@HALLETT & Co. Great answer, thanks! We'd love for the whole house to be a different color, but don't have the budget for it right now. So maybe we could replace the trim when that project comes up. The quality of work on the remodel is mixed and we'll be steadily improving it. @toddinmn Yes, I started off looking at painting the trim, but then got more and more bothered by the style once I got into choosing a color. Skimming the trim smooth sounds appealing, but stucco is so strong, that I can't picture it coming off to leave a smooth surface! What do you mean by "venerating"? I tried looking that up but couldn't find anything. @chiflipper I was looking at a mossy green for the trim, actually. Funny you should mention the ironwork because that's my favorite thing about the house! But thanks for the input. I'll think about it. :)

I'm glad you're firm about not painting the brick. The brick is a natural, textured feature of your house that allows it to breathe and requires litte maintenance over time. Since you have a visible light brown roof, your trim needs to work with that as well as the brick. Here are houses with the same varieted brick as yours, one with a brown roof. You can pick up a greige for the trim with maybe a light blue or yellow door or this light green. Just don't do white--too much contrast. I'm showing this for the tan. Though the door is handsome and like yours, a lighter door might be better on your house since it's receded and looks too dark right now.

The window trim change would be to Craftsman style. Unless you are doing the work yourself it seems a lot of expense for little difference on upstairs windows. It would, however, be extremely easy to do on your front door as you would only need to change the top board. And you could replace the side lights with solid wood inserts, or you could use textured glass that would obscure the view while still letting light in. While the limestone exterior is very light it has a yellow hue. Simply speaking the easiest way to find colors that work with the warm limestone is to choose a nearby color. That was probably why the trim is green. Since you prefer a modern look, I suggest you keep your siding light and use color only in the trim. Below are two combinations that I like. I darkened the roof color in these pictures.

Correct, Hallet & Co., those are the areas that can be painted. To clarify, you are suggesting to paint all trim, corner boards and pergola white. We are keeping the entry path as concrete, but adding a flagstone path through the "garden" to the side gate. It is a darker flagstone. You are suggesting darker stucco in the same family of SW Kilim Beige (putty color) to ground the house? Do you agree garage door should be same color as the stucco? I'll look into taking the knuckles off of the railing. What "look" would you say you are you going for overall? Thank you!