Thursday's Child Has Far To Go
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Comments (14)Ingrid, I was on a hunt for yellow teas earlier this year and bought two Etoile de Lyon this spring because of Jerome and a few others who made comments about it on a thread I found - it did very well for him, I remember his saying. Mine are doing well, purchased from ARE this spring. The one bloom I've gotten so far has been more of a cream than a yellow, but it's really too early to tell. I wonder if they aren't going to be bs prone, but that should not be a problem for you. I am sorry I cannot tell you any more than this about Etoile first hand. Gean...See MoreHas anyone's child ever had a Herbst appliance?
Comments (24)My 13 year old granddaughter will be wearing one of these Herbst appliances very soon, but it's not intended to correct an overbite or underbite. She had been experiencing headaches for about the past two years, and for over a year her jaw has been making a loud clicking sound as she opens and closes her mouth causing her pain each time. She was finally taken to a dentist who then referred her to an orthodontist. They thought it may be TMJ, so the doctor ordered an MRI of her jaw area. It was not TMJ. The right side of her jaw isn't even connected, and the clicking noises are coming from left side of her jaw . The orthodontist said he has never seen a case so sever as this in a child before...only saw cases like this with adults who have been in a traumatic auto accident, or who have had a forceful blow to their face. Her mom doesn't recall any such things ever happening as she was growing up. But I do remember when she had a root canal and cap done at the age of 3 or 4 years old. I distinctly recall how she cried in pain for hours afterwards and I couldn't find a way to comfort her. I even drove her back to the dental office where it was performed that same day and they insisted nothing was wrong with her. The orthodontist who just recently requested the MRI be done, said she has a smaller mouth than most others. I have a gut feeling, and from after talking with others about this, that there's a possibility that when they did the root canal procedure it may have partially dislocated her jaw and that her jaw never went back into the normal position as she was growing all these years. The Orthodontist does not guarantee that wearing the Herbst will even solve her problems in the end, which is heart wrenching to even think of. It's even more heartbreaking to know the pain she is going to have to endure wearing this appliance. But worse, if it doesn't work, they said surgery is the next option. I've heard that with surgery nerves will be cut and loss of feeling in the chin area occurs causing the person to always drool. That would be so traumatic for any teenager to have to deal with. This is so difficult to even imagine what might happen in the long run. I just pray that wearing the Herbst will completely correct her condition. Please, if there is anyone else who has had this similar condition, please let me know how your results were with wearing this appliance....See MoreParenting differences... when does it go too far?
Comments (13)Just because her mom is demanding it, doesn't mean your DH has to listen. After all, that's why he has sole custody. Kathline makes a good point that BM may be trying to validate her role as mommy. We go through this with my SD's mom. She was taking her daughter out of school early because it was her 'right' as a mom, even though the teacher and DH finally said something about it. She went on a rant that everyone was keeping her from her baby! Since then, she's gone through SD's homework folder (which she hadn't done before) and fills out any form that says 'parent signature' on it. If I were you, I would not engage in her rant or do as she demands. If you run to take her to the doctor every time BM says so (even just to document), then BM will continue to demand it. If SD is feeling better, then I'd write back and say "she seems to be fine now or getting better. If she gets worse, I'll notify you right away and take her for treatment." Does BM pay for any of the medical costs? My SD's mom is supposed to pay half but we've never gotten a penny. She hasn't demanded we take her to the doctor but in your case, I might have told her that if she was so worried about the health of her child, she wouldn't let the lack of insurance information stop her. I know I wouldn't as a mom. But telling her that is only going to make her more defensive of her role as a mom, then you are essentially calling her a bad mom and that will probably get a bad reaction. theotherside, if OP didn't say that everyone in the house has had the flu, I'd be more inclined to agree with you. If the symptoms don't go away or get worse in two days, I would definitely find out why, of course we were sick for three days and it was just the stomach flu. So, part of assessing whether it requires a trip to the doctor would include what everyone has eaten or what the source of the problem is. I'd look at the big picture first. (and anytime there is blood, it's a no brainer...)...See MoreDealing with the fact my fiance has a child
Comments (9)Its easy for people to say run and get out of this relationship, but if you're truly in love with him, it's not an easy thing to do. I'm sure you already know that. I think you have to do a few things. First, if you can't accept that he has a child and you're not "his first", then move on because it is what it is and it's not going to change. There is a child involved and it's not fair if you go into this relationship with some bitterness that could affect this child later on. If you are truly in love with this man and can't live without him, then accept that he has a child, accept that you need to be a loving stepmom to this child and have a heart to heart sit down with your fiance to let him know that and most of all, that there can be no more lying/deception. I'm not making excuses for his lying at all, but it's possible that he knew how you would react and how you want to be his first and that's why he was embarrassed and scared to say anything. If you let him know that you're supportive of the fact that he now has a child, hopefully he'll be more forthcoming in the future. If not, move on. And I'd also wait a while if you do get married, before having a child. Wait and see how he does with being a father to this other child before you put another child into the picture. If he's not a loving, supportive father to his first child, do you really want him to father your child? I would think not. Bottom line, you can't re-write history, accept the current situation or move on. Good luck to you, I wish you the best....See More- 3 years ago
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