As time goes by ............please let me share my frustration
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Comments (42)jan s - Thanks for the link. I believe the 4th photo is the kitchen I posted earlier that antss said won a contest. It looks much better in the larger photo. I'm glad you all are enjoying the album. I haven't had the time to look at these closely. But there were a couple that caught my eye. msrose - I replied to your email. I hope you received it. Do any of you have the rough edge treatment that this counter has? Is it difficult to keep clean? CC...See MoreMy stepkids hate me, frustrated and broken
Comments (11)If you are going to school full time, AND working part time...do the hours add up to less than working full time? Just wondering... I do understand that you want/need to finish your degree since you are very close to finishing. I also understand that you now have a home for your children, that you may or may not be able to provide without his help. I also understand how valuable it is to have someone to share your life with, and help you raise your children, instead of trying to raise them alone. Especially since he is a good man, who treats your children well. And "I get" that his children have a choice in their behavior, and they are making your family life miserable. However...as a parent, do you understand that if he turns his back on his children, he has failed in his role as a father and a parent? That these next 6 years are the most crutial years in the development of his kids, and will determine who they will be as adults? That as he chooses you and your children over his children (both he and his children will understand that he chose you over them) that will in and of itself create "issues" for both he and his children. Raising teenagers is enormously difficult for ALOT of people, even those with intact families. His children are acting out, of the anger and pain of what has happened in their life... I understand that you feel that they should not "win" and ruin what you and your fiancee' are trying to build...that their bad behavior should not be rewarded by getting them what they want...which is you and your children to leave. However, as a father and a man of integrity and honor...he must fight to hang in there and finish raising his children...whether he feels like it or not. Perhaps they do need to live with their mother...I don't know. But he should not give up on them because it is hard. And he is right in demanding that they treat others with respect, and that includes you and your children...but it also includes their teachers and others, or life will be hard for them...because in life, we must treat people we work with, and for, with respect, whether we like them or not. This is tough because their mother is teaching them one thing...but he needs to teach them what he sees as important...and do his best. The rest will one day be up to them. I wish you the best as you try and do what is right for you, your children, and your fiancee' (and his children). He is in such a tough spot because he loves you, and does not want to lose you...and yet his own children need him...but their behavior is destroying everything he wants, and the life you two are trying to build. But as the kind and good man you know him to be...which makes him a man of honor trying to do what is right...by both you and as a parent. What a hard, hard spot to be in. He will need to be strong, wise and walk through this. I wish you both better times ahead....See MoreLong time KT members, please Let's.........
Comments (6)I've been a member for years. I mostly just read. I'm a mom of three, work part time, and I'm a musician on the side for fun. I'm quiet in a large crowd, fairly anxious in general, my friends call me chop chop, and I have a very healthy sense of humor. I'm also quite opinionated. I like coming here because sometimes I just want my own personal water cooler - I'm quite entertained at times here! :P...See MoreFIRST time building! Let me know your thoughts on the plan. Thanks!
Comments (28)I disagree the master bath should be entered from the bedroom. I can't tell you how many nights I wake my DH up because our bathroom in our condo opens to the master bedroom. Or in the middle of the night DH wakes me when he goes to the bathroom. No thanks! In our new build we are doing like you have in your plan, in that one walks into the master hallway to go to the bathroom. Instead of trying to find something to fit your ideas, why not engage the services of a good architect to put something together for you? You'd get exactly what you want, and have it work the best for the site instead of trying to have to adjust something that may not even work for your lot?...See Moresignet_gw(6b)
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