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Comments (2)This is also the reaction I get, Kids. I swear, you offer people a simple tomato plant and they back away from you like it's an STD. Oh wait, that's supposed to be STI now, isn't it? As in Surplus Tomato Incoming!...See Moredecline of pollinators
Comments (3)You're looking for input - what is your question? If you're looking for commentary, I'll bite. I don't see any decline in pollinators here (northern VA east of the mountains, central mid-atlantic). We had a ridiculously mild winter. Our Spring was not staged blooming as is normal, literally everything bloomed at once - forsythia to early azalea, dogwood, redbud, maple, oaks, fruit trees, clover - everything happened all at once. We've had one of the hottest summers on record. I've seen, and every day even now am seeing a LOT of butterflies this summer; the big colorful ones, monarchs, others (that to my uneducated eye seem similar to monarchs), hummers, flies, bees, wasps, hornets, little flying things in general, bugs & beetles with no end. The birds are having a feast. Right now it's "chewing insect" season, and my trees & shrubs reflect that (new house, we've only planted 3 little cherry trees this spring, and just what I've noticed in the woods). My tomatoes dutifully have hornworm damage - I picked them off, carrying them a safe distance but so they could live to be tobacco moths. But based on the bird activity, I believe they will benefit the soil as crow poop this year, LOL. This is our first year in the house, and my Home is about 300 miles from here, so while I"m not sure what "normal" is for this exact location, I have a pretty good idea. Seems normal to me here. Life is a cycle. Everything goes in & out, up & down - that's life. We were all begat with in & out motion. In the 1970's, they were predicting the next ice age and we were all gonna die - of course humans were responsible, ton of new stupid regulations put in place with an excuse to raise taxes in the foray. Now they say the world is gonna melt, flood, and we're all gonna die - of course, humans responsible, useless legislation passed, and our taxes are raised. It's all natural cyclic activity for which control freak political types try feebly to retain some appearance of control to keep themselves in power. In 10 years, NONE of it will matter. They're teaching our children (if I had any) to not think, be dependent, and ignore History, so it surely will repeat itself poorly. Bet you have an amazing insect yard next year....See MoreSticky situation....
Comments (36)I had a similiar situation 15 years ago....against my better judgement "I went". The guy who was marrying my "un-named friend" very very close to my entire family, came from a looser trashy family. She came from great stock (father was a policeman) She was wonderful until this looser came along. She completly changed, although there was no substance abuse or alcohol on her part at all he was a BIG party animal and very handsome! So we went to the wedding he was late because he stopped at the bar with the guys in the Bridal Party...The bride sat in the limo crying...His mother is talking to me on the church steps she apparantly had a few and is smelling like rum..Finally the wedding starts priest comes out takes one look at the groom and says this will not be a High Mass (Catholics understand) Our family & close friends almost crawled under the Pew! He cut the ceremony to 10 minutes tops....And YES there was a brawl at the reception which started between Mother & Son who actually whacked each other several times before others stop that...on & On by cake time "the Bride feeds the groom lalala sing sing...his turned he smashed her in the face with the cake and almost knocked her off her feet at that point my Irish Temper family left because the guys were gonna KILL HIM!!! 1 very unhappy year later she got rid of him straighted out her life and is in a wonderful place right now....Him hes been in and out of jail and a Cocaine addict....That said if I would have followed my heart I WOULD HAVE NOT WENT! Good Luck in your decision...See MoreHas the decline in your home's value
Comments (43)christopherh, Yes, I understand what you're saying. We had a similar emotion when we delivered all of those turkeys. My DH spent two nights this week serving at the Hospice booth in the local shopping mall, he's rang the bell for the Salvation Army, his bank does the Angel tree like your community does & people are very generous, we donated an antique painting this year for a silent auction benefiting Make A Wish (a charity close to my heart), I've made thousands of phone calls for the hospital since T-day, QVC always has a Today's Special Value during the holiday season of Weekly Reader books & I always purchase a few sets & donate to our local libray & hospital, I've been playing Christmas carols at the nursing home near my house twice/week for a month, & we will be serving dinner to the homeless on Christmas Day after breakfast with our family. Sure, we make financial donations & many organizations prefer that but there's huge need for volunteers. Organizations are always chronically short on volunteers. Thank you for giving freely of your time & money to the needy. And, it's true...we can't forget after New Year's. People need help twelve months a year! My DH also can't give plasma. On his third attempt the nurse told him to return to just giving blood. He gives every three months unless medications make him ineligible. I can't donate blood due to health & medications & I greatly admire all those who keep our national blood supply going. So, kudos to all of you who donate! To keep this OT...charities are reporting donations are down pretty much across the board this year & they are attributing it to people having less disposable income due to higher food & energy costs on the home front. It wouldn't surprise me either if some of those who've lost their homes to foreclosure are also part of the increased need at the food banks. /t...See Moreeld6161
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