Really sad today, adopted Cujo
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What a sad, sad day, (part 3)
Comments (134)Thank you oakley...you said it better than I . I am a believer in people . I have had two brothers commit suicide and a son that has struggled with mental illness for decades. Deciding to write a person off because they have performed in a way that is abhorrent to the rest of us is a knee jerk reaction. It has taken me decades to realize that someone else's pain can be and likely is greater than mine. I will never know what moves them to the actions they commit . My DH and I get up every single day and say thank you for the life we have. I would hope that others would do the same. Energy spent reviling those that are "different" is wasted. Take care of the circle of light that surrounds you that is ALL that any of us can do. If we each do this the circles will grow to include all. c...See Moresad story about our dog... grieving
Comments (23)I spoke with a lawyer this week, sorry for not updating sooner but it's been a rough time for me lately... Anyway, I can't remember which poster said he/she had a 'gut feeling' that there is no legal provision for self defence in animals, but that seems to be the most simplified explanation of the situation. Yes, the family member is an adult. He is actually my father. I'm 19 years old and trust me it's surely been a difficult time for me. My dad has changed his 'story' a few times since the bite happened, and it's hard to get anything straightened out. It's turning into a division in the family which is just compounded the already painful situation. Honestly I dont think there is anything that can be done for Lucky. The day after the bite, the officer who came to the house (my mom had to sign ownership of Lucky over to her) called our home and she explained that we would be receiving a call from the Department of Health to explain why Lucky has to be put down. When the representative from the D. of H. called I didn't speak to her, but apparently she essentially explained that the laws in our county are strict regarding second dog bites, and it is mandated that a dog who causes 2 "severe injuries" (the second bite didnt even require stitches so I wouldnt think it would be considered severe but I of course am a layperson) must be put down. I'm trying really hard to move forward and try not to dwell on this. Lucky was techincally my younger sister's dog and she is having a very hard time, understandably so. She is a junior in high school, and all of this occured during final exams week for her. Hopefully my family will have learned *something* from this awful series of events... maybe that some animals just aren't meant to be the pets we want them to be.. other than that I'm not really sure what 'good' can come of this. I guess I'm just glad that he didn't harm anyone more severly than he did. 99% of the time he was an affectionate and adorable dog, and it's just that 1% that proved impossible to extinguish. Fortunately I just obtained a summer job for my hiatus from college, so hopefully that will help me to keep my mind off all of this. It's the only coping strategy Ive come up with....See MoreThinking of adopting
Comments (20)Nancy, I'm so sorry that things did not work out for you. Please find some peace knowing Fawn is in a good loving home & you still have your two. Please don't be too harsh on the volunteers as they are under staffed & stressed. Recently, while helping a friend (without a computer ) find a dog on Petfinders I heard about a Shepherd they were hoping to save when they brought my friend's 'dog' to her house for the three week trial. They sent me a pic saying her days were numbered on death row unless someone adopted or fostered her. I really didn't want another dog, as I have two. So I said I would foster her, knowing I'd probably end up keeping her. They replied this was wonderful, her life had been spared & they would have her spayed & transported to me. I didn't hear anything for some time. The response to my inquiry was devastating - she had tested HW positive & was unadoptable -- the rescue had no funds & was under staffed. I agreed to adopt her sight unseen & treat for HW - the only way to save her life. I'm so glad I did. Hannah is a sweetheart. We love her so much & she gets along with our two dogs & two cats as if it's been forever. Here's a partial email from from the volunteer that transported Hannah from the US to me in Canada ( she refers to Francine from the rescue here, that I had met at my friend's.) I love all the dogs, but German shepherds have a special place in my heart. Please pet Hannah for me and maybe one day i will be able to see her again. Francine, you need to organize an adoption get together one day, it would be neat to see some of the dogs again. Francine is right, alot of Pounds care less if a dog gets out or gets euthanized and alot of them are not even willing to work with rescues. I'm very fortunate to have the Warden on my side, he let's me do pretty much whatever i want and let's me hold the dogs that i can get to a Rescue. without his coorporation, i would have a hard time to get them to safety. Usually a dog with Heartworms does not have a prayer left. Thank-you so much for giving Hannah another chance and also thanks to Francine who works so hard to find homes for our Pound dogs. We could not do it without eachother. Sorry this is so long. Think I'm trying to say things happen for a reason. Summer...See MoreSad day. I have to give up my new dog..
Comments (18)Melanie, follow your instincts. If this dog is too much for you, then talk to a rescue organization by all means. You have not failed this dog, this dog may have some big, BIG problems that you are not prepared to deal with. JRTs are a great breed, but there is a huge span of personality and temperement in the breed. I know first-hand, because I have had them for many years, but I had to give one up to Russell Rescue due to escalating, terrifyingly violent aggression against my other dogs (including her own mother.) It really came down to the commitment I had made to the oldest dog 12 years ago when I adopted her - I just could not allow the attacks to continue, because one of them was inevitably going to be fatal. We went the whole route when the problems began, from weekly visits from a dog trainer recommended by our vet for aggression problems (with much homework in between visits), to medication (which did not help), to dividing the house with baby gates - with the constant risk that one moment of inattention would launch another savage attack. At one point, the troublemaker was in her crate, and got herself so worked up into a rage that she got the OTHER TWO to start fighting on their own, just by watching her. It really was h*ll on earth for many months. It all came to a head one day when my boss took me into his office, shut the door, and said, "I'm really disappointed in your performance lately." I started crying, and it all came out - living in a war zone - the tension, the stress, the disturbed sleep, the fatigue, the arguments, the guilt, the fear, the disappointment, the injuries to the old dog (a trip to the emergency vet with a torn jugular once, a ripped eyelid another time.) My boss was really understanding, but it all suddenly became crystal-clear to me what this situation was doing to all of us, and I understood that it was time to move on. After much soul-searching, tears, and long talks with my wonderful vet, we were THIS close to putting her down (we had literally dug her grave anticipating taking her in to the vet the next morning), when Rescue called back on a Sunday night with a temporary placement, fully understanding all of the dog's problems. The Rescue people were absolutely terrific. The last I saw of my beloved pup (the dog whose birth I'd witnessed, the dog I thought I'd grow old with) was seeing her sitting on the Rescue person's lap exchanging kisses after a parking lot hand-off. Within a few weeks, they placed her with a family out of state who had experience with the breed, had lost their own aged JRT, had a fully JRT-proof backyard, and fully understood the behavioral problems. Last I heard it was working out great. Like Migo, mine was a fabulous buddy and just adored people, but could not tolerate another dog. Serious aggression between dogs is terrifying and unmistakable - it is NOT playing - not even aggressive playing. Your comment about your other dog screaming gave me chills - I remember that sound so well. Do what you have to do to protect all of the other animals to whom you have made a commitment, and do the best you can by Migo. You're not a failure - everything you've written shows that you are a sensitive and responsible dog-lover, and you need to be strong and do the right thing for everyone concerned. Best of luck, Susan...See More- 9 years ago
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