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Please help! I need to break my lease
Comments (2)well, kicking the ball against a wall is not "having nowhere else to go." Little kids kicking the ball on the ground back and force to one another, or riding trike and squealing--those actually, depending on one's personality, could be pleasant noises to hear outside one's home. And I think you need *first* to tell your landlord of the problem. Documentation (setting up a video camera, or something) might provide him w/ a tool to use against the other tenants. So, if you can, try to get video of the problems, and put that on a disk. Or take a snapshot of the motorcycle, and print it out (or get a print made, if you use film). Write a letter to the landlord detailing these problems. Tell him the time of day the kids play, and request that he come and see it for himself. Tell him you fear that these other tenants will act against you if they suspect you have complained, and request that he investigate these things directly himself, so that the complaints can be clearly seen to be coming from him, independent of you. Then ask if you can move to another unit. Then you have to give him time to fix it, if you want to break the lease without being forced to pay the rent until he finds a new tenant. Your landlord certain doesn't want someone kicking a ball against his wall, so he needs to know. And does he know about the problem w/ the breakers? In order to have any legal leg to stand on, you have to give him a chance to fix these problems....See MoreBeing deceived about something after buying the house.
Comments (93)wantoretire_did A S I’m guessing you never bought in an area where winter heating and/or summer cooling might be issues. In which cases, it would be foolhardy to not have a good idea what they would run. Many years ago in winter, I was buying a house in New England. Oil prices were sky high and everyone was trying to make their houses energy efficient. I looked at many houses but one still stays in my mind. The owner had laid out the utility and oil bills for the last three years with a covering note that we should notice how little it cost to heat the house. Well, he was right. The oil bills were miniscule. What he forgot to do, however, was raise the thermostat when potential buyers were coming over. The house was freezing! About 60 degrees indoors. So yes, he spent very little on heating the house, but my tree house was warmer than that house. No, I didn't buy it but I still remember it....See MoreFloof-ish! Hungry and Crabby...
Comments (38)Before if I had this issue I could call SO to bring me food. But the place I work is a secure place and you need special clearance to get in, and he lost that clearance when he stopped coming through here for work. I cannot leave when I get here since I am the only person in this department for those 12 hours, and no deliveries are allowed. I just sucked it up. Kathsgrdn your potluck tales make me giggle. Lots of times other departments will have some sort of party or special meal for themselves. Sometimes its not meals but just something special like cake or doughnuts. They always bring me something. Always. I never know when they are planning something and I am never asked to bring anything because as they put it I cannot actually join them for the party because I cannot leave my area for very long at all. But they always bring me something. There are 4 different shifts. I work with 2 sets of them regularly, because everyone else rotates from days to nights but we do not. I work with the other two when I am filling in for coworkers. All 4 shifts will bring me something from their parties. They do not do that with any of my coworkers or supervisor and it just grinds their gears. And they are annoyed to hear how happy the other workers are when they see that I am here instead of them. I think its funny that they do not understand why. Its very easy and much more pleasurable to be nice and friendly to people. It is so much easier to be easy to work with and helpful than standoffish and lazy. And its better to try to have a little fun an laugh a little bit when you are working for 12 hours than to grump and whine that you are there. And when you are that way to the people around you, especially ones you work with, and more especially when they are 99.9% men, you get free cake and unsolicited doughnuts and an occasional grilled steak and baked potato. (I feel like women feel more obligated to include everyone in order to not be perceived as witchy with a b, and men do not really care like that. They are going to reciprocate both kindness and rudeness) It probably helps that I do the decorating and treats for the holidays, which they all enjoy, while the others in my department kinda make snarky remarks about it. I enjoy sending my less fortunate coworkers pictures of the treats I get when I am here. :) I do not eat "potluck" food but I will for sure enjoy a steak I see them grilling fresh right across the road from me........See MoreFloof-ish. Are you a fan?
Comments (49)Yes, rob. That was sort of the premise for my whole post. The tedium of ceremony before getting to the point. Whether it be a celebration, a get together, a sporting event, a show, a class or test, a meeting, an announcement, anything. I was wondering if anyone actually enjoyed such, and if not, why it is still so prevalent to fiddle faddle around before the main event? Think gender reveals. All sorts of leading up to things, trying to build suspense, for what? if you want people to know what you are having send an announcement out. If you wanna have a party about it just do so. We're having a boy/girl! Come celebrate with us! Its that easy. It would work for most other happy events. We got married! Come celebrate with us! The kid graduated! Come to a party to celebrate! I think it would be better if people keep in mind that a lot of people only attend such events either out of obligation/guilt, or indeed to take the opportunity to get together with family and friends. I know that the bridal industry pushes the idea of a fairy tale wedding HARD so that a lot of young people think that they NEED to have such an event, and get excited for it. Thus the tradition of family and friends and friends of family showing up to suffer through, in order to get an opportunity to see each other. Why not just get married and then have such a party? Same thing with things like training or meetings. No one is there for fun. We are here because we have to be. No, I do not want to see your pretty little PowerPoint slides, unless they are RELEVENT to why I am here. I do not want to play an ice breaker. I either already know someone or will likely never work with them, so stop wasting time, get to it so I can get out. I am an adult and can either get along with everyone or at least fake it for works sake. I need no help from an ice breaker game. get to it. Or a game. I want to watch THE GAME! Not someone warbling and over embellishing the national anthem to try to make it stand out. Not a dance or cheerleading routine. The game was supposed to start as 7. Its 8:30 and nothing sports related has happened. I will for sure attend all the future weddings of my nieces and nephews that I am able. Out of OBLIGATION and GUILT, because I am their aunt and I love them. And I will make small talk and rant and rave over the decorations and how lovely the colors looked and how well done the ceremony was......then I will be thankful that it is over. I do hope I have at least one that thinks like me.........See More- 2 years ago
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