Stepmom to 2 girls that are extremely immature
new to this but I am frustrated that I have 2 stepdaughters that are adults but the 24 yr old has the maturity of a 14 yr old
i have been with their dad for close to 20 yrs and we share a son
so my problem is every time we get together there is a problem and they (the girls) blame me... if i have a certain look it’s a problem if I join in the conversation it’s a problem I feel like there is nothing I can do that will ever be sufficient for the older of the 2 like I said she has a maturity of a 14 yr old and is always about drama the other one is 22 and is like the enforcer she will stand by her sister no matter what...
so my issue now is that the older is now lying about me to their dad my husband who will not get involved any longer so any advice on how to deal with this as Christmas is coming and not sure what to do any longer!!