Help! Our HOA wants to require approval for interior improvements
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Still don't have a fence (HOA related)
Comments (27)abbysmom, I agree with your suspicion that the HOA is just messin' wit' you. What I would suggest is to find a contractor that will do the fence that you want which complies with the govt. code, arrange for installation, and have an atty draft a letter to the HOA (AND copy the state govt dept which oversees this) stating that "In compliance with state code blah blah blah, my client will be erecting a 5' tall (or whatever) pool fence." I also agree with the other poster who said to include in there that the HOA would be liable for legal fees and damages in the event you are found to be in the right. A $150-200 attorney-generated strongly-worded letter will hopefully make them back down without the need for litigation. What a bunch of morons. Perfect example of "power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." Your situation is exactly why we refuse to ever live in a subdivision. Best of luck to you, and keep us posted....See MorePool fences and HOA's question.
Comments (12)This past summer came home to have dinner with the family before heading back out to a job I was finishing up. Had my 12' trailer hooked up to my truck. I was going to be home about an hour and then back out so rather then park in the street and cause my neighbors to look at the rig in the street I backed it into my driveway which it fit totally in. Well a hour later I go out to leave and my truck and trailer is gone. Come to find out that our HOA Pres two houses up had it towed away. Cost me over $600 to get it out so I could finish the job I was on. All my neighbors were pretty upset about this and voiced it at the next meeting. Come to find out if I had just left it in the street they could not have touched it, but because I wanted to be the courteous neighbor I get towed. Weird thing the HOA Pres has had his business fined three times by the state for different violations that were called into them....payback can stink......See MorePersuading HOA Board Members
Comments (6)I wouldn't. It doesn't sound like your HOA is interested, despite your best intentions. I honestly think it would waste your time as most people aren't going to read it, and I would be surprised if the board read it. I'm not trying to insult you or your efforts, but most people have very short attention spans and will, at most, skim a lengthy term paper style letter. As someone who is part of an HOA, if someone presented a paper to me trying to persuade me to give a one-time fee, I would politely say thanks and put it aside. I don't necessarily think the suggestion is a bad one, but before I agree to give up several thousands of dollars to an HOA, I would want to know exactly where it's going, who is managing it, what happens if I sell, what benefits we will see, how it will reduce my monthly HOA dues and how it will improve my life. And I would need to see specific examples, not generalizations like landscaping or road maintenance. People are often mistrusting of the HOA, and I would not buy a home that required a $2k HOA fee when I have no knowledge of what it's like and what the benefits are to me. And I realize you're in a catch 22 as you can't give specifics if it's still a hypothetical situation, and you can't turn it into an actual situation without support. I honestly didn't see anything wrong with their correspondence to you, except maybe the "have it defeated once & for all" was a little harshly stated. For some constructive criticism, based on your email, you add a lot of unnecessary detail into what you're writing, and I think that could be causing some of your problems. I would put it in a very succinct, factual presentation without a lot of hyperbolic descriptions. As a rule, you have seconds to keep and hold a reader's attention. Just because they should be reading the whole thing, doesn't mean that they are. It sounds like they are tired of hearing from you. I don't think that's right of them, but you might be better served to back up a bit. I would probably talk to neighbors you are friendly with and see what they think without handing them all your research, and go from there. Good luck, I think it's important to come up with new ideas and I'm sorry you're not seeing the support you would like....See MoreWants vs needs in our kitchen design. Help!
Comments (68)Agree with smm5525, the two inspirations pics are not really compatible. The LR would fit in perfectly in my traditional 1941 "colonial" house and the kitchen is more a 1990's "Mediterranean" genre. Neither are either tropical or beachy -- I am not sure what you are picturing in your mind's eye with those terms. The two spaces are going to be completely open to each other so they have to flow together smoothly. Also, they need to fit the style/era of the rest of your house! What is it like? You had mentioned that the kitchen would be "warm" and the great room/bar "cool" which, again, doesn't often work in real life when the spaces are juxtaposed like that. One or the other will always look "off" to you unless the colors are very carefully chosen and use a lot of mid range neutrals (colors that work with both warm and cool). I do like the color that you've chosen for the bar cabinets BTW. Find some more inspiration pics to clarify your overall looks and then call your ID soonest and get him/her working with you! You mentioned being on a timeline, but I strongly encourage you to have the whole project a bit more thoroughly planned out before anything is started....See Moreoliviag55
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