LOL Well, MY first thought was that it was going to be that you caught him masturbating....so probably what he WAS gonna do is secondary stuff! LOL

I agree, he probably shouldn't be urinating outside where anyone can see him (kids, etc.) but having a son, DH and grandsons and knowing how my DS was pottytrained...I'm not surprised! LOL Maybe he just couldn't wait to make it into the apartment.

Only you can know if he seemed really aggressive toward you. He was probably really embarassed about being caught and acted bigger and tougher than he is. I'd be extra cautious for a few days though, just in case. Do you know his parents or where he lives? (He's probably afraid you're going to rat him out to them!)

One of the Association Board members came by walking her dog. I told her. She didn't know him either, but know's which building he lives in.

If my tires are flat tomorrow, I'll know who done it :o)

Sounds like you caught him peeing, and he was startled and acted tough to cover up. I don't think he'll bother you again.

Well, unless I'm reading it wrong, it doesn't sound like he said anything agressive towards you. I wouldn't worry about it. Generally, I would just have ignored it instead of commenting or trying to talk to him.

If it's a continuing problem, I'd track down his parents...but I'm not really sure what you saw or even what he did. No benefit to spreading rumors over assumptions... now those he could get mad about. Boys that age touch themselves a lot or he could have just been adjusting himself. Who knows...

My motto is "Always leave a p**ing male alone", including DH. And secondly, I am jealous that they can and I can't.

I was once in Israel's great southern desert, the Negev, traveling by car with a girlfriend, and we had to go. So we stopped the car and hiked behind a tiny hill with a tiny bush on it. An oncoming truck squealed to a stop and the driver got out, carrying a rifle. He screamed at us "You crazy women, don't you know that there are Bedouin men around here? Next time, hold it in!" Then he stood there with his rifle until we finished, adjusted ourselves, and slinked back to our car embarrassed as heck.

I know it's not really rare for men to pee on bushes. I saw an interview with the late actor Charlton Heston and he said he does it, and so does my DH. If he's out in the backyard and needs to go, he'll aim for the nearest bush or tree rather than walk inside.

As I see it, what is "peeing in the bushes out in the country where I live, could be considered "indecent exposure" in the city. The very least that should be done here is teaching the young man that there are places for that and in the middle of an apartment complex in the city is probably not one of them. Believe me, I don't have a problem with relieving oneself behind a bush or tree when and where appropriate but this was not appropriate and the young man would definitely be in serious trouble were he 18 instead 12 or 13.

Do you think revenge might be on his brain?

Nope.

Thanks for the input, cynic. :o)

Of course, didn't add the revenge part to be serious.

Have an association meeting at 5 today.
Board member that was walking her dog will be there..