Where would you like to travel, if it were not unsafe (ETA: political)
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Comments (41)It is possible to have a different perspective on a situation than another person but that doesn't necessarily make you "right" and the other person "wrong." But time and time again, people (in general) interpret their perspective as right and someone else's perspective, that may come from an entirely different set of circumstances that are coloring their perceptions and emotions, as being "wrong." It is certainly hurtful to think you are being told you are wrong even if what is actually happening is just different points of view are being exposed or something is said that one person finds hurtful and another person would shrug off because of different circumstances. It appears from reading this (to me, from my perspective) is that many folks were supporting you by saying, "been there, done that" and trying to help you patch it up with your friend. I know that was my motivation. I also think it is apparent (again, from my reading and take on it), that many folks here didn't think you were wrong, just a victim of circumstances. And for those who tend to be very "right/wrong" judgemental in their use of language, some of that is just semantics and some of that is just personality way of viewing the world. Many styles out there in the human race. But hopefully looking at it from a secure knowledge that folks here truly care and did want to help, you can read into the words typed, some of the care and concern and love that is truly here for you. If you feel very hurt that your friend has been so harsh with you and are upset that she wasn't more understanding, that is certainly reasonable and I have been there as well. SO and I fight often about different perspectives as well, we have hurt each other a great deal. But we work it out as best we can. Such is the human condition, IMHO. Sending my virtual hug and loving thoughts your way for healing over this sad situation....See MoreWhere have you traveled...alone?
Comments (25)I've always travelled a lot for my job and when I was single I tried to turn nearly every trip into a long weekend. So I have been alone in many places, although being alone when you are single is different because sometimes you do ...ahem... meet someone. I am not uncomfortable being alone, but I usually find it boring after day or two. Based on my experience, then, I would go on some sort of educational or culinary or outdoors trip with a group. For example, I've always wanted to do a Backroads trip. I also have a friend who specializes in luxury travel, and she has organized a few "luxury wellness retreats for women." One of them I've considered is in Morocco. One question to ask yourself is, if DH is into photography, what are you in to? Without having to consider others, what would you find the most fun? You could also consider voluntourism. As far as an anniversary trip, do what i just did. One of my kids has an app called "been there". I used it to enter every place we have been. It then creates like a 3-d spinning globe and shows you where you "missed!" Based on that, I have some new ideas. For example, I am missing a whole swath of (true) Eastern Europe, from Estonia to Latvia to Poland to Slovakia and Slovenia. That is now on our list. Other ideas. Maybe it is not so much where you go as how. For example, I have been to Paris many times. But renting a Paris apartment for a month and living there, enjoying the quotidian, might be a totally different experience. Same for living in a bungalow in, say, Costa Rica. How about training for a certain big trip together, like a big bike tour or climbing a mountain? Happiness researchers say anticipating vacation is a large part of the satisfaction we get from travel. ETA -- I was trying to remember and just looked it up, I always wanted to do the Milford Track.http://vivalifestyleandtravel.com/new-zealand/health-and-fitness/list/best-hikes How about Antarctica? We went just to tick the box on Continent 7, but we all loved it. A luxury cruise? The Amazon? Those little huts on stilts in the South Pacific?...See MoreHow do you cope with the things you don't like about where you live?
Comments (46)Nope, we were in a coastal town and within a 5 minute drive to the beach. Lots of ocean breeze, but still its hot all year round. Yes, Michigan has humidity and heat too, and yes it can be miserable to be in but it’s not in the 90’s or 100’s year round and we do reap benefits from that humidity like lots of rain (as opposed to droughts). Lawns are lush and healthy, plants and trees alike thrive here. It also never gets so hot that you can fry an egg on the hood of your car. Then there are the thunderstorms. When the humidity peaks, they come in for a quick shower to cool things down. Open the windows and that breeze with it’s smell of the rain is heaven. Say what you will Elmer, but as far as I’m concerned there is really no comparison. I’ll take Michigan’s summer of months of humidity along with it’s snow and ice in the winter over that dry relentless heat any day. I don’t miss it at all. LOL Forgot to add, I’m in one of those suburbs too, about 45 miles north of Detroit. When it comes to snow, it’s the perfect spot because we’re too low for the northern squalls and far enough north to miss the Ohio Valley Blizzards. We usually don’t get more than 6 inches at a time during the season. We live on a hill and the AWD on our SUV’s has no problem driving threw it, but the views are beautiful....See MoreWould you like to see a train system like Japan's, here in the U.S.?
Comments (20)When my mother graduated from university, she took a train trip from Dallas to NYC to visit one of her friends in Connecticut. She stopped in Cincinnati on the way back and enjoyed her time there. She never traveled by air and never visited me in California, even though there are trains from where she lived to Los Angeles. Her mother was much more adventurous and visited Europe many times - she had no fear of flying. She also visited Lebanon in 1957 and thought it was a beautiful place. She also went to Turkey and quite a few other countries. My grandfather used to go with her, but he got tired of traveling before she did, and then she just went by herself. When I was at university, I used to take the Santa Fe train between Houston and Temple, Texas, which is where I was born. Temple was built as a railroad town, has a Santa Fe Hospital, and is the location where the NorthSouth line intesects the East West line. I was not happy when Amtrak took over, but when I was at university, the Santa Fe railroad still operated the passenger trains. The train I took started in Houston and ended in Chicago or Milwaukee. At Temple, one could change trains to go west to El Paso and Los Angeles. I've also taken the train between Houston and New Orleans, which is pretty much a party train, especially around Mardi Gras. In California, I've only taken the train between Oakland and Vancouver. When Amtrak took over passenger train service in the U.S., they sold the nice stainless steel passenger cars to Mexico, including the sleeping cars, and I used to ride on those all over Mexico. Then Mexico ended its passenger train service and replaced it with "luxury" buses, which are not nearly as nice....See More- 5 years agolast modified: 5 years ago
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