Feeling very overwhelmed & defeated...
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Gaillardia and feeling defeated...
Comments (24)Here are the dates I have for the gaillardia seeds that I planted: Gaillardia 'Tokajer' WS on 1/16, germinated 3/3/09 Gaillardia 'Burgundy' WS on 1/16, germinated 3/14/09 Gaillardia 'Goblin' WS on 3/7/09, germinated 3/19/09 The germination percentage isn't great, probably around 50%, but more may germinate once the temps warm up consistently. What I love about all of my Gaillardia plants, and I already have about a dozen, is that they are blooming machines, but mine don't usually bloom until the second year. Oh, and I've found if I move them in the fall, they don't come back, but if I move the plants in the spring, it just sets them back a few weeks on the bloom time. In zones 6 and 7, I would think they would be up by the end of April, unless the containers are in a shady location. Bonnie...See MoreFeeling a little overwhelmed....
Comments (17)Oh, me too! Can I jump on the âÂÂoverwhelmedâ bandwagon? This weekend was my busiest weekend of the year because IâÂÂm the music director at my church & there was a celebration every day - Thursday, Friday, Saturday & Sunday! So, of course, my family decided that Easter supper should be at my house! I still hadnâÂÂt gotten all the kitchen cabinet doors back up from the repainting, the dining room was a mess from re-varnishing to of the room doors (drop cloths & saw horse) and the whole house needed cleaning because like Calamity J, I was sick for 2 weeks. So it was a mad scramble to get everything presentable for the big supper yesterday. The one good thing about having people coming is that itâÂÂs motivation that I wouldnâÂÂt normally have when itâÂÂs just me having to look at it - haha! But the darned quack grass has been busy outside while IâÂÂve been busy inside & it all looks a mess. I had piled whole newspaper sections (not just a few sheets) covered by literally 10 inches of wood chips & still the quack grass comes up. And you canâÂÂt buy Grass-B-Gone in Canada, so after a lot of internet & Gardenweb forum searching, I have decided my only option is to go with the aluminum flashing underground around all the beds, because I just canâÂÂt keep up with all the weeding. And like Kokszta Kid, I didnâÂÂt cut anything down last year, but at least the house it tidied up, so as soon as the good weather comes back, I can get out there & get started. The problem is I also have gadd like Thyme2dig (gardener attention deficit disorder - or is it gardener add because IâÂÂm always add-ing projects to my list!!). So I want to get started on lining those beds, but then there are the window boxes I want to add, and I have vowed that I will not have a single unsown seed this year! So I might alternate - do one bed, then build a window box, so a couple packetsâ¦...See MoreEver Feel Overwhelmed?
Comments (30)Norwayaha, First, I wouldn't assume that they are making fun of you. It might just be gentle teasing (and as stated, you can choose to think of it as a compliment - you don't have control over their comments, but you do have control over your reaction to their comments). Second, consider using this as an opportunity to educate your friends and family. I talk about how I know what goes into the jars. I am living a greener life (growing my own food) and the food I make is absolutely delicious. Plus I am saving money (when I use my own home grown ingredients). I share jars with them (with instructions to return the jars when done). When they have tasted my "tastes like summer in a jar" peach jam or fresh salsa using my homegrown tomatoes and peppers, they are sold. As to a comment like why make jam when there is jam sold in a store, my response is: Find me peach jelly. Find me blueberry peach jam or blackberry lavendar jam. You can't! With home canning, I get to make wonderful combinations that literally aren't available in the stores (except perhaps for $9 a pint at a farmer's market where, guess what? they are doing their own canning!). Most of all, I feel connected to generations of women before me who nurtured their families with home canned goodies. I'm making sure lost arts aren't truly lost. Although people may not understand loving a hobby that is so much work, many more people are receptive to the idea than you might realize, with just a little education. So often the response I receive is "I always wanted to try canning, but I didn't know anyone who did it." You might be pleasantly surprised! Now all that said, oh heck yeah, I feel overwhelmed at times. Putting up 50-75 pounds of peaches during the summer and pounds and pounds of tomatoes/peppers/etc. in the fall is definitely a daunting proposition at times, especially since I work full time....See More(sigh) Pepper Maggots = Overwhelming Feeling of Defeat
Comments (23)Yes, I have been in touch with my county extension and I am going to send samples to MSU for tests. Pepper Maggots are not at all common in mich that is why they want samples so that they can cofirm. these things in my peppers are not weevils they are maggots I have seen the flys in the garden but at the time did not know what they were.I am not sending the samples to MSU for my benefit because I am 99.9999% sure that these are pepper maggots from the pics that I have seen on the internet of the flies that lay the eggs. Mich. State University wants these samples because they have not had cases of the maggots in mich that they know of. i would hope that someone , including myself can find a way to prevent them from surviving in the soil so that we don't have this problem next year. I found this on a site about Pepper Weevils I believe it to say that they emerge from the pepper as a weevil and not a maggot. Pepper Weevil larvae bore into pepper pods and feed for about 8 to 10 days. At this time, full-grown larvae create cells made of frass within peppers and pupate. Four to 6 days later, a new generation of beetles emerges. This 2- to 3-week life cycle is typical in summer. In cool weather, however, 5 to 6 weeks may pass from the egg to the adult stage. In Florida, 5 to 8 generations are produced each year. Chris, mine too are isolated to the larger pods but am finding no damage to my habs Bhuts and Nagas. I have already disposed of 20 plants and I am guessing 1000 pods. I will keep everyone up to speed on this and hopefully someone will find a way of elimanating these bastards!!! Dale...See Morecathz6
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