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Comments (86)Oh wow! Now that *does* sound like it was a good day! That's fantastic Judith. Now go forth and empower thyself! But just one thing - if he is enjoying his job, I do hope you can work out a situation that will be mutually satisfying whereby he can *still* enjoy his job. Upon re-reading your other posts, I realized that your DH has a consultant's job or a consultant-like job. I'm so sorry, my dear, but work-fixation, being on-call and frequently being away *is* the life of a consultant. You still do NOT need to be running interference for him with his kids or stalled out/in a holding pattern until "the time is right" (euphemism for: I'll do it later which is a euphemism for: never). You've already articulated well that your personal development needs to factor in as well - obviously since your own personal goals are not being realized and that is making you chafe. But I do so hope you can manage something where he doesn't have to give up what he likes about his new job. Say, a question for you: Does his job lie in New York and does he only return to Boston for the family or does his job extend here too? If it is the former, would you consider moving to New York? It may be easier all told - for both of you. Your children are not so old that it would be difficult to move not to mention, there is something quite culturally and intellectually enriching and exciting to move to a different city, state, country ... I also liked what geogirl wrote - not just in evaluation of your scenario, Judith, but it was eye-opening for me too. Perhaps it will seem less contentious if one realizes that it is not just good advice for a marriage, but good for any relationship at all. Work relationships, friendships, as well as marriage often respond similarly to the same actuation ... no surprise there since the same people are involved, only the pairings are different. Matter of fact, geogirl's advice made a few things click for me regarding a great friendship I had once had that soured - and soured spectacularly and rapidly. Interestingly, there are shades of the same issues that Judith summarized about the path of her life with her husband that are common to me with this friend of mine. (Aside: this was a perfectly platonic friendship, no hanky-panky to cloud issues or muddy waters). We were probably both to blame that our friendship became quite cancerous (well, almost certainly, although I like to think that I was a really good friend to him and he - well, not so much) but the bottom line is that it was wrong for me to simply assume that because I'd tolerated my friend's moody, temperamental, cross-patch phase when he was going through a tough time, that at a much later point in time, when he was back on even-keel and when life-things became burdensome for me that it was alright for me not to bother to hold my own temper and irritability in check with him. And I can be quite temperamental and very quick to temper. So it isn't exactly what geogirl was talking about but metaphorically and euphemistically - I did see a parallel and it was quite clarifying for me. In the meanwhile, good for you, Judith. Good for you for taking some time for yourself. You need to put some vim and vigor back in your life! Glad you went to the gym. I'm heading out for a run myself. Say, I'm right in the Boston area myself. Maybe I'll be running past your place! :-)...See MoreMen wear PJ's????
Comments (19)Oh wow, so it's universal?!?! We first noticed the Jammie Generation a couple of months ago. We were doing a little shopping at Kroger when Jenny suddenly tugged at my shirt sleeve and whispered excitedly in my ear; Joey, Joey, is that couple in their pajamas?!?! After a teeny bit of sleuthing it was obvious, yes! Hey, I'm not talking about warm comfy sweats or something semi sleep wear, I'm talking about obvious thin and sheer PJ's complete with fuzzy lined house shoes. Since then the pajama thing has lost its surprise factor as there will usually be a few folks choosing that attire on any given morning. Also, this wasn't a tweenie/twenty something couple. Pushing 40 if not over.. real, real tacky! I freely admit to a double standard concerning the pj patrol. Youth is beautiful in any attire and almost any fad, wear the pajamas! When you're in your 40's and choose to walk around the store in your pajamas? You're trying too hard my friend and you just look stupid. Unfortunately I've seen a few guys my age in the pajamas. Geez. Honest, if I were to complain about the twenty-somethings walking around the store in their pajamas it would be from envy because I can't get away with it....See MoreDo you ever FIB about how much you spend on roses?
Comments (43)Toolbelt- I love the RBU theory !! I'm stealing it! This is our second year together and first garden together. He asked if I needed those square linking tomatoe cages @ $10 ea. Now that they're up and have plants inside he said they're neat and sturdy. Hahaha! I am lucky that he rarely questions my purchases and I don't question his. BUT if he ever says anything again, I now have Toolbelt to thank for the RBU ! Oh, you want a new motherboard? Well that's 15 RBU's. LOL Alameda- if your SO doesn't already have those square tomato cages, it would be a great gift for a veggie gardener :D...See MoreDevastating News about My Theo
Comments (83)arkansas girl -we opted not to go with an autopsy. Initially, I was determined to get to the bottom of this, but it would have been $850, and it wouldn't have brought our boy back.... I don't think it could have been something sharp simply because he showed not a single second of discomfort, and he was running and jumping all per usual, literally until the second he collapsed....See More- 6 years agolast modified: 6 years agoarkansas girl thanked ravencajun Zone 8b TX
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