What are the chances of a buyer backing out at the last minute?
graptor
13 years ago
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Comments (33)Fibromyalgia and Epstein-Barr were thought of as illnesses that people who "needed to be ill" got, in the past. Ulcers were due entirely to stress and worry - plus spicy food. Now we know that some people do have the generalized pain we call fibro (even if we don't understand why) and Epstien Barr is thought to be a virus. Ulcers are caused by bacteria. MCS may someday be understood, as well. When you have no idea why some things make you feel horrid, cannot predict what will do it, have people rolling their eyes at you, and have docs who seem to placate instead of understand you, you end up sounding paranoid and hypochondriacal. The internet becomes a safe place and the only place you can network with others with the same problems. I cannot imagine how someone with MCS who cannot afford to buy their way into a home with "safe" building materials chooses a house. With my more minor chemical problems, I tend to buy houses that are older and have hardwood of some kind under the carpet - because when the carpet is worn out, I could not get new. Older homes have offgasssed what they are going to offgas. I have always avoided anything too new. I can't imagine how somebody with MCS makes the decision to plunge into a buy, and can see why they might pull out for what seems like odd reasons. It is not easy to undo a house sale and the right choice is more vital for someone with MCS. I can't imagine paying a mortgage on a house I can't live in. Her requests about your cleaning products really would not be that unreasonable if the sale had gone through. If she is very sensitive, she would not be able to spend time in the home until the smells were gone. I use only vinegar and water for mopping, dishwashing soap without fragrance to clean, and "free and clear" laundry detergent. I have walked out of homes for sale because of candles or sprayed fragrances or stale smoke. I always change out gas stoves for electric after I buy because I get asthma symptoms when I breathe the fumes from burning natural gas. Sometimes I have to have the gas fireplace in a B and B turned off if the pilot light burns and vents into the room. I could never attend Thanksgiving dinner in my Mom's because of the gas, so had it at my house every year instead. I don't have MCS, just strange asthma triggers. I would shrug off the lady who slept on the couch, maybe report the situation to her realtor's broker because she should never have left the woman in the house alone. No way should the agent and prospective buyer have done this without explaining it to you and getting your permission....See MoreAny Online Great Last Minute Deals Out There?
Comments (23)I'm back. Got to Target and saw a mob around a shelf display on the main isle ( I was thinking the jackets would be on a sales rack on the back wall)and jackets were being thrown into carts left and right. lol I picked up the first large that I could find and immediately noticed how small they ran. I then gathered up mostly the black in XL and L. Got two XL in green. Those were the only two colors in L and XL. I got a reddish/pink jacket in M for my daughter that wears a medium. My other daughter would need a large. I got 10 jackets all together. Once home, I tried on the XL and could barely squeeze in. My older daughter is rather blessed up top, so I am afraid that even the XL will not zip up to the top and that the M will be too small for younger daughter. Oh well, at least the L and XL will fit someone in need. Thanks again!...See MoreDecided at the last minute to back out of a purchase
Comments (1)Disregard. I initially read this as you are the buyer versus that you are writing about buyers. This post was edited by Jewel654 on Wed, Jan 28, 15 at 15:20...See MoreBuyers backed out and I'm trying not to be sad :-(
Comments (25)Thank you everyone. I read your replies last night before going to bed and that was the first time I shed tears over this whole thing. We need to keep our perspective because we don't NEED to sell this house. So all the never ending projects are done and now all we have to do is maintain and enjoy this house. I think we're going to have a party just because. Allison0704 "I can't believe you are selling - saw your post on house thread. I can't believe we are considering moving either." I know, I guess we get the itch on the same schedule! (Allison and I were building our homes at the same time, back in 2006.) lukkiirish "As an ex-realtor, my RE experience has me guessing that this buyer would have been a real PIA anyway." Well, he is a lawyer. ;-) kswl2 "I don't believe home sales are governed by fate, or any kind of divine or otherwise cosmic direction, so the phrase "it wasn't meant to be" is meaningless to me. There is a known cause and effect here, one over which you had no control. It's a shame they backed out, better luck with the next prospect!" I tend to agree with you unless I'm the one on the receiving end of those phrases. They sure mean a lot when I'm down in the dumps! The control part is what we are having a hard time with the most. The buyer relays info to his agent, the agent relays to our agent, then our agent relays to us. There's bound to be a loss of communication down the line. Plus, add in the HOA secretary, HOA president & HOA ACC - lots of people involved and talking to the buyer. Who knows what was really said. MtnRdRedux "LOL, KSWL does not mince words." No she doesn't. That's her best feature! "...useless, self-pitying carrying on and wild, fruitless speculation..." I read this to DH and he wants to know if you were hiding behind a bush in our backyard, while we talked for two hours on our back porch! Wild, fruitless speculation indeed! arkansas_girl "It seems as if, unless these people could find a place that already had the building they need in the back yard, they will not find anything that will give them an approval on a phantom building?" Apparently, they have given up. Their agent said that they have their eye on some commercial property for the workshop and then will buy a house separately. That seems very odd to me. Also seems that their agent might bank a little more if this were the case . . ....See Moregraptor
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