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Help! Weird situation w/realtor
Comments (26)I have been in sales for 15 years. Not home sales....industrial chemical sales. My customers and potential customers ask me to do all kinds of things for them from answer an industry specific question, to be a guest speaker for them at some technical conference they're hosting, to get them tickets to sporting events. I have done all happily and professionally in the interest of building relationships, networking, and building my reputation as a knowledgable professional.............with our without a promise of a sale. I never act in anything less than a professional manner, demonstrating every bit of competance I can muster so than in the future, if they need to buy an industrial chemical from someone, they will have built up enough confidence and rapport with me that I am the one they call and I make a sale and a commission. I expect no less from someone that is representing me. At any time if they prove to not be worthy of representing my interests, why should I stick with them? They had their chance. ALSO......the 6% commission that a person pays for realestate services is ONLY a reasonable price if you figure in all the work that realtor does for other people for no commission. To me, those realtors (half of 3% if they have 50%/50% split with their broker and only represent the buyer) of a $200,000 property is $3,000. If that realtor spent 10 hours (and I'm being generous here) finding that property and setting up the deal they're making $300 per hour. OUTRAGEOUS! However, the reason it's ok for them to make that lump is because they're also spending money on gas and office supplies plus helping all the tire kickers in order to build relationships. So, maybe they spend 10 hours helping a buyer who they follow-through with, but 50 hours helping tire kickers. They've worked 60 hours making $50 per hour in that case. So.........don't worry, they're getting paid just fine to help the tire kickers. It's their JOB and it's part of their investment in the business that they are running and they're being compensated for it. If you want to be paid for every hour you work, then you need to get a job that pays by the hour. If you want to be paid commission and basically run your own business like realtors do, then be prepared to put the upfront time and effort into proving your worthiness each and every day you wake up and pick up that phone......whether you think the person is a serious buyer/seller or a tire kicker....See MoreLong Island - Our Situation - Buying a home soon....
Comments (59)I posted this in a new thread, but it's prevalent to this as well, please answer these questions to the best of your knowledge, thank you: Hey all, so my manager calls me in today and tells me things are going slow for me as far as picking up on things that I should be picking up on, and I four weeks ago switched from MR/DD to Vet Assistant and now I completely feel like crap about it. I feel like I want to find a new job because in my mind, the worse thing before buying a home in a few months is to be fired. Here's the whole situation: I make 30k a year. My fiance 46k. I made 23k two years ago (first time working full time since I was doing temp work and not doing much with my life), and then 26k last year. This new job got us 4k more (but it's weird because hours aren't set, even though I make 14.50 an hour rather than 12.50, it's 35 hours due to being charged an hour for lunch break, and the hours change weekly) So, basically I want out. I have a job interview I did, $33k a year (around $15.50 an hour) but no benefits ($350 stipend towards Obamacare). Another open position at a day care center for $10.50 an hour) - $21,00 a year. I don't believe the position at the day care center is a smart move. Definitely not. I feel my days are numbered with this new job - I feel, what's the point of putting so much energy in if I'm just going to potentially get fired? Why learn more? It's not the type of job where they train you. See, this job was open because five people left in a row. I was hired, then a few others and I feel that maybe I'm the weak link. I have ADHD, I don't learn too well, but I am a hard worker. The manager basically said that she knows I'm engaged, and changed jobs and looking to start my life and that she understands that, etc. She didn't fire me, but I feel I'm on the firing line. Makes me feel like crap. I live at home, I plan on buying a home in 2016 (winter). I am curious if dropping down to let's say $12.00 an hour (roughly $1350-$1400 a month) from what I make now $14.50 is going to affect us getting a mortgage? I can ask my mortgage broker directly but I'd rather not. I wonder if we will be scrutinized and asked about it. When I spoke to my mortgage broker, we talked about down payments and we will be doing a $200-250k down payment so based upon 70k (the broker estimated at 6k less to round it out) he said with 200k down we can afford up to a $480k home) - We wouldn't even consider buying anything NEAR there, but it's good to see that 6k less (gross), which would be probably $11.50 an hour I would guess, would still net us a good pre-qualification. We are looking up to $420k home, pref something in the mid to late $300k). At times I wish I just had a simple, secure job. Something 9-5, full time, benefits. My new job has been crazy scheduling and weekends non stop. Sometimes I forget what day it is. It's a good change of pace from my old job, but not a forever job and I knew this. I do make half that money doing video work on a monthly basis so supplementing some extra money is helpful, as long as there's work and there has been for many years, so that's good. But it does concern me with the drop in pay if I decide to try not to get fired and to find something before getting fired. Is being fired and totally getting another career going to stop us from getting a home? Some people may say yes, some may say no. I will say that I am not completely happy with my job and the hours are 32-38 hours, varying and I want a full time set 40 hour work well. Or how would it look if I took a part time with benefits job and did that, and supplemented my money other way? For example $1,000 a month. So to go from $1,400 a month to $1,000 a month, will that stop us from getting a mortgage? I'm trying to figure out options here. My love is video but video jobs full time are in NYC and the cost of a train monthly is $400-500 bucks. It's insane. I've been thankful to work close to where I live and to be successful making consistent money every week with video work. It really helps and will help once we get a mortgage.So, I am interested in hearing everyones thoughts....See MoreWeird ducting situation -- who do I talk to?
Comments (3)Vith, thanks for the lingo correction, that`s one of the things I was looking for. We did have a HVAC guy do a walk-through yesterday, and he says that what we see are different stages of central air wisdom. When the house was built, there were as many air supply as air return vents, and when the addition was made, the thinking was to have one or two big air supply vents in the center of the house and only air returns in the bedrooms, so we ended up with a weird hybrid. I do have some temperature issues with the master bedroom being too hot (in the summer), but apparently that`s because it`s a corner room that gets afternoon sun. I asked the HVAC guy about rebalancing (didn`t know the term, but that`s what I meant), and he said he can bring expensive equipment to test that, but he suggests spending the money on another air return in the master instead. So given that I got a `possibly uncomfortable but not serious` vibe, I figured I`ll wait and see what happens in the winter before acting. And we`ll do the attic insulation next....See MoreCan I sell my home if it sits on a family members property?
Comments (30)First, he is not allowed to kick you out of your home. Even if you were living in the trailer for free without any commitment from him, he can't just demand you leave. There is a process in all fifty states for removing people from their home and in none of those is demanding you are "out in the spring" one of them. Next, what you are describing is a contract for acquiring the land. All real estate contracts are required by the statute of frauds to be in writing. However, there is an exception to the statute of frauds for action of the parties. In other words, people can't make an agreement, allow you to spend money towards that agreement and then revoke it because it was not in writing. The smart move at this point is to get him to acknowledge the agreement via text or email. E.g. "When we paid the $4,000 you were behind in your mortgage and then took over your mortgage, you said we could live here and then inherit 10.5 acres of land. So you can't change your mind now and decide you don't want us out. We already agreed." If your father admits to that agreement, even if he just says something like, "that was before you...." then that is the ball game. You win. He will likely not be able to evict you without paying a significant amount of money and the judge is unlikely to issue the detainer before trying some sort of mediation. Even then he is likely to grant you a judgment against your father for any money you paid on his behalf (but not yours). Finally, the question isn't really whether your dad has the right to kick you out (he probably doesn't), the question is can you make him realize it without spending a lot of money. I suspect that you can find an attorney and spend a few hundred dollars to have him write a demand letter that will back your father down. If this is happening now, it will likely happen again, so I would advise getting some legal advice now. If you can't afford it, contact your state's bar association and see if you can find someone to help you pro bono. Good luck...See Morelisaam
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