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Comments (11)Expect phone calls about dinner time for cooking advice. Calls at that hour tend to be my kids with questions. My favorite was a call about 6pm from my older son. "Mom, I bought an artichoke. What do I do with it???" The other day, younger son, who is also into cooking, called from across the country. I had told him the delicious Stickies my mom baked from left over pie crust. He wanted to try them and needed the recipe. He had been home a few weeks ago and baked me a blueberry-apple pie for my birthday--with a lattice crust top! They do come back, so don't turn their rooms into a home gym or some such. This weekend, we are having the fun of babysitting our 2 years 8 months old grandson while his parents go to a friend's wedding a few hours away. We love the activity! Then the parents will drive down here on Sunday night so that our son-in-law will be half way to San Diego where he needs to go for a few days on Monday morning. DD will stay with us a few days with our DGS. And in a couple of months, she will have another little boy. When she got married, we replaced her twin bed with a canopy with a king sized bed to encourage their visits....See MoreEmpty nest ....getting used to?
Comments (21)Taigen, I appreciate your position -- the cooking for 2 issue and the physical limitations as well. Since it's only been a little over a month you are still transitioning to 'it's just the 2 of us' mode. As for the cooking for 2 adjustment. Use the Google search engine and type in: cooking for two cookbooks There's several cookbooks you might find within your library system. Many times, if your local library doesn't have a copy it can be borrowed from another branch. There are also a few websites where those search words supply something for you to try. However, you can still make up your favorite recipes for 6 -- learning to make use of your freezer section can be a real boon to days when you don't feel up to cooking. Also, making a grocery list based on 2 and buying NOTHING which is not on the list helps break the automatic habit of buying snacks, etc. you don't need or want. I agree with others in looking for new hobbies but I particuarly want to suggest being a volunteer. I don't think there is a field out there that isn't looking for volunteers. Getting and keeping busy with something new is a great way to get out of the automated mode. Your library itself...many have children's reading hour or story time and they need adult readers. Your library might even have what ours has which is a library auxiliary which collects books throughout the year and puts on a twice-a- year book sale to raise funds for the library itself. How about volunteering for a thrift shop run by a charity you favor ... work the cash register, stock the shelves, sort and price, taking items home for washing or mending, etc. Your local animal shelter is also a potential resource -- walking the dogs; socializing the puppies and kittens. Other animal interests might include volunteering in your area's wildlife rehab center or fostering at home. Nursing or long term care homes usually have an Activities Director on staff even if part time. Call and inquire if there is something you can do there. I had more fun as a result of contacting a nursing home and finding she (the Activity Director) had a male resident who was a voracious reader who missed reading westerns or books about the old days of settlers. I scoured the several thrifts shops for books in that vein. She also mentioned he loved popcorn so on the day I delivered a BIG bag of books I stopped by Wal-Mart and picked up a big bag of pre-made popcorn along with a small bowl he could eat it out of. The charity thrift shops benefitted from my purchases and a senior gentlemen got reading material for a year. Lastly, think of something you and your husband can do together. How about planning that cruise or vacation you have been putting off? Cruises are wonderful vacations for people with physical limitations. Cruise lines and ships are very accommodating to begin with. and you two can enjoy yourselves after having to only unpack once, eat drink and be merry, while the most exhausting part of each day is planning what to do the next day -- leave the driving to someone else!...See MoreEmpty nest! Need advice on redo of entertainment center and fireplace!
Comments (4)I would take off the indent above the fireplace, replace the mantle with the same size piece of wood, and update the tiles. Gut the area where the TV is now and have a custom cabinet, flush with the fireplace wall, with an open shelve for the TV just a few inches lower than what it is now. Below the TV two wide drawers, one about 5 or 6 inches deep and the other about 11 or 12. Above the TV, two cupboards....See MoreEmpty nest-- something to look forward to?
Comments (61)I agree. My oldest has ben living with her BF for 6 years. No plans for marriage and both don't want kids. They have a terrific relationship. And, we get along very well with him. They come up to spend weekends with us, sometimes spur of the moment. I have a feeling that my youngest would be more inclined to adopt. She is currently very involved in dog rescue. She has placed all of the dogs in her care so far. Amazing, in that the last one was a 10 ten year old hound mix with a severe limp due to some injury! A friend of mine, who didn't have kids of her own, (second marriage for both, her dh had two kids and didn't want more, and she relented) is now involved with her step grand kids and her grand nieces and nephews. She hinted that my life was lacking! I bluntly said that although it would be nice, it isn't something that I dwell on. It's their choice, not mine. Maybe we need a support group for grandchildless parents?...See More- 11 years ago
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