Daughter With Cancer.

12 years ago

Our daughter, Stacey, had her double mastectomy and reconstruction surgery yesterday. She had to be at the hospital at 8 with surgery starting at 10:30. Her mastomacy took 3 1/2 hours. She then went right into her reconstruction phase. We finally got word around 6 that all was finished and she was doing well. We finally got to see her around 7. The surgeon told us he was 95% sure her lymph nodes were free of cancer. Wonderful news. They will know on Friday the lab results. They sent her home at 8 this morning. Insurance would only pay for 23 hours. I have talked to her 3 times today and she is doing really well. God is truly good!!

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kayjones
12 years ago
Bless her heart! You BET GOD is good!
stacey_mb
12 years ago
Wishing the best for a speedy and problem free recovery for your daughter.
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gadgets
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I've had her on my prayer list since you first told us about her. Glad for the update and I pray her recovery is quick and complete. How's her relative Kelly doing?

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nizza
12 years ago
She is in my prayers for a quick and easy recovery.
Fun2BHere
12 years ago
I hope her recovery progresses smoothly.
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12 years ago
Praying for to heal quickly and get back her good health, thanks for letting us know Susie.

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socks
12 years ago
That's everything you could hope for, isn't it? Wonderful news! As for the 23 hours, that sure doesn't seem long considering the major surgery she had, but maybe it is for the best because she will rest better at home. I'm very happy for you and your family, Susie.
mare_wbpa
12 years ago
God bless her!! Prayers on their way for speedy and complete healing for Stacey, and peace and strength for her and her family.
susie53_gw
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12 years ago
Gadgets, Kelly is doing very well, too. She has been a blessing to our family, too. Thanks for asking!!
glenda_al
12 years ago
Healing thoughts for your daughter!
pam_25f
12 years ago
Best of luck to her. I cannot imagine your worry.
clubm
12 years ago
Wishing her a speedy recovery. (((hugs)))
lindaohnowga
12 years ago
Praying your daughter has a complete, problem free recovery. Happy to hear that she is doing well, and Kelly too.
mojomom
12 years ago
So sorry your daughter and you are going through this. Glad the surgery went well and that she is recovering well. I know it is hard not to worry, but sending positive thoughts your way. The surgeons' initial impressions are very accurate these days.

23 hours seems ridiculous after that extensive surgery, but she is young and resilient and will be just fine. Take care of yourself too!
wanda_va
12 years ago
She is in my prayers, for a complete and speedy recovery.
alisande
12 years ago
Excellent news, Susie! What a long day for you and your family. Good old insurance companies--23 hours! Not even a full day, for heaven's sake. But home is almost always better. I wish your daughter speedy healing.
yayagal
12 years ago
Thank God all went well and she's safe from cancer now. You all must be so thankful and exhausted.
chisue
12 years ago
Sadly, it's best to Get Out Of The Germ Factory! That does seem excessive speed after major surgery, though. It's terrible to have to go through this so young, but she will heal faster than some of us old ladies. I hope she has Visiting Nurse services.
ruthieg__tx
12 years ago
Sending good wishers to your daughter and prayers for a speedy recovery...know that Our daughter is two years out from her surgery and is doing well so I hope your daughter does just as well...it is a life altering experience ...our daughter recently had an issue going on with her husband and he was upset about something and he couldn't understand why she wasn't upset and she looked at him and said...listen...I had both of my breast cut off and you expect me to be upset about something so trivial...I hope your daughter has the new outlook on life that our Suzanne has..it's actually made her a new and even more wonderful person...
marilyn_c
12 years ago
I am sorry to read this, but happy that she is doing well. I hope she continues to do well, and has a complete recovery.
susanjf_gw
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happy everything was done at once..isn't that amazing??.she'll still have yearly visits but hey! small price to pay!!

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