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Comments (18)I sure know how you feel. Stoney, look at that time as a gift. We don't always get that special extra time with our grown "kids." I know you'll miss him, but be proud of him because he has pulled himself up with love and support from the family, and that is really special. 3-1/2 hours is not so much, and you can see him often. You could even both drive and meet mid-way for an afternoon or whatever. Our sons visit often, but I always feel a tiny bit of sadness in a corner of my heart when they go. But here's a HUG for you because you are feeling sad. Glad things are turning out ok for your DS. Susan...See MoreI invited the 'you need a Dumpster!' lady to my home
Comments (35)I know what you mean mommabird! (Paige, right?) I think that's why I still hold on to this friendship--waiting to see if there's enough that's strong about our friendship that will lessen the impact. She lives in another town, so it's not like there are so many opportunities to "dilute" the effect that comment had. (Or, waiting to see if other events provide other guidance.) I also know that it's very easy to "kill the messenger"; *part* of why her comment stung was because I believed it was probably true, and it was evidence of how bad my home looked at the time to an outside. It was embarrassing, but it was true (was your joke about that boyfriend right, perhaps, and pointed right toward some uneasiness she was feeling?), and it's very easy to then blame the person who flipped on the light switch. So I fight against that--when she comes, I try not to think about it too much, and focus on the harmonies we can create as we chat. The thing is, I have friend from college who once said something really sharp that stung, and it really did nearly break up the friendship. But we got past it because it *was* an aberration, and the things that were good and strong about that friendship let us wait a day or two to get past it. That's also part of the damage the Dumpster Lady's comment did--put together with another "scolding" from her (one that I don't agree w/ her on), it showed me that we don't have the depth of friendship, or the sharing of standards, that perhaps we had both assumed. Maybe bcs we don't speak very often and so just don't know each other well; maybe bcs our personalities don't mesh as much as we'd thought. But it was less a single impact, and more the switch that has made me look again at the strength of the underlying friendship. But you're right, we all say stupid things, and we should be gentle with the people we know who do so, and hope that they'll be forgiving of us. (can your kids possibly be teenagers already? )...See Moreyou are all invited to my.....pity party!! (long)
Comments (33)Get out your towels..its cryin' time! My trip to the Salvation Army yesterday netted me nothing. Next stop was Goodwill...and I found the Perfect dress...unfortunately it wasn't the perfect size. I was so disappointed when I tried it on! It was a deep cherry-red, short sleeves, with a fullish skirt that fell in soft pleats. The top had the look of a vest, yet dressy looking, it was attached, buttoned down the front and made of some kind of material that looked almost like crochet, but wasn't. It would have been PERFECT! I noted the label "peri petite" and googled it hoping to find that same dress. It was a size 10; I could wear that dress in a size 12. "Peri petite" lead me to a list of scores of places that sell petites, but nowhere did I find that dress. Sizes are screwy anyhow. I have always joked that I can wear a petite, if it is BIG enough. At Penneys etc I can sometimes find a petite14, but not often. I'm short-waisted, narrow shoulders, with the obligatory gut and hips. I looked through my closets and I do have two pairs of nice pants that fit, one sage and the other blue. I have a light rose colored dressy blouse that I can wear with the sage. I'm going out again on Monday to keep looking. Sue, thanks for posting the link; my brain was deflummoxed. Jane, I live in Augusta County, about an hour and a half from Richmond;.I really don't want to tackle that trip and the "big city" right now. Also, my DD doesn't have another day off til this coming Wednesday, and I don't drive distances any more. Thanks for the link to Woman Within. I saw some things there that I liked and they have a petite plus category. I'll go back when I have time and check it out better. Anne, thanks for the offer, that was really sweet. Lu, we don't have a Jonathan Richards here. Lisa, I'll go back to Ross in hopes they have gotten in some new things. You have all been kind and sympathetic, and I appreciate all the suggestions. Keep your fingers crossed. I haven't given up! I will be at the wedding even if I have to go looking like a bag woman!! Sue...See MorePlease help make my room feel cozy and inviting
Comments (4)One note, the perspective of the photos is a bit confusing. In most, the rug almost looks like it goes to the wall but in 1st one there looks like there is a lot of room. So it's kind of hard to know sizing and spatial relationships. But, here are a couple thoughts: The glass and black rect coffee table is kind of cold and impersonal. Something wood tone and/or oval or with some curve would help soften the room. Electronic cords really bring a space down. Is there a way to hide them? You could set TV on a console and hide cords behind. Although the chair would no longer fit. If you keep a chair there make it more functional. Add a little table where you can set a cup of coffee while curling up with a book and occasionally enjoy the view outside. Right now, the chair is just an extra seat. Hopefully Beverly sees your post and can provide layout options. She is the best at it. A tallish plant like a ficus or rubber tree etc would look good in a corner. Mirror by entrance is small and unconnected to anything and doesn't reflect anything interesting. What is the pipe next to it? A stove pipe? I'm also not a fan of the small side table by the couch. seems crammed in there though I understand why you have it. Maybe declutter it. Your view is so pretty and relaxing you prob don't need window dressing unless privacy is an issue. The view is really the star of this room....See More
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