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Rose Pekelnicky
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Comments (17)We still have a drive in attached to an indoor multiplex. I only like the drive in on a hot summers night when you can set up lawns chairs and sort of have a small outdoor tailgate party. I do really miss the grand old theaters of my youth. The plush carpet, the velvet curtain, the staircase leading up to the loge where the comfy seats were (some rocked), the murals on the walls and the plaster moldings. The ushers would lead you to your seats by flashlight. Then they would stay and watch that their were no disturbances. Not really necessary since no one would think of being loud or annoying in the theater. Even the kiddie matinees filled with perhaps louder but still well behaved guests. You were treated like a guest. The manager would greet you at the door whether you were a grandmother or a young child....See Moretell me about your worst date...
Comments (45)Mine is an example of me perhaps being someone's worst date: My good friend and former roommate Jeff, had been dating a woman named Glenda who knew Stephanie through the horse world. All four of us happened to be at a party at the house of a woman, Lynn, who worked at the same place as Jeff and who also had horses. I remember having seen Stephanie at the party but being my usual shy, fearful self, I didn't interact with her. Reportedly after the party Glenda was talking with Stephanie who was complaining about not finding anyone she liked, and Glenda suggested that since I was at the party alone, that "Bob" might be interested and/or available. "Who's Bob" Stephanie responded. She emailed me shortly thereafter, introducing herself and after a short exchange asked whether I'd be interested in going to see Laurie Anderson in concert at the Wexner Center at the Ohio State University. I responded "I love Laurie Anderson, I have several of her albums. In fact I'm already going to that concert with Jeff, he has two tickets." She suggested that perhaps we could go out to dinner before the concert, and we decided upon Falafal House, a Middle Eastern restaurant at the south end of the Ohio State campus. We met at the restaurant, and she brought her roommate Jenny with her. The three of us ordered and chatted while waiting for the food to arrive. And chatted more during dinner. Finally, glancing at my watch, I said I have to hurry off to the concert, I don't want to be late. I said, "Bye, I had a great time." And I left. She and Jenny walked back to their apartment together while I went to meet my friend Jeff at the concert. Now anyone with even a bit of sense would probably ask, "What were you thinking?" "Why didn't you simply tell Jeff, 'Hey man I need your ticket' or tell him 'I have other plans' and just get two tickets yourself? My only response to that is: there were probably good reasons why I was single. I was painfully shy, emotionally immature, and terribly frightened of being rejected or looking foolish. I couldn't convince myself to ask someone out, and even the few times I did go out with someone I usually screwed it up somehow through my cluelessness. This time seemed it was going to turn out the same. While she and Jenny were walking home they were talking and between them they had just about decided that was it for me. Big red flag. Fortunately, Stephanie decided to give me another chance and emailed me the next day asking how the concert was....See MoreFairness
Comments (12)It doesn't matter if it's fair. Does your husband think everything in life is fair? I read an interesting email that was forwarded to me about our bill of rights... it's one of those emails that gets forwarded and nobody knows where it originated... but it said "American's don't have the right to happiness... we have the right to PURSUE happiness." and it went on about we don't have the right to not be disappointed and I think that is so true. We have become a nation where the younger generation cannot deal with disappointment, rejection or failure. My dad was telling me how he went to ball game where my nephew was playing and asked "what's the score" and was told they don't keep score because they don't want to lower anyone's self esteem by LOSING. I also saw that when my kids played sports, they gave everyone a trophy just for playing... when I was a kid, if you got a trophy... it meant something, like you excelled or played better than the others... either you were talented or worked harder and that was the reward for your hard work/practice/effort. But no more... now everyone gets one so nobody has hurt feelings or feels bad about themselves. There is something wrong with coddling everyone to think they are deserving just because they might feel bad... but then we complain about kids today having a sense of entitlement. And I may get slammed for this, but I think stepkids ARE worse! Not just my stepkid... my son was a stepkid and he was the same way. My two younger kids were not stepkids, they lived with me 100% of the time and they didn't have the same expectations my son had. Now, maybe it was his personality... and maybe it's not true that they have to be a stepkid, I think kids of divorce, even if the parent has not remarried, tend to start expecting more... two Christmases, two birthday parties, two Easters, two of everything... and maybe they want the parents to make up for breaking up the home. I know my sister was that way... and still is. She feels she is owed something by my parents because she had to live through their divorce. I guess my point is, who cares if it's fair. It wasn't fair for the other kids to get to spend the day with their grandparents while your son didn't go. When your husband has something to say... tell him that next time he can ask his ex in laws if they can include ALL the kids... because THAT would be fair. (that was rhetorical, I don't think you should really suggest that... but you could use it as an example) But really, kids... just like everyone else, needs to know life is not fair....See MoreSpeaking of loud noises . . .
Comments (17)Yes, I encourage all of you to bring ear plugs! I use inexpensive foam rubber ones. I also use them for lawn mowing, grinding almonds in the food processor, and whenever live music is too loud. I buy them at Walmart or a drug store, or even DollarTree. But on a another note - did you enjoy the movie? Surprisingly, I did. I never would have chosen that movie, nor would my friend. But we had a window of opportunity, and this movie was playing at the right time and place. It's definitely not for everyone--nudity, some brief sex, and violence. Lots of violence, but done in a cartoonish manner so that there's no blood to speak of. I shut my eyes only a couple of times, and that's not a lot for me. Both of us felt it was entertaining. I didn't expect it to be so amusing--quite funny at times. The simulated sex was also cartoonish, more comical than sexy. I loved the grainy, grungy black & white photography. It was fun IDing the famous cast members. I never did figure out which one was Lady Gaga. After those wretched previews, I expected to suffer through the movie. But it held my attention, and I looked at my watch only once. (That's not a lot for me either.) :-)...See MoreRose Pekelnicky
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