Pros & cons of mil apartment?
TxMarti
16 years ago
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Comments (17)My mother is currently in a continuing care community, currently at the independent level with two bedrooms and inside and outside access with a small fenced garden. We just moved her from her large home in a small farming community last November and it has really surprised all of us (including her) how well she has adjusted. Part of the problem was finding good caregivers in such a small, rural location. She is now in an Ideal location closer to me and remaining friends and family members her age and very nice, but not posh community (although her apartment with her own furniture is very, very nice). This is a rent situation, not a buy-in at 3,000 per month including meals, housekeeping, laundry and some transportation. Very reasonable and we've been pleased with the staff. It has Assisted living in the same premises, but higher priced and apartments do not have a full kitchen, but pets also allowed (her cats are very important to her), but more expensive. Now when she moves to Colorado with us next year she will move to a very posh CCRC, also a rent situation, but 3 times as much and more as levels of care go up. This facility is lovely and has independent living, bridge living (some assistance), memory care, full assisted living, and a nursing home. DD's family doctor, who we adore, is on the board. She is fortunate because she can afford it, but she may have to invade her investments after a few years (but adequate for another 20+ years even if care levels increase.). She is 86 and blind, mild copd, but pretty capable of taking care of her daily needs....See MoreWhat are the pros and cons of having all your bedrooms up stairs?
Comments (53)Condos, senior neighborhoods etc. I'm 47 and I would never want to burden my child with rolling out my trash (and doing a lot of other things) when I could move to an area with better services as I need them. When my parents were in their 50's they moved to their ranch house and used to say the same thing to us. However when it became clear they were no longer able to live in their house without assistance, they started balking at the idea of moving to something with better services. As they aged they didn't quite realize how much more help they needed, even after we got my Mom full time help during the day. (Mom had parkinsons and started to lose her ability to think clearly, while my Dad kept his facilities till the day he died) So would it have been better to drag my parents out kicking and screaming to someplace else, or better to help them to still live in their home. And since Dad was "clear of mind" I doubt a court would have allowed it. Once my Mom passed away, my Dad moved in with my sister. But that was his choice because he realized he couldn't maintain the house himself and he was afraid at his age of living alone. Trust me when I say the decision is never an easy one on either side of the fence....See MoreRemove chimney? Pros and cons
Comments (11)Firstly, get an engineer in to confirm that it is not load bearing. I can't imagine that it is. Secondly, get a quote on removing it. I think first prize would be to remove it -- less for the look of it than for the crumbling interior brick.. If you can't, get the brick sorted out to the point where it's no hazard to either people or the house, and relax. It's not an ugly chimney, and symmetry isn't everything. Once you have the bottom windows sorted out you should find out that the large one to the right balances the chimney out visually. Right now the window has been disappeared with that white boarding....See MoreHelp With Basic Bathroom Flooring Question -Pros and Cons of Materials
Comments (7)I wanted a feminine but not cloyingly "girly" look. I think you have hit the mark in the beige-y tiles -- and any number of colors would work as accents with this tile, so you'll be able to change your look over the years. I would not frame these tiles with the copper hexes -- I think the frames would be somewhat jarring and would ruin the soft, almost watercolor-y look of these tiles. I think I'd do the majority of the shower with the large tile in the lower right ... the flower-looking tile as an accent band ... and put the copper hexes (which I do like -- just not as a frame) on the shower floor. The small tiles will give you greater grip on the shower floor, which is important since you say you value aging-in-place. Yes, they'll require some scrubbing occasionally, but you're not talking about a big area -- and safety matters. Are these marble? I would not go with marble in the shower -- not matter how lovely -- it's not an easy-to-maintain material. Yes to porcelain every time. It's essentially "forever", moderately priced, and so many choices. Yes, labor will cost more than you expect. You can minimize this a bit by going with large sized tiles on the shower walls ... and by using a simple layout (simple square layout rather than herringbone, for example). Yes, labor should be about the same regardless of whether you use marble or porcelain. Excellent advice above about putting in grab bars now. Let the tile installer do it now ... let him PLAN the tiles around the idea of grab bars ... rather than having someone come in later /in future years and plop the bars in the middle of your lovely tile. Excellent advice, too, about taking photographs while the walls are open. Maybe you'll never need to know what lies behind your walls, but it'll take little effort to take the pictures, and it could be very useful someday. While you're planning this shower, go with a larger storage niche than you think you need ... and think about NOT using your expensive accent tile in the back of the niche ... you're going to cover it up with shampoo bottles. I'm not clear on this: Are you talking about tile for just the shower floor ... or the bathroom floor PLUS the shower floor? I've decided to use same wood-tone LVP literally everywhere in my whole house ... except the two showers. I have tile floors in my bathroom now, and I do not love that they're cold underfoot. Also, tile is harder on the joints as you age -- I like the linoleum in my kitchen better than the tile in my bathroom. Perhaps this is a mismatch of qualities /materials, but -- as you said above -- I'm building to please myself. Last thought: Do it right. Tile lasts a long, long time -- you'll likely never re-do this. So don't skimp....See MoreTxMarti
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