loves. For dinner though, probably steaks on the grill that DH can take care of, my yummy Wild Rice Pilaf, and a bagged Caesar salad. No (more) gifts, though! I hope that I don’t sound like a Scrooge, I just get so partied/celebrated out by this time every year (LOL)!

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  • plllog
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    I bet you could make heart shaped piroshki, schnitzel, any kind of terrine. For color, you could make duck breasts or tuna steaks. Use the trimmings in some kind of molded "stuffing".


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  • cooper8828
    2 years ago

    Steaks on the grill at home, and probably watch a movie. It will be laid back and low key.

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  • morz8 - Washington Coast
    2 years ago

    Well, I'm not sure. We're having steaks on the grill tonight. And Ive got some baby spinach I need to saute or I'm going to lose it...bought for salads originally.

    We haven't gone out on Valentines in the last few years. We don't have enough restaurants in our community to handle the busy evening ;) Monday will be busy EVERY PLACE and we haven't been eating or socializing in restaurants to any extent at all....not in the last two years.

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  • Zalco/bring back Sophie!
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  • yeonassky
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    Usually Valentine's Day means pizza night. I am a kid at heart and still love pizza. Even though the one that I buy is whole wheat and stuffed full of veggies. I might try to make some heart-shaped appetizers and desserts. It's work day for DH and I go to work early Tuesday morning so we will not be partying hearty.


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  • plllog
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  • CA Kate z9
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  • nicole___
    2 years ago

    I'd forgotten.....but your enthusiasm makes me think lasagna w/ spinach! ♥ My husbands current favorite. We'll see......maybe a bouquet of lilies or a new orchid for me.......hhhmmm.....wheels are turning.

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  • plllog
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    2 years ago

    No plans...no valentines. I may buy myself some chocolate, or not.

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  • vgkg Z-7 Va
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    Feb 6th is our official Valentine's Day, it's the date we first met.

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  • arcy_gw
    2 years ago



    Surf and Turf on the grill with dipped strawberries for desert!!

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  • Kathsgrdn
    2 years ago

    If it warms up some I may dig a hole for my tulips out back. Thought about doing it yesterday but got lazy and then the wind began to blow.


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  • LoneJack Zn 6a, KC
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    V day is also our 27th anniversary. We were hoping to celebrate it a day early with a Chiefs SB party and victory but that plan didn't work out very well this year.

    I went shopping this morning and Aldi still had 1 lb. whole lobsters for $11 so I bought a couple. We might have lobster rolls if DW wants to bake some NE style rolls. If not we will just steam them and I might grill some bacon wrapped Fillet Mignon from our own beef to make it surf and turf. I did also buy a bouquet of flowers and some chocolate covered strawberries for her so I should be safe for a day or 3.

    We are shopping for a new car for her to drive so that is going to be her VD present and anniversary present for years to come :-)

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  • chloebud
    2 years ago

    Happy Anniversay, LoneJack!!!


    I bought these same rib eyes to have on VD again.

    Been making this chocolate cake for DH for many years. It's small...only about 6"x6"...but has 4 layers. I used the same cake pans to make chocolate chip cookie hearts for our grandkids.


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  • cindy-6b/7a VA
    2 years ago

    Happy Anniversary, Jack and spouse!

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  • CA Kate z9
    2 years ago

    Yes..... Happy Anniversary Mr. & Mrs Lone Jack!

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  • LoneJack Zn 6a, KC
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    Thank you Cindy, Chloebud, and kate!

    Those Ribeyes look very well marbled. hope they taste as good as they look.

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  • marilyn_c
    2 years ago

    Happy anniversary, Mr and Mrs Lone Jack.


    We used to raise our own beef. Such a big difference from what you buy at the store. So much better.

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  • annie1992
    2 years ago

    Happy Anniversary, Jack and Mrs. Jack! I'd bake the rolls for lobster, definitely!


    I usually just ignore Valentine's Day, much to Elery's delight. However, he says he's going to make Lobster Bisque and I have some "exotic" mixed mushrooms in the fridge, so I might make some pasta dish or another. I cook every day, so that's not unusual, LOL.


    I did buy him a couple of new thermal waffle weave shirts that are supposed to be here tomorrow, and he bought me a new Kindle, because "it's bigger than the other one". I only use the Kindle to read, but he's sure he can bring me over to the dark side and make me use new technology. Of course, he bought me a new cell phone for Christmas and I haven't turned it on yet, so he may not be successful, LOL.


    Annie

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  • lily316
    2 years ago

    Since I wasn't allowed to host my daughter's birthday dinner today because of the Super Bowl, it will be tomorrow on Valentine's Day. We have three big flat-screen TVs downstairs but none in the dining room and the three men would have been bummed. We don't celebrate Valentine's day otherwise in any way. Call us unromantic which we are.

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  • Zalco/bring back Sophie!
    2 years ago

    I grew up in an anti-Hallmark holiday house, but I am now firmly in the celebrate as many things as you can, without going overboard camp (and by going overboard, I mean stressing yourself out.) As I write this and think of what changed, it was my children's preschool. They had a way with holidays and creating magic I whole heartedly enjoy and want to keep sharing with family and friends.

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  • Zalco/bring back Sophie!
    2 years ago

    PS Happy birthday to your daughter, lily.

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  • rob333 (zone 7b)
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    The only thing that is certainly happening tomorrow, is my work group is going to lunch. Believe it or not this is the postponed celebration for the holidays; when COVID numbers are high, medical center people don't get to have a get-together. I don't have a sweetie, and I've had many years of gifts of flowers, jewelry etc. that I can do without. It's someone else's turn. I'll be happy to celebrate myself tomorrow evening, knowing I'm loved by family, friends, and even myself.

    ❤️

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  • satine100
    2 years ago

    I have no plans for doing anything. I may go to a secondhand store tomorrow if I get some work done around here in the morning. I haven't been thrift shopping for a long time so that will a treat for me.

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  • Lars
    2 years ago

    I think I have already eaten all of the chocolate in this house, and so I doubt I will be able to make anything appropriate.

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  • dcarch7 d c f l a s h 7 @ y a h o o . c o m
    2 years ago

    May be I will make something with pork.


    We need to honor the pig.


    A few weeks ago, the first pig's heart transplanted to a human was successful, saving a human life.


    dcarch



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  • amylou321
    Original Author
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    I decided to make heart shaped pizzas for dinner tonight. Why tonight? Well, a few reasons:

    -SO likes pizza, but its not his favorite, so I thought I would make it tonight instead of tomorrow.

    -I wanted pizza

    -I may need my heart cake pans tommorow if all goes as planned. I plan on making a heart shaped cookies and cream mouse cake. But I have a set of 5 smaller ones too, so I may use those and make it 5 layer. Or is it 6? Anyway, i want options. So best to make pizza tonight so the pans will be available tommorow.

    Tommorow I will either make heart shaped quesadillas or meatloaf. With heart shaped roasted or fried potatoes. Heart shaped pancakes for breakfast.

    We are going in the morning to pick up the gifts he ordered for me, his gifts already arrived. I did go today and get him some other small things, a new charger cord for his phone, a ack of tank tops, some candy and some black and milds.


    The pizzas....

  • amylou321
    Original Author
    2 years ago


    Breakfast! Happy Valentines day!

  • nekotish
    2 years ago

    Amylou - you are the Valentine queen! Would you believe it if I told you we had tuna casserole for Valentine's Day dinner? We did. Started years ago, before children. I was going to be away for a business trip on Valentine's Day and when I told DH that I would make him a valentine's dinner when I returned. He said "I'd even like tuna casserole (which he really loves) for Valentine's dinner if you made it for me." So before I left, I put a heart shaped foil pan of tuna casserole in the freezer for him with a mushy note. We've had tuna casserole for Valentine's day dinner ever since.

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  • annie1992
    2 years ago

    Awww, Nekotish, that's sweet.


    Amylou, you ARE the Queen of Valentine's Day. Here it was much more low key. No heart shaped pancakes, unfortunately, I haven't had pancakes in a long time and now I want some and it's nearly 10 pm...


    Annie

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  • plllog
    2 years ago

    The freezer repairman was too young and too professional to tease with valentine's references, but I adore him for doing a lovely job on my freezer, and changing the water filter for me, while he was on the floor. ;) There was a burned out relay to the compressor. :) No lasagna, though. It was too late. Interesting concoction with bougie sausages and spicy pickles. It was really good, but not at all red/pink or romantic!

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  • yeonassky
    2 years ago

    Happy anniversary Mr and Mrs Lone Jack!

    We had our usual Valentine's Day feast of pizza. We had cherries and strawberries with ice cream for dessert. It was all delicious!


    Unlike you Amy Lou our pizza was round in shape because it is restaurant bought. I didn't do heart-shaped anything and usually don't not even the strawberries. But I enjoy seeing your heart-shaped feasts.



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  • seagrass_gw Cape Cod
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    DH & I are in a rental in Savannah for a 2 week break from our New England winter weather. We made Cincinnati Chili in honor of the Bengals in the Superbowl last night, and had it again as leftovers on VD. It's a challenge to cook in a kitchen that's not outfitted with the equipment you are used to using. I had to break the spaghetti in half and cook it in a shallow skillet with water and replenish the water once to get the pasta tender...

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  • amylou321
    Original Author
    2 years ago

    Well my dinner plans didn't pan out. SO requested that I make this mishmash dish with no name. It is essentially yellow rice, shredded cheese and "mexican" chicken with peppers and onions. So, since I couldn't really make that heart shaped, I improvised. Tiny heart shaped casserole to the rescue! This tiny little dish was big enough for his portion,and I was satisfied that it was heart shaped.


    Don't worry. I wasn't stingy with the cheese, there is more underneath the chicken.

  • satine100
    2 years ago

    I bought myself a dozen roses today at Aldi. They were marked down from 9.99 to .99. Go me.

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    We are waiting till tomorrow to go out to dinner.

    I told him I want boiled crawfish. It's season again and I haven't had any in a long time. He will get his favorite grilled platter.

    Happy Mardi Gras! ⚜️💛💜💚⚜️🎉

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    In a rarity, DH and I actually cooked together! And lived to tell the tale lol! we have a tight cooking area, but DH took care of the steaks so he was safely out of the kitchen U. I handled the sauteed spinach and fingerling potatos. A little beaujolais we collaborated. I opened, he poured. Everything came out just right!

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    2 years ago

    I want some crawfish Raven! I have to go into the office next week and might just have to go for lunch at Jazz Louisiana restaurant which serves them in season. It's only about 10 minutes from my office.

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    I was looking for recipes on how to make ravioli.


    But it fits so well, and we do this every year, so here you go. In case we look again next year.


    https://slowthecookdown.com/ricotta-spinach-ravioli-with-a-kick/

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