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Comments (13)I wish I cried and got depressed about my kids leaving the nest...oh no...I had to go out and get replacement models...yup, two high maintenance dogs!!! How can a 6lb yorkie and a 8lb chihuahua run a persons life???!!! I am so busy spoiling them, I don't have Time to miss those lovely brats of mine!!!lol! I think a wonderful thing to do...a suggestion...is to look at community courses in your town, and treat yourself to one! Art&crafts, meditaion, whatever...it's a way to get your brain on something new and different! (And it's cheaper than pets!lol!!!) I don't have time to think now that I've met Cindy/Klinger..as she is so busy hauling me off to thrift stores and Mexico all the time!!!lol!!! And of course checking in here with all my other GardenWeb buddies!!! Yup, This too shall pass!! Jane...See MoreEmpty nest ....getting used to?
Comments (21)Taigen, I appreciate your position -- the cooking for 2 issue and the physical limitations as well. Since it's only been a little over a month you are still transitioning to 'it's just the 2 of us' mode. As for the cooking for 2 adjustment. Use the Google search engine and type in: cooking for two cookbooks There's several cookbooks you might find within your library system. Many times, if your local library doesn't have a copy it can be borrowed from another branch. There are also a few websites where those search words supply something for you to try. However, you can still make up your favorite recipes for 6 -- learning to make use of your freezer section can be a real boon to days when you don't feel up to cooking. Also, making a grocery list based on 2 and buying NOTHING which is not on the list helps break the automatic habit of buying snacks, etc. you don't need or want. I agree with others in looking for new hobbies but I particuarly want to suggest being a volunteer. I don't think there is a field out there that isn't looking for volunteers. Getting and keeping busy with something new is a great way to get out of the automated mode. Your library itself...many have children's reading hour or story time and they need adult readers. Your library might even have what ours has which is a library auxiliary which collects books throughout the year and puts on a twice-a- year book sale to raise funds for the library itself. How about volunteering for a thrift shop run by a charity you favor ... work the cash register, stock the shelves, sort and price, taking items home for washing or mending, etc. Your local animal shelter is also a potential resource -- walking the dogs; socializing the puppies and kittens. Other animal interests might include volunteering in your area's wildlife rehab center or fostering at home. Nursing or long term care homes usually have an Activities Director on staff even if part time. Call and inquire if there is something you can do there. I had more fun as a result of contacting a nursing home and finding she (the Activity Director) had a male resident who was a voracious reader who missed reading westerns or books about the old days of settlers. I scoured the several thrifts shops for books in that vein. She also mentioned he loved popcorn so on the day I delivered a BIG bag of books I stopped by Wal-Mart and picked up a big bag of pre-made popcorn along with a small bowl he could eat it out of. The charity thrift shops benefitted from my purchases and a senior gentlemen got reading material for a year. Lastly, think of something you and your husband can do together. How about planning that cruise or vacation you have been putting off? Cruises are wonderful vacations for people with physical limitations. Cruise lines and ships are very accommodating to begin with. and you two can enjoy yourselves after having to only unpack once, eat drink and be merry, while the most exhausting part of each day is planning what to do the next day -- leave the driving to someone else!...See MoreFeathers in otherwise empty nest box
Comments (0)I put up a gilbertson nest box in February this year and a pair of tree swallows are nesting. In April after the tree swallows had started their nest I saw an eastern bluebird hanging around so I put up a second box hoping to get a late bluebird pair. The second box has remained empty until today I found several large feathers in the box but no nesting material. Any ideas?...See MoreEmpty nest-- something to look forward to?
Comments (61)I agree. My oldest has ben living with her BF for 6 years. No plans for marriage and both don't want kids. They have a terrific relationship. And, we get along very well with him. They come up to spend weekends with us, sometimes spur of the moment. I have a feeling that my youngest would be more inclined to adopt. She is currently very involved in dog rescue. She has placed all of the dogs in her care so far. Amazing, in that the last one was a 10 ten year old hound mix with a severe limp due to some injury! A friend of mine, who didn't have kids of her own, (second marriage for both, her dh had two kids and didn't want more, and she relented) is now involved with her step grand kids and her grand nieces and nephews. She hinted that my life was lacking! I bluntly said that although it would be nice, it isn't something that I dwell on. It's their choice, not mine. Maybe we need a support group for grandchildless parents?...See More- 10 years ago
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