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Comments (4)PARTIAL SUCCESS AT LAST. I WAS ABLE TO LOCATE ONE OF MR MCILHENNY'S LIST OF CAMELLIAS IN 1941 AND A COPY IS BEING SENT TO ME. I ALSO WAS ABLE TO SPEAK WITH THE ARCHIVIST AT JUNGLE GARDENS. WHEN I ASKED FOR INFO THERE BEFORE I NEVER WAS TOLD THERE WAS AN ARCHIVIST ON SITE. HE IS ALSO A HELP TO ME AND HE, IN FACT, IS SEND A COPY TO ME. I FOUND NOTHING ON CAMELLIAS EXCEPT THE YEARBOOK INFO FROM SOUTHWESTERN, BUT I'M STILL ON THE HUNT IN LAFAYETTE. I HAVE THE 1950 AND '53 YEARBOOKS AND THE ARTICLES ARE GREAT IF YOU'RE INTERESTED IN THAT SORT OF STUFF. I AM IN SEARCH FOR OTHER INFO. THE PUBLIC LIBRARY FIRST TOLD ME THERE WAS NOTHING ON MCILHENNY, THEN I FOUND OUT THAT THEY HAVE COPIES OF THE ACS YEARBOOKS THERE SO OFF I GO AGAIN. ACS HAS NO INFO., HOWEVER, I HAVE BEEN ASKED TO ASSIST IN PUTTING ORDER TO THEIR LIBRARY SO I WILL BE FINDING OUT FOR MYSELF SOON. THANK YOU FOR YOUR INTEREST...See MoreClorox bleach pen; Mr. Clean eraser-revisited
Comments (56)Mr. Clean eraser is incredible. What won't it do? My husband was cleaning his boat (fiberglass hull) and it had scuff marks along the sides and on the floor. He tried brush and soap, a nylon scrubbie and was planning to get steel wool when I stopped him and told him to use my Mr. Clean eraser. He scoffed and said these marks were so stubborn that a "sponge" will do nothing. I insisted he try it and they were EASILY removed! It took him just a minute or two remove all the scuffs, and he had been laboring for nearly an hour with the other items. He was amazed! I have several on hand at all times for shower doors, scuff marks on floors, baseboards and walls. I also used it to remove specks of dried paint from woodwork. Use a light hand though, because it will remove the finish if you are over zealous....See MoreWhat do you say to rude comments?
Comments (12)Rudeness always sort of catches me off guard. I just don't expect it and I'm quite taken aback by it. So my normal reaction is the "deer in the headlights" syndrome. I sort of stare blankly at the person for about a second or two. Then my wits return and my MO is just to ignore the comment and either continue the normal conversation or divert my attention elsewhere, like to another person if possible. It's always easy to think of great comebacks later, but for me, no comment works best. I'm usually fairly reactionary and have said things I regret so this sort of natural reaction is maybe a survival thing for me. It prevents me from saying something that I'll wish I hadn't. Now, in the case of a close friend I might let them know that the comment was hurtful later, just because we're friends and we have that comfort level. Depends on what was said, how it was said, and my perceived intent of the speaker. In the case of a relative stranger, or an acquaintance whom I wouldn't consider to be a friend, I'm happiest keeping my mouth shut. I will admit that later I'll tell the story to DH and go over the rudeness and my feelings, etc. way more than he wants to hear! But that's my way of getting it off my chest while maintaining my composure when needed....See Moreself-addressed thank you cards
Comments (69)newhomebuilder, I guess we didn't understand completely -- but we didn't misunderstand completely, either. In your first post, you wrote "I thought it would be nice to include those that we will not be inviting (but would like to,) to come to one of the parties given for my daughter and her fiance." This time, you wrote "We would only invite extended friends to a cocktail party." Unfortunately, I think you still have the same problem, because it is still a party YOU are giving (or at least for which you are making up the guest list). Also, even though it's not A Shower, it's still a party given in honor of the bride and groom around the time of the wedding (I assume). People may still feel like they should bring a gift. And even if there is somehow no expectation or thought of gifts, it's still the B-list event. I do understand that in many communities, 350 isn't an unusual size for a wedding, and many people have large families that expect to be invited. But nowhere is 350 considered a private ceremony, either. 350 = 350 wherever you are. I think lowspark's is the best suggestion: "Now, if you wanted to host a party a few months AFTER the wedding, just to have friends over who missed the wedding and want to meet the bride & groom, I think that would be ok. However, I would just call it a party or get together without intimating any purpose related to the wedding or the couple." I wouldn't even limit the guest list for that party to those who weren't invited to the wedding. If your real purpose is to have all your friends meet the couple, that will do the job. It will not serve to "include" more people in the wedding festivities themselves, though, which is what you said you wanted. And I just don't think there is a way to "include" people without inviting them to the wedding itself. No one can do that for everyone they would like to have, and no one does. Yes, you're right, it's really hard, but you will make your guest list and move on. Those who aren't invited will understand -- they've been there, too. Listen, EVERYONE has the same hard problem! My son and his girlfriend aren't even engaged yet, and I'm already worrying about what we will do about the guest list. I have NO idea how we will manage it, but I am sure we'll figure it out when the time comes. And so will you! So although I'm sorry I cannot help you feel better about what you would love to do, I think in the long run you will be happier if you don't complicate things by trying somehow to include everyone. Lucky you to have so many dear people in your lives....See More- 5 years ago
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