I would do top-down/bottom-up shades. You'll keep the look simple and you'll be able to lower the top half to see the night sky. They are also available with room darkening fabrics.

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Might I suggest you add a solid glass storm window rather than hoping the window treatment would block the cold? Would not want a glob of bunched up shade on a kitchen window to collect mist from fried foods -- but to each their own. An old fashion roll up shade would be better for the kitchen. Consider another way of weatherizing your window during winter until you can add a storm window or change out the window itself for a window rated for cold. If you choose the swag to hide the tacks or staples, you might be able to keep the natural light while blocking the cold using a plastic sheeting method to create a "dead air" space between the window glass and clear plastic. There are kits available at the big box stores that you can use to put plastic over your window and then apply heat with a hair dryer to tighten the plastic so it mostly visually disappears (unless you're looking for it or see how it is attached to the window. https://www.google.com/search?q=plastic+over+kitchen+window+for+cold+climates&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiE8Kj7h5HmAhVkS98KHcknArsQ_AUoAnoECA0QBA&biw=1328&bih=617#spf=1575086909808

I really love the softness of roman shades but I am open to faux woods. My dining room window and the window behind the couch face north so, for the most part, I would only close them at night. I'm more worried about reducing the light coming in from the patio door which faces east. But I'm not sure how to do roman shades or faux woods on the glass slider... do you think either would work?