I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for your heart to heal.

I'm so sorry, Jasdip.

It's only been a week. You need to heal on your time, not anyone else's. I'm so sorry for your loss. Know that you have people here who do care and will look forward to you joining in again when the time is right.

Jasdip - if you need someone to speak to, please reach out to me. Send me an email - ricky at fawnridge dot com and I will reply with my phone number.

I am going through the same thing as you right now, I understand your grief, and I've been through this once before, eight years ago. I can help.

oh no! I'm so sorry. Hugs...........

So sorry to learn of your sweetie's passing. Were you together a long time?

I believe when we love someone, they feel like a part of ourselves - which they truly are.

So sorry to hear of your sweetie's passing. Take care of yourself and don't have "expectations". You will heal in your own good time.

I'm so sorry. Losing someone so close is so painful. Hugs to you.

I am so sorry to hear this.

My condolences! Take care of yourself.

My dad went through a similar path. He had a few very important good years after diagnosis where chemo helped mitigate his symptoms. He died very quickly after the drs told him the second chemo medicine wasn’t going to work. With time we realized it was a blessing.

God's unfair mistake.

Men always go first, leaving the women to suffer and to take care the mess.

I hope you some how soon will manage.

dcarch

So sorry to hear this Jasdip. My sincere condolences to you. Very sad indeed.

I'm so sorry for your loss. You've been here for so long Jasdip! I hardly post anymore because like you, I've been through a lot of changes and loss, and I just don't cook as much anymore. Also, I've got years worth of recipes in my "to try" folders as it is!

Feel free to post here with any help you need. After we lost my mom suddenly, I really found it helpful to be with friends. A lot of them helped me go through some of mom's things and distribute them. Still not done though. Two things helped me, reminiscing about good times and carrying on with things mom and I had done together, in her memory. And then the total opposite, doing things that did not remind me of her, to distract me. Don't be afraid to seek out a grief group. They helped my dad a lot. I think it helps to create new patterns for yourself, rather than stick to the old ones without a partner. It's not moving on from the person you loved, you can never do that, but moving forward helps ease your mind with tasks instead of just ruminating on the sadness. Your husband wouldn't want you to do that!

Feel free to vent on here, who's going to notice or care other than us old timey CF folks!

thinking of you ...

I'm so sorry. I lost my husband to prostate cancer 13 1/2 years ago. When it is the aggressive kind, it's a nasty disease. He was 64 and I was 61.

It's not easy and I still miss him so very, very much. He was a teacher so we had a lot of time with one another. He was just such a huge part of my life.

My children and grandchildren and I still talk about him a lot. There is never a day I don't think of him. You will get to the point where you can talk about him without crying - I don't remember when that was for me but sometime in the first 18 months.

Cooking for one is pretty boring, though.

I'm so sorry, Jasdip. Sending a hug your way.

Oh, Jasdip, I'm so very, very sorry. I didn't see you on the "What's For Dinner" thread and was just hoping against odds that your sweetheart was going to pull out of this last bad spot. I can't even imagine the huge whole in your life with him gone.

You will certainly be in my prayers for strength and healing, and if you need us, and when you are ready, we will be here.

Annie

Jadsip, my heart goes out to you at this terrible time. I'm so sorry to hear this.

I am so very very sorry, Jasdip. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you...

((((((Jasdip))))))

Jasdip, I'm sorry for the loss of your beloved. Please tell us how we can help you through this journey.

Sol ♥

I'm so sorry, Jasdip. Keeping you in my thoughts as you try to sort this out and heal as best you can.

Jasdip, I'm so sorry. We are all here for you.

So sorry for your loss Jasdip. Sending hugs and healing to you from MN.

Linda

So sorry to hear of your loss. I am mostly a lurker here, but still feel I know many of you.

I am so sorry Jasdip. So awful.

Jasdip, I am so sorry for your incredible loss. I have so enjoyed your contributions over the years . It was obvious you and your husband were very close.

Hugs to you, please use this place you have enjoyed and shared to be a comfort to you......we care

My heart is aching for you. Cancer sucks and is so cruel. Please use the CF as a support system. There are so many here to lend you a shoulder to cry on and to lift you up. Hugs...

I'm sorry, Jasdip.

So so sorry.

I think I've been prepping for thirty years. We also do everything together.

When our best friend passed twenty years ago I never let go of his humor, his laugh, his annoyances. I talk to him all the time. His presence in spirit will always be with me. The physical presence and void just sucks.

{{{{{Jasdip}}}}}

I am so sorry for you. My father died of cancer six months ago. I have never experienced anyone dieing, let a alone from cancer and I still feel like I have PTSD from it. It just amazes me how much they have to fight it (chemo, immunotherapy, radiation) but if it is too far advanced when you find it -- it seems to be all for nothing.

I'm sorry for your loss.

It's only been 2 weeks, and I'm having a hard time. I feel like a knife has been stuck in me and ripped me to shreds. The smallest thing can set me on a crying binge.

LOL, I don't care for Stevie Wonder, except for 1 song........Blowing in the Wind, a duet. It's amazing. A couple of days after Tom "left", I heard that song on the radio, which is hardly ever on the radio. I knew it was a sign from hubby. I bawled for ages.

Here's my sweetie. He was cremated wearing his Ride for Dad long-sleeved t-shirt and jeans as he wanted. He said "that way it will be easy for us to find each other when we meet again."

Jasdip, I remember your motorcycle "Ride for Dad" post just back in June, only 5 months or so ago. It seems like things just happened so fast for you.

I'm not surprised that he wanted that shirt, I know that was a cause that was dear to both of you.

I've been thinking of you, and I know this is a very hard time for you. I know several members here who have lost family members to cancer or who have survived it themselves, it's a horrible disease.

I am glad to see you here again, though, and will keep you in my prayers.

Annie

Jasdip, I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Jasdip, I haven't been here much lately, but I'm glad I checked in today to add my condolences. Peace and strength to you.