jen9 - I like the Lucinda. It's very similar to the West Elm but larger I think. Arapaho - thank you for all the links - nice tables. I do need one with 24-26" diameter for the tabletop. Based on some of the comments, I started looking for a square table and found this one by Aiden Gray side table. It's similar to my coffee table but perhaps not too much of a match. Love the parquet wood but of course it's too much $$. I also wonder if the narrow legs would look okay between 2 large couches or if I need a table with more mass. I did find this site that has a tutorial for making a table top. DH is very DIY and has all the tools so I may ask if he's up to the project. Just need to find a base. Case iron table legs are not cheap on ebay. Aidan Gray Matthew Ryan Side Table Here is a link that might be useful: Reclaimed wood table tutorial

There is nothing wrong with having just one end table and lamp, especially if the space doesn't allow a table at the other end. I do think that, if you happen to have two matching lamps in a room, they should be used symmetrically if possible, and not separated just for the sake of being different. That is, when a pair is deliberately separated, it usually just looks weird. In my living room the lamps at either end of the sofa match but the tables don't.

You post a photo of the coffee table.

Leather, linen basically any fully upholstered headboard will work. Just avoid a wood trimmed upholstered headboard and you should be fine. https://www.houzz.com/photos/oakland-master-bedroom-traditional-bedroom-san-francisco-phvw-vp~203583 Mitchel Gold (MGBW) makes a lot of nice options. https://www.mgbwhome.com/butler-tall-king-floating-rail-bed/BUTLER_TALL_KING_FLOATING_RAIL_BED.html?dwvar_BUTLER__TALL__KING__FLOATING__RAIL__BED_fabric=HOLLINS - FLAX-SOP&cgid=King-Bed#start=5