Venting my frustration
growgirl
6 years ago
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Comments (44)Hey E.O.! Glad to see you visit "this side" some time! And glad to see your perspective and intent in posting and reading what you do! It's difficult communicating this way, isn't it, at times. I think, if we all take care of our own business, and quit trying to 'straighten' others out so much--less will be misunderstood! I suppose coming to a forum where advice is so freely available, we sometimes forget that unless advice is asked for, perhaps it shouldn't be given, and if we feel 'compelled' to give it, make sure it is done in such a way as to not make ourselves look so "elevated" and others so ignorant! Sometimes--that happens and in some cases, I know, that is not intentional, but in some cases I believe it definitely seems to be the intent! Some people are just quite naturally more sensitive and we should be able to recognize that in folks that post here for awhile and then be careful to be sensitive and RESPECTFUL in our of handling them. Kindness is becoming a lost character quality and it's turning us into barbarians, in so many ways in our culture today!! Don't get me started! Anyway, I think we all need to settle our 'feathers' down and keep on keeping on, and it wouldn't hurt for apologies to be offered where needed, either. I've yet to ever reject an apology, myself, (not that I think I need one BTW), when I sense it to be genuine! Oh, and Phil--I also sent you an email very early today!!! What in the world is happening with that? I've never thought I had a problem sending folks emails? Have you received ANY from the GW site?...See MoreWhen is mockery NOT the best form of flattery?
Comments (9)I am with you on the mockery/immitation thing, that would really get under my skin. Since I am the only gardener in our neighborhood (everyone else 'landcapes" if you know what I mean) - I get violent when they tell me I need to trim my rosebushes, or the clematis should be removed since they don't flower all year like thier standard red geraniums (pelorgoniums, actually). I almost gasped when our neighboor asked me to cut down our 25 year old ashes since they are too big and shade the street not to mention drop too many leaves in the fall - I told him thats what trees are supposed to do. I don't cut his cats head off whenever it S^iT$ in the yard - right? I would do the following to mess with them: 1. plant poison ivy on their side of the house (ok probably not the right tihng to do but funny) 2 find out what they hate and buy several of them (pink flamingos, trolls, Greco-Roman statues, Madonna) everyone has their lawn ornament-thing they hate. 3. I like the idea of switching nursery tags (yellow to red rose, etc.) I would plant sedum and name it something long and latin that cannot be translated....Pittospiulinium macrohepatodoethenuem var. albicans sans purpurea 4. plant a prairie, they sound like control freaks and would not like a prairie since they are hard to replicate tell them the next plant you plant is a division from a friend and you have no idea of the name....See MoreOne Kings Lane
Comments (2)I've received excellent customer service from all of the flash sales sites. However, I gave up ordering anything breakable like glass from OneKingsLane because items always arrived broken because of poor packing. They were wonderful about quickly refunding my money, but I got frustrated after it happened multiple times. They had some really cute green bowls and glasses the other day, but I resisted ordering them because of my past experience....See MoreUrinary blockage...so frustrated
Comments (40)My kitty has had obstruction problems as well. First doctor recommended the prescriptions diet as well as the be-all, end-all, as in "noting else will work." Cat didn't like the (crappy) food; he was back to the practice within 2 mos. Happily, there was a "relief" vet there covering for the bully who owned the place. He recommended extra fluids with his regular food (raw), SPRING water (distilled pulls needed minerals from the body; the minerals in spring water are NOT what cause the blockage) AND, prophylactic use of sub-q fluids, tapering down to prn. It had been more than 18 mos now and all has been well until my prescription for sub-q fluids rand out. Can't seem to find another vet who uses that philosophy and can't find the "relief" vet. I am getting worried. We're going to 6+ weeks since his last sub-q fluid administration (125ml/day for 8 days at beg of each month). Anybody know how to track down a "relief" vet in the central Florida area? Thx....See Moregrowgirl
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