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Comments (17)lollol I had a feeling Gizmo was going to make an appearance in this thread. Okay, so Mike (of London) posted a link to The Secret Life of Plants in a different thread, but my reactions had more to do with this topic, so I'm just going to link that thread below. First I'm glad I watched it because it helped me articulate something I failed to when I voiced that horrible question about choosing between pets and plants. (Which I always knew was as ridiculous as choosing between mums and dads) That is, although it certainly seems a lot easier (or faster, anyway) to bond with our animal friends, who rub and frolic and keep us warm, I feel a real communication/chemistry with my plant roommates. A relationship that (dare I say it) seems more MATURE than the one I have with that Zeno. Like my plants handle themselves like adults and get my music, whereas Zeno is a total kid. The other day I saw an Ikea plant (of the large palm variety) in the gross little closet that holds the apartment trash chute. It looked like it had lost most of its limbs and only had one green chute powering along. And it just made me sick, thinking of it dying there, slowly, shut off from light and water because some jerk had adopted it and then proceeded to suck as a friend. I guess it's thinking of THAT plant that made me struggle with the question, not a lack of total codependent bonding with Zeno. I hope you guys have all stopped pitying my stealthy black fuzzball now. :3 Second I think I might need to reassess the plant versus pet situation. I mean, if cabbages can identify perps in a lineup, presumably, my plants can recognize Zeno, and who am I to assume that they HATE him? It could be that all this time I was not just protecting them from his occassional nibbles and tippings, but I was also depriving them of his inquisitive sniffs and rubs. I mean, MOST of the time, he isn't intent on mangling them. Maybe they are sensing his positive energy as he noses around thinking: What's that interesting smell? That's YOU! And then the little streptocarpus stands up a little more proudly in its dish. I'm going to have to mull this over... That said, you guys are AWESOME! Lemon and netting. Check. And no one looks innocent except Denise's cats. Especially not that rascally pug. ^_~ Here is a link that might be useful: Thread w/ The Secret Life of Plants...See MoreHope to meet a few of you this Saturday
Comments (1)I hope things went well...See MoreMy Day....Feb 29th...Hope I don't get to do a do over
Comments (13)I wish I could be more supportive but it's really hard to make friends as an adult. My 8 year old just has to walk outside and he can find someone to play with. It doesn't matter if they know each other or not - they instantly start talking and find some common ground. The adults rarely come outside and most won't even make eye contact with each other! I became isolated when I was married because my husband was very paranoid and it just because easier to lose touch with friends than deal with his jealousy. Now that I'm single again, I don't even know where to start. I have lots of acquaintances locally, but no sounding boards. Even my mom passed away just over a year ago. It does leave a gaping hole in your life but it's not an easy one to fill....See MoreI still don't think I was wrong....kinda long
Comments (36)Had they emailed you five days ahead ... and if most of the members could be reached by email (or if you have telphone linkages so that one person only need call three), you could have canvassed the group to see how much enthusiasm/willingness there might have been to change the plans of all 30 ... and the restaurant would have had time to change their plans (which they might have been somewhat unwilling to do, were it to have involved, as some have suggested, feeding your crew right at their regular lunch hour, when they'd be run off of their feet). As it was, having made their reservations at 2 in the morning a few hours before your meeting, then having slept in till just before time to leave for the party, so not having time to have phoned/emailed you to give you some lead time ... ... they expect everyone to jump through hoops to accomodate their plans. Someone should suggest that they were lucky that the group didn't agree to have 30 people eat an hour or two earlier ... ... or some of the restaurant staff might have slipped a knife between their ribs! (As it is ... someone(s) feel(s) entitled to slip one between yours). Dad used to say, "Small potatoes ... and few in a hill". As it is, I'm sort of glad that this is the most serious thing that you have to worry about just now. Have yourself a lovely Christmas! ole joyful P.S. I don't think that I'd consider for a moment suggesting their taking over the party planner's task ... ... can you imagine the merry chase that they'd lead the group on, more than likely, were they to accept? o j...See More- 9 years ago
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