Funeral visitation etiquette
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Comments (24)That happens here too, LindaC. Not only when family members die, but if someone is ill or injured, or needs to leave for a couple of days, everyone pitches in. So, the farmer who has his appendix removed right in the middle of hay season? Covered. Barn burned? We all rebuild. Child in the military, wounded and in the hospital? Go, go, GO. GO NOW. The cows will be fed and the hay will be baled and the fences will be checked. the garden will be hoed and the eggs will be gathered and your refrigerator will be stocked when you return. It's all taken care of, always has been and I hope it always will be. Annie...See MoreWedding Etiquette: Should I Walk My Daughter Down The Aisle?
Comments (29)re⋅gret⋅ta⋅ble /rɪˈgrɛtəbəl/ adjective causing or deserving regret; unfortunate; deplorable. re⋅gret /rɪˈgrɛt/ verb, -gret⋅ted, -gret⋅ting, noun verb (used with object) 1.to feel sorrow or remorse for (an act, fault, disappointment, etc.): He no sooner spoke than he regretted it. 2.to think of with a sense of loss: to regret one's vanished youth. noun 3.a sense of loss, disappointment, dissatisfaction, etc. 4.a feeling of sorrow or remorse for a fault, act, loss, disappointment, etc. 5.regrets, a polite, usually formal refusal of an invitation: I sent her my regrets. 6.a note expressing regret at one's inability to accept an invitation: I have had four acceptances and one regret. To Imamommy: I do appreciate your sincere reply and explanation....serioulsy I do. Unfortuantley, from your position, which is understandably based upon your Life's experiences, it is, in my humble opnion: lacking. This is especially true when you state it's all about YOU. Of course it's all about me...it's my posting, my question, my struggle, my family, and most importantly of all: my feelings. No matter how one "paints the picture" the viewer or in this case the reader, will take from it whatever it is they percieve, want or need to see; or perhaps are blind to see it for what it really is. I might add that the canvas may not be large enough for the artist to paint the whole picture. As for the "choice" hind site is always 20/20, but I don't think a divorce and raising 3 (innocent) children in a broken home and carting them back and forth between parents is a good idea. I didn't have an Aunt Bee to turn to and I didnt' like the idea of putting 3 kids into day care. To my x-wife's credit she agreed to consuling and too remain commited to raising our children together rather than apart. Sadly (regretably) things didin't work out. As for my children and how they feel, I know both clinically and from first hand experience how they feel, and I even know what their pattern's of behavior are, which is why: I've given up hope to any meaningful relationship; and question why I should even bother with "tradition" like this wedding. We all know that "traditions" are a long-established or inherited way of thinking or acting. Perhaps by going to this wedding there is some hope that these time honored events will provide an opportunity for some closure. God knows it's sorely needed. Lastly, if by chance I've failed to address or satisfy a question, or simply didn't agree with one's opinion, then let us part company with the knowledge that we can agree to disagree. I"m going to go and fix a hot cup of tea and I will drink that tea in honor of all of you, but most of all to Imamommy whose brush has put some color into the tapestry of my LIFE. Please join me....See MoreFuneral Service for Velleen Lamb
Comments (7)What a life and what a family. All those grands, great grands and great great grands. She was truly blessed. And so was her family to have her....See MoreNeed fast etiquette help regarding Catholic funeral and rosary
Comments (29)Just going to weigh in. Happened to find all this today. "Going to Communion" in the Roman Catholic Church is "receiving the Eucharist". The Eucharist is the Body and Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is His entire body and soul, blood and divinity, having been changed from bread and wine into Christ Himself. (see Scripture: This IS MY BODY, do THIS in memory of me) When a Catholic goes to Communion, the priest/minister says "the Body of Christ" or "the Blood of Christ" and the person responds "Amen". Amen means "Yes" or "I believe". So unless a person can say yes to that, and knows what it means, it doesn't make any sense to receive the Eucharist. I for one do not want to assent to any beliefs that I don't actually believe. That would be lying, and all Christians assent to the 10 Commandments where that is forbidden. This is not about exclusion, it's about where one's soul and mind are on the journey of faith....See MoreIdaClaire
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