Multiple Approach Avoidance Complex
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Comments (6)Well, I agree, Calvin. But maybe some kind person could put it in the FAQ? Howard, many, many good points. And it certainly matches my experiences. I started trying to grow tropicals indoors 5 or 6 years ago. Each year it was stall or worse all winter, and took til mid July for them to recover. I finally quit on them after building a light room in my basement that I thought would be plant heaven, with 400W HID, and turned out to be anything but. So on to orchids, mostly catts and oncids, a few phals. More success there, because they are smaller. No joke intended-- you can pick them up and look closely at them, so you find things like scale before they cover half of a 4-ft tall plant! Two years in s/h with great results every summer and terrible outcomes every winter. So I went on to Aussie Gold. That was better. The catts bloomed some, but not enough for the huge investment of time and energy, even physical stress, trying to get them the right shade/sun balance all summer. As it happened, 11/12 mature phals I had last fall bloomed that spring. So gradually over the spring, the Eureka moment arrived: Grow phals! In sum, I have to say that I finally quit trying to manipulate the environment and decided to let it win-- If I want blooms, and I do, I have to grow something that thinks my light room is heaven, and that's phals. The other alternative, as Howard says, is to keep a lot of half-alive desiccating plants around all winter -- too long, too long. Couldn't stand it. And then wait til June for them to get going. No way. I'm taking it easy on myself and them, and growing what's suited to what I can give them. I started with orchids because I wanted flowers all winter, and phals provide that. So I'm content, and truthfully, glad to give up the rat race of trying to provide for ungrateful plants....See MoreHow to approach neighbors re: horrendous dog poo smell?
Comments (82)What happe to the poo smell? i have two medium dogs and we have a dog run/bathroom at the sid eof our house. old house and again at our new house. we had different levels of pebles of diffe sizes to help drainage. we would not leave poo more than a cou hours but usuall picked up as it happend and sealed in a compost container that is meant to keep smell trapped.. but the pee is a probem. we would use baking soda all over and then spray water. Luckily it wasnt near my neighbours used area. But still i felt bad. our garbage was picked up every two weeks but the compost container really sealed the smell. The baking soda worked but needed to bough in bulk. our dogs refused to go pee/poo on their walks. they would save it for the bathroom when they got home. even if they did tinkle when out, they’d go straight to their bathroom when they got home and finish the job. also laying fresh rocks helped but picking up, spraying down and a lot of baking soda is necessary. and you cant have it near a well used area....See MoreFinancing (complex)
Comments (12)There is a house, but we won't live in it. We actually have someone on hand who would buy the lot that the house would be on, while we'd take one of the empty lots to build on next spring. The land is in a pretty desirable location. Only reason it hasn't sold yet is the seller won't do the division so it's priced out of most individual's budget (and willingness to survey, divide, and so on). If seller would divide it herself, the lots would probably already have been sold. Price is also IMO high for a developer to come in and make a good profit, though that is what will probably happen closer to spring, when the building season will start up again. Seller is an elderly woman who has never done a real estate transaction. Apparently she grew up and lived her whole life in the house. She seems, to put it mildly, to have some odd ideas/beliefs. Since I don't really have the heart left to call any more lenders, I guess I need to grieve and move on. (sigh)...See MoreJapanese maple - complex pruning issue - help!
Comments (29)jmg1717, the ultimate choice to prune or not to prune is yours :-) Your post has garnered a number of differing opinions, including several from folks extremely familiar with growing these trees and their particular habits. With Japanese maples. most pruning decisions are going to be personal - there are simply no hard and fast rules about their pruning and all decisions should be made on a case by case basis. You seem to be assigning a lot of weight to the opinion of your landscape architect. I would just comment that because JM's do not develop a distinct leader, there is no apically dominant growth point in the tree, but all branch tips will share in apical growth. Removing the branch(s) in question will not necessarily cause the tree to grow taller faster but could very well produce increased overall growth of the canopy......there IS a difference :-) Also you want to be cautious with heavy pruning very late into the winter. Sap begins to move quite early with JM's and pruning after about mid-December may create a lot of bleeding. btw, although not necessarily obvious with this format, there are individuals that post here with some equally impressive credentials. Mike (miketann) is an extremely knowledgeable landscaper (now retired) with many years of experience and an entire personal "forest" of JM's :-) I too have a degree in horticulture and many years experience as a landscape designer and a nurseryperson. Just saying you are getting the benefit of a lot of years of professional experience on this forum as well....See More- 6 years ago
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