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Comments (3)That's funny because I had a dream last night that several people showed up at Jan & Jim's and weren't too happy!...See MoreDo you think anything has changed?
Comments (23)I have read a lot on this subject due to my job and there are distinct differences in different generations (though there is always exception to the rule). For instance you have "The Traditionalist" who were brought up to respect everything especially this country. Why so many enlisted in the service - they in turn raised the "Baby Boomers" who rebelled in everyway possible. Yet, they started working at a time when jobs were scarce and they had to fight for everything - especially if you were a minority or woman. They all had a dream and felt with hard work and education you can achieve that goal. They raised the "Gen X" whom for the most part had to raise themselves while their parents worked. They saw their parents live to work and achieve the dream only to see coompanies shut down and their parents loose everything. There have been more suicides in this generation than any. Late Boomers and early Xers are raising the "Gen Y or Why" generation that questions everything. They are the first generation to have lived their entire lives with technology. They have also had the benefit/curse of helicopter and snowploy parents. Those parents that are determined that their children have every opportunity to be more successful then they were and will do whatever is necessary. They have been given more money, material, and time than any other generation and then we wonder why they feel entitled. They are definately bright, skilled, and experienced but don't understand what it means to be at work on time. They hate being told what to do but crave attention and support. They have no loyalty to "company" and they most often quit from boredom or lack of "meaningful" work. They work to live and live to enjoy life. All of that to say we are all products of our environment and most of the trouble comes in the different generations excepting that their way is not the only way. All of this is just my opinion and yes I believe this latest generation lacks respect but somewhere along the line my generation turned respect from being something that is earned to something that is bought and raised this generation accordingly. I have 3 sons the oldest always tried to reason with and the other 2 were just told yes and no without explanation. My oldest doesn't speak to me and my other 2 sons are the most respectful caring self-reliant young men a mom could ever hope for. Coincedence?...See MoreIs there a habit or thought that you are trying to change?
Comments (14)I'm hoping that one of these days I can do something to cut down on my habit of procrastinating. Hi declansmom, Was your husband deeply resentful about being forcibly retired? Is it continuing in active mode? Is he feeling that he should be looking for work, as either he is too young to be content to be retired ... or feels that he needs to earn more in order to be financially comfortable in retirement? If so, has he been/is he looking for work? How long do you expect to continue working before you will be/can choose to retire? How does he feel about the list of things that he should be doing around the home ... did he have some input into its manufacture ... does he feel that it was imposed on him, without much input on his part? Does he feel that they're more than he knows how to do ... is interested in doing? Can you discuss the situation without one or the other getting emotionally wrought up? Or should that be, " ... one ... then the other ... getting emotionally wrought up?"? What does he say when you ask him, in a non-confrontational way, about what things on the list have been dealt with? Does he feel that he can make some comments without being under pressure ... is Mom/teacher getting after him for not getting his work done? Does he ever have supper ready when you get home from work? Laundry? Cleaning? Years ago, when my ex- was taking a rather tough course (interning in a hospital food service program, which included some compensation) and I was half-time employed, she complained that she felt that I wasn't doing enough around the home, but (in my eyes) I was doing quite a few of the chores. I thought later that, had I asked her in the morning what she had in mind for supper, I'd have known whether she had a plan, or whether I could make whatever I felt like ... ... but when the question was asked on her return home at the end of a busy day, she was frustrated, thinking that she'd been busy all day and wanted some down time, not to have to put her mind to what we might be planning for supper! I'm not asking that you reply to these questions in public, as it's none of our business ... I checked your profile to see whether I could send this message privately. Good wishes for finding a resolution in this situation that leaves you both feeling satisfied. ole joyful...See MoreHas the housing/remodeling boom caused you to change your plans?
Comments (43)Hi everyone. Thanks again so much for all your comments. I really appreciate it. Today I met with my GC to review the numbers again in more detail. I definitely decided against doing the big remodel. (as others could have predicted, moving walls etc are not a good ROI--they are an expense). I may do some sort of kitchen or bath facelift or "botox" since there's no guarantee I'm moving right away. If my 2-3 years stretches to 5-7, it might be nice to have some updates. We'll see. FWIW, he told me two things I thought you might find interesting: 1) right now, the cost of materials is very high, and rising all the time, like month to month, due, in part, to all the natural disasters: hurricanes, the fires in Sonoma, CA and the mudslides south of Santa Barbara, etc. These people are without homes, (and rebuilding is largely being funded by insurance) so this demand is not going away until the houses are rebuilt. 2) he confirmed that even if the economy takes a downturn, labor rates are not likely to go down right away. My neighbor had guessed a year. My GC said after the 2008 recession, he still had plenty of work until 2011. He didn't feel it at all. This guy comes highly regarded, so my guess is that the good contractors will be the last to feel the pinch of a recession. For my project, if I do something small-ish, there doesn't seem to be any point in waiting a year or so to time the market. But as everyone here has said, if I may move in 2-3 years, the best option might be to do nothing or...try some decorating magic. Thanks again everyone! I feel so much better!...See More- 9 years ago
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