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Comments (71)My irritation comes from a pure LACK OF MANNERS...if someone takes the time to write out a suggestion, provide photos, do research on your behalf, the least you can do is say thank you. It can be a general "hey all, thanks for the ideas" or pointed to each person; I DON'T CARE but where I come from that's expected and I believe rightfully so. That thank you is not only good manners but it lets the poster(s) know your response was read. That's my pet peeve. I agree with you. I have often spent too much time replying to a question because I had had a similar experience or felt that I could actually offer some constructive words. There have been many times when the OP never even bothers to respond or say thank you to anyone on the thread they've started. I think that's rude. I understand that you can't always respond to every single person. It's especially hard when you get multiple people making the same exact suggestion. Do you acknowledge each of the 15 people saying to get rid of the door that doesn't fit the style of your house? Or will a blanket "thank you" to everyone at the very least, suffice? I would like to think the latter because, lol, I still have not been able to get to a thread I posted last week & thank each person individually. But I've gone back & read it a few times and read the links they generously offered and looked at the photos of their own homes that they've shared. I've delivered a blanket thank you a couple of times but I do feel a bit guilty that I haven't acknowledged each person. The internet is unfortunately a place where people feel they can leave their manners elsewhere because it is largely anonymous. I tend to think that a simple "thank you" is better than silence....See Morepregnant, starting to dislike stepson
Comments (2)Congratulations on your baby. I think you must look at this from Son's perspective, & sort of transcend your own. From Son's point of view, Dad was suppposed to be there in the household forever... & he isn't. He left. & now that Dad has a new baby 'pending', Son is very afraid that Dad is 'moving' further away once again. The likelihood of this is underscored by the fact that Son is being booted out of his room & down the hall, further away from Dad. I don't think you should 'dislike' this troubled boy, but I do think you're wise to realize that something has to be done, something has to change, to make things *much* nicer for everyone. One thing that you need to watch is the tendency (& we all have it) to take one problem & turn it into a list. Right now, this boy's weight, the way his mother treats him, his diet, how far you have to drive on the week-ends, etc, are the very last things you need to let into your mind. You may think that you're treating him the same, but people, particularly children, can sense more than we adults like to think about. Find ways to approve of him, ways to share with him. He doesn't have friends? Find some kids' classes at the parks dept or the library that he & Dad, or he & Dad & you, can share. He gets whiney? Laugh & give him a *sincere* hug & do whatever it is *with* him. I wish all of you the best...See MoreC'mon Houzz friends, come in and help me with some paint color advice.
Comments (20)Walls are painted, bed and mattress have arrived. I've been out of town and slowly making progress while I'm home. Here is a photo of where I am at. Please ignore the bed covering (and the jeans ha)...it's holding me over while I finish up the walls. I'll probably pick one up next week. More pictures to follow as I continue on. I'm thinking an entire wall of wood planks behind bed with a large black and white framed picture above headboard. Thanks for staying interested!...See MoreIs anyone else getting the "Houzz Advice" screen...
Comments (11)I think they keep "making a mistake" to see how loud we will scream. It is all over "home decorating' ,"home decorating conversations", "kitchen table", and "cooking". FWIIW, I will not use the Houzz conversations. They don't work. I don't mind the houzz pictures or shopping or ads. If they want me to see their ads, they need to incorporate Houzz conversations into Garden Web, not the other way around. The Garden Web platforms have a MUCH better IT performance. Mine is back to normal after two days. For now. If there is anything you REALLY don't want to lose, print a hard copy....See Moretangerinedoor
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