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Comments (96)While talking to a guy building a new home nestled among upscale houses in a nearby village, I told him that if you'd told homeowners of World War II variety that in modern days they've been taking wood chips, mixing them with glue, making them into sheets and using them to build walls of houses, they'd have laughed at you and said that no way would they consider paying their good money to buy a piece of crap built like that! It's not unusual to see buildings in Europe 300 - 500 years or more old. Have you ever seen such in our area? My shelf panels and shelves, made of sawdust and glue, have a piece of cardboard stapled to the back to keep the unit from falling over sideways. ole joyful...See MoreNo love for china and silver display cabinets?
Comments (154)Katmu, I would fill it with books and a few meaningful accessories. We have a large breakfront in the upper foyer. Previously it held more books, but I wanted more of a cabinet of curiosities. It is not something I would have purchased, and I still may sell or brighten the interior back without destroying the piece (not paint directly). When it was moved to an adjoining room during painting, I had planned to not put the pediment back on and may still remove/store just to change it up if I keep. DH said "just paint it," but I cannot do that!...See MoreEmbracing workplace change
Comments (41)I've read every single word here more than once, and I have no doubt I'll be returning again as I continue to process all that has been shared. Thanks so much to each and every one of you -- you are all tremendous sources of knowledge, experience, and inspiration. I work at the HQ level of a multinational corporation, and am involved primarily in corporate governance. The new tasks that I've been asked to undertake have to do with the financial sector, and that's an area where my experience and knowledge is lacking. I will be dealing primarily with investors and therefore I'm terribly concerned about my limited exposure in this arena and how that could potentially reflect not only on me, but on the company as a whole. That said, my role is of a slighty limited nature, in that I will be providing information and/or referring specific questions or needs to another entity that deals in certain transactional aspects. I suppose you could say I'll be first point of contact, and it will largely be by phone or email, and always on my own turf. In laying it all out like this, I realize it sounds like I'm shying away from something that a trained ape could do, but there's something about the "aspects of the unknown" that troubles me, as each scenario will be slightly different -- and I may from time to time be dealing with investors who are not well versed in their holdings or are confused about how things work. I fear this being a cocktail for disaster and embarrassment, as my own knowledge is so severely limited. I don't feel that I've been adequately trained, but my superiors are aware of this and have said they'll be there to help me in any way needed. I do work in an environment where questions are welcomed and others are willing to assist, so that's a plus -- but I also don't want to be "that person" who runs to a supervisor with each little thing that I find confusing. I work with some incredibly bright minds, and I feel a certain responsibility to work things out on my own insofar as it is practicable to do so. I've long heard it said that "there are no stupid questions", but actually, sometimes there ARE. Some things should be obvious, and I fear putting myself out there as one who is ill-informed. In trying to summarize exactly what it is about this that scares me so, it's probably a fear of the unknown more than anything -- and a worry that I'll prove to be an embarrasment. I guess I have a life-sized mental image of someone shouting down the phone at me that I'm clueless, and shouldn't be in this position since I clearly have no idea what I'm doing. Of course, I do realize that the likelihood of that actually happening is slim to none, and yet I find that's the self-talk that I tend to inflict on myself the most. Certainly I can read and absorb and ask questions and learn. I also know that sometimes learning comes as a result of trial and error. I will also admit that I often feel reluctant to the point of almost refusing, when it comes to learning and taking on new assignments. I was asked to assist on a project last year that I felt completely inadequate to handle, and yet I did it (with the guidance of some exceptional colleagues), and that proved to be something that made me grow significantly and truly instilled a tremendous sense of pride. The project was the reason I was able to take my first-ever trip to NYC as well, which was an added bonus. (I must have satisifed management with my performance on the project, as I received a monetary bonus as well.) So I KNOW that I can move forward and tackle something that initially seems off-putting to me, but I experience such tremendous trepidation about making those first steps initially that at times it feels downright crippling. Maybe I'm just going through a time of growing pains right now --- I dunno. When I think of the financial/investment knowledge I need to gain in order to do as I've been asked, I'm struck by an overall feeling of malaise ... "But I don't WANNA put forth the effort ..." and also a nagging feeling in the back of my mind that I'm a fraud, and that somebody's gonna find out. And it's funny, particularly based upon what some of you have said here, because I know with certainty that I project an outward picture of professional poise and competence, which is largely why my superiors place their confidence in me. Inwardly, however, I struggle with still being an 8-year old child who has the "I don't wannas" and "I'm not good enough to be a part of this" that plays on a loop. I have jokingly told colleagues that my mantra is "fake it til you make it", and we all have a laugh about that -- but there is also a snippet of truth in that statement for me. I do believe that we must continue to stretch ourselves, to step outside of our comfort zones, in order to grow and feel accomplished career-wise. Goodness knows I don't want a boring job where I watch the clock and long for the day to end, but I also have a fear when I'm about to enter into a new project or task that it will somehow become all-consuming, and not in a good way. I think the advice above to simply start "consuming it", bite by bite, is just about the only way to even begin. I really like the idea of setting up a reward system for even the seemingly smallest accomplishments, because no matter if my feelings about this whole thing are legit or idiotic, they're still my feelings and I know I should be gentle with myself....See MoreThe treasure has been found
Comments (36)Another lawsuit. This probably requires a subscription, so I’ll summarize: a woman who had been searching for the treasure is suing Fenn basically because she didn’t find it first. It’s not fair, someone else got there first....See MoreArapaho-Rd
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