Ugh. Losing motivation.
amylou321
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How do you stay motivated and patient during this build?
Comments (13)gobruno! i decided i would change my mind on the (not very inexpensive) sofas i was about to order ...when i was on the phone with the salesperson! there i was, notes in hand looking at my fabric and layout and WHAM! all of a sudden i heard myself say, "let me call you back!" and i was back online looking at more sofas. and then i did it again ...changed my mind on the banquettes for the breakfast room AND THEN i moved on to my BED! it's a really good thing those are the only pieces i'm getting right now otherwise i'd be nowhere. i'm sure i am settled on the furniture for now and will order NEXT WEEK. ...i think. and i was just thinking this past week i should learn to sew! i'm not convinced i'll be good enough to want to sew my own curtains (always had them made and professionally hung) but then i tell myself "i'm not stupid. surely i can operate a little machine with a foot petal" ...but i have no patience which could impede my ability to take my time and do a good job. at least this was my experience when i had "home ec" in the seventh grade. we made gingham book bags and embroidered our initials on them. THAT is the extent of my experience with a sewing machine. old dog, new tricks? i dunno... how's the sewing going for you???...See MoreLosing weight without losing your passion for cooking?
Comments (26)What a timely thread! You know, I've been scaling back my time here on the forum because of my need to lose weight. I used to check in here at least 4 times a day, especially if working. Well, I was isnpired to try many of the recipes on here... some of them not so healthy. Now I check in about once every 3 days or so. It took a lot of self control! Sadly, I did have to curb my passion for baking in an effort to lose weight. I haven't made any sweet treats in about two months... I think... I can't even remember the last time I baked something. I've wanted to several times, but had to resist the temtation. My stand mixer is now growing a layer of dust... he gives me the evil eye every time I walk by, feeling neglected I'm sure. I've also been drinking only water at work and home (maybe an occasional glass of 1 percent milk, but nothing sweet). I've been forcing myself to exercise 3 times a week for 45 minutes (on the Gazelle glider or riding a bike that a co-worker gave me). I've gone from going to fast food restaurants while working 3 times a week to not at all. If I'm at work and didn't have time to pack a lunch, I'll run out to my car and get a granola bar (I keep a stash under the seat). I obviously need to do more because the scale isn't moving. The Jack Daniels sampler platter at TGI Fridays has been calling my name for a while now, but I've been good about resisting lately. I LOVE it, and like to get it once a month. Haven't had it for a month or so now. The last time I got it, I split it up into two meals and only ate half at at time. That's a tip I've learned on this forum and have been using it quite a bit lately. A couple days ago, I was cleaning out some closets and got hungry. I was tired from the physical work, and it was emotionally draining to see the memories of the past as I was cleaning. I wasn't really hungry, but I still wanted to eat. I drove to Long John Silvers to place a big order to take back home and feast on. While I was waiting in line to order, I realized that I was getting this food because I was upset or frustrated and not because I needed it! I scolded myself saying, "Bobby, you just spent 10 minutes sewing a button back on your pants that you've popped off with your gut, and you're in line at Long John Silvers! Something is wrong with that!" I got back in my car without ordering, went home and made a salad with some boneless skinless chicken pieces on top. OK... Most of my response hasn't been about cooking, so let me get on topic for a second! I did try a new thing in the kitchen that helped me with overeating. I deciced I wanted to try to make some homemade peanut sauce and fried tofu. I bought all the ingredients (incluidng peanut oil and rice vinegar which I'd never used before). Well, I don't love tofu so I will never over eat it! The peanut sauce was a little bland, so I added a lot of red pepper and made it really spicy. I'm not big on spicy foods, but I liked the sauce spicy! I just coudn't eat a lot of it. I've also read that spicy foods boots the metabolism, so double bonus. Can't handle a lot of it at a time, and it boost metabolism! It could be a good thing to start a support group here for people who want to lose weight... With the great collection of people here, I'm sure we'd encourage each other....See MoreHelp Me Stay Motivated: Waiting for 'Right' House.
Comments (20)Took us a year to find a house. After selling our home of 40 years in NY, we retired to Florida. We were lucky we had family with vacation condos where we could stay during that time. We must have seen hundreds of houses and worked with 5 different agents....don't ask! It was a nightmare and we wound up buying a house we had seen at the very beginning of our search. We liked it initially, but it lacked certain things we thought we couldn't live without. It also was out of the area we wanted to live in. Over the year, the market (Florida) began to change from buyers to sellers market. Investors were snatching up properties quickly. But, we also saw many short sales which were tempting. We had put offers on a few but the banks never moved. It became depressing. We had all our belongings, furniture, clothes, etc. in storage which was expensive. We felt so displaced and unhinged. We had accepted offers on quite a few houses during the year but they all fell through. Most failed inspections and the buyers wouldn't allow for major repairs (roof, plumbing, mold). Others had permit issues where the work they did was not legal. Their only option was to try to get permits but they all choose not to do so. So we wound up with one of the first houses we saw. By that point the seller dropped her price and we raised ours. She was underwater with the bank and would only accept her price to cover her mortgage. We gave in and covered her. Are we happy here? Still not sure, bit we are finally settled. After 7 months I still don't feel this house is home. It took me almost 6 months before I could call it 'home.' I still have issues with that word. But, we spent a year living in limbo, working with agents who didn't fit. When we finally found the right Realtor we knew we'd find our house. I don't know if you'll ever find the right house. I do know the longer it takes the harder it becomes. You begin to settle, you get tired of looking and you just accept. I still feel we should have kept looking. We call this place home now. We are slowly putting ourselves in the house making it feel like home. Not there yet, but at least we aren't living our lives looking for the 'right' home anymore. Good luck, Jane...See MoreTo roof or not? - from a 'motivated' seller
Comments (17)As in the near suburbs of a major city (here, Philadelphia), there is a range of housing mixed within a relatively smaller town/area. Most in my (middle income, single family house) neighborhood are first time buyers or movers-up from smaller twins or from homes in the inner city. There are also some great larger Victorians, Craftsman and Tudor-style homes (for move-up buyers, who like the burbs and easy access to downtown) mixed in throughout the smaller singles (like mine, 1,800 sq ft, but I have a larger lot than many of the homes, large or small), - and it's beautifully landscaped (had to add that, as it is my pride and joy). The roof had some leaks over two dormers which I've patched to be sure they didn't become bigger problems. I had planned to - and would have replaced the roof before now - but health problems and related income drop precluded that. Now I'd like to move-on - and sell - to focus on my health - and not the burdens of a home and mortgage. I'D LIKE TO DO THE BEST POSSIBLE I can to insure I get proper value for what I've already invested in my house (whatever today's market may be). If I had funds to do the whole roof (and yes, 3 layers + cedar shingles need to come off the back/South side, and there are 2 layers + shingles that would come off the front - and start over laying plywood) I wouldn't hesitate. I would feel best selling it with a whole new roof - and it would be most attractive to buyers (and I'd feel I finished 'the job' right as a prior owner)- but I can't, I may need to just go half-way and do the back which is bad, borrowing from friend or family (front, again, looks fine and no problems with leaks or anything else). I understand, linda, that it could give the appearance that 'corners were cut' (I would be suspicious of that myself) - but I'd hope there'd be room to explain my circumstance - and desire to keep the place up as best possible (again, I've been told that all of the refurbishing, landscaping, etc look and 'show very well).. to my fullest capacity. I would believe the quality of the work on the house overall, would be evidence of that. I don't like the idea of raising flags or opening negotiating points, especially since I've worked so hard to get the place to this point, except for... I noticed a home up the street from me with a 'sold' sign on it today, and that they're working on the roof... I'm assuming that it's being done as part of a negotiated agreement... and will try to find out....See Moreamylou321
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