Oh my dear lord, does anyone else have a Sanijet???
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Comments (40)Paul, I know what your saying. Atmospheric light plays a part as well. In summer the sun is so intense and the landscape is so dry around here that appropriate plants look better than, say--- tropical plants which I guess do look a bit better if a person is wearing sunglasses to knock off some of the intensity and bring out the gaudy colors and over sized leaves etc that clash with the rest of the landscape. Its like seeing a gaudy bar room thats usually lit dimly for atmosphere all exposed in the harsh daylight with open shades. I absolutely hate seeing tropical looking plants in Oklahoma. It just doesn't work and looks stupid. Even worse is to add in a few specimens around non-descript shrubs or grasses because you feel for the novelty and just had to have one. You know, like just plunk in hardy palm right in the midst of your shrubbery. Nice. Or like up the street with the palms planted behind a row of dusty miller. That one makes me nauseated to look at. I'm probably prejudiced since tropical, big leaves, big gaudy flowers etc aren't my cup-o-tea anyhow but I still say its not a good fit visually down here in Okie-ville. (Unless maybe its a botanical garden situation visually cut off from the rest of the world to visit as a curiosity)...See MoreOh dear... are my roses unwell?
Comments (6)Your house is beautiful, boogaloo! What's that gorgeous white shrub in the front? I hate to rain on your parade but I can think of some problems with doing these climbers in pots. Being in Scotland I'm thinking your winters are probably pretty cold. How will you winter these roses? With the root balls in pots exposed to the worst of the winter cold they may not survive. I have to do serious winter protection for my potted roses here. While they are small you could move them into the garage for winter but once they climb I don't think that's going to be an option. Also the pots don't sound big enough. They may be fine now but when those roses get 15 feet tall they will be too small and unstable to hold them up. I've had problems with some of my larger roses (not even climbers) toppling over in the wind because the pots were not big enough or heavy enough to support the sail that the rose will create when it's all leafed out. When looking for pots now I always look for wide, very stable bottoms. And big, bigger, biggest is best! The other thing is that roses grown in pots occasionally need to be taken out of the pots, root pruned and given fresh soil. I have to do mine about every 5 years depending on the vigorousness of the rose. And climbing roses do not climb on their own. They have to be tied to make them grow on a trellis or arch. You would have to untie all those canes in order to change out the soil in the pot. Not an easy job with a 15 foot rose! I cannot tell from the picture but if there is any way to plant these in the ground that would be the best bet. They would indeed make a gorgeous statement over your entry way!...See MoreOh Dear!
Comments (10)I'm probably going to really make some people mad at me, but I just don't understand the people that build their new houses in the deer's territory and then complain that the deer are around. Didn't they know that the ground they are now developing on was once home to deer and other wildlife? Wasn't that the draw to build there? Don't get me wrong, I can understand the frustration when all your valuable plants are chewed to the ground, but that is something you should think about before you decide if you want to live in a place that was once home to deer and other critters. They don't know they are not welcome anymore and they are just doing what comes natural to them and that is trying to survive in an ever decreasing habitat. I would love to wake up in the morning and see deer in my back yard. And yes I probably would be quite upset when they ate my plants, but the joy of living with and around nature would far outweigh the consequences...or else I'd move back to an area that does not have a deer population. I am jealous that I don't live in or by the woods, that is my life's dream, but I don't see it happening. So forgive my rant and try to help me understand what was the draw to live where you now live knowing that perhaps the area was recently a haven for wildlife. And when I am using the word "you" I am in no way singleing out anyone here. It's just a general term. And I truely do not mean offense to anyone here. Janet...See MoreOh, dear. Is my 6 year-old daughter over-sexed?
Comments (11)Well, I'm the mother of a 6 yo girl and I am sometimes surprised by the things she says and does that seem very adult-like. Mine has been talking about getting married for 2+ years now (roll eyes). I think kids (especially at this age) tend to mirror other kids, and that can include a lot of older sibling behavior for 6 year olds (and not just your older DD, but perhaps behaviors taught to the 6 yo by her classmates who subsequently got it from their older siblings). Mine is an only and I see this pattern strongly-- like when she came home and announced, very matter of factly, that her friend doesn't associate with people of a certain color. Five year olds don't come up with that on their own, they get it from parents and older siblings. Of course, this was one of those situations where I asked her a few questions as to how she felt about it, and made sure she understood our values and that the other girl might be misguided (but she already had that figured out thankfully). 6 is also an age of narcissism, so I would not put too much bearing on her being caught up in her appearance and what other people think of her based on it. ALTHOUGH, I would definitely spend the next few years correcting her beliefs and continuing to communicate with her the values of "pretty is as pretty does" and that boys who are only interested in her for her appearance aren't much of anything themselves. It's a process, but that is the only way for your beliefs to make an impression is if she hears them consistently. It's especially important to keep on with it since we live in a society that is so caught up in outward appearance over inward virtue. Keep with your beliefs and give it time, and hopefully it will stick and she will outgrow this. You say she has a good relationship with her dad, which is very important, since how he treats her should eventually be reflected in the boys she chooses to associate with. I'd examine that relationship to make sure that her dad is encouraging her on a psychological and social level, and that he isn't inadvertently encouraging her need to be accepted by appearance. It is something he might do without even realizing it- if he consistently compliments her on how nice she looks after she gets herself dressed, but then fails to compliment her on her kind treatment of others, it could cause her to unconsciously value appearance over other things. It's easy to do this sort of thing with your kids and not realize it too. But again, 6 is an age of being strongly self-absorbed, and with some firm guidelines, boundaries, and positive encouragement on your part, I would hope she would naturally grow out of this and into a more rounded individual....See Moreabundantblessings
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