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Possible record warm starting Monday..
Comments (3)It's been very warm in western SFV all week, in the high 80s. Far too windy to do very much in the yard. Trying to keep up watering the veg beds, some of them recently seeded, and some recently planted bulbs. The wind sucks every bit of moisture out, all day long. Sigh. At least the palm trees are getting cleaned out....See Moredh starts chemo again tomorrow,we're arguing again
Comments (3)Yes Chem treatments are very expensive and hard both on the person and the family. Our cancer center offers a variety help courses. Financial, support groups, monthly meeting, etc. You need outside interests beside school. Sounds like you have been a caretaker alot. What hobbies have you developed, do you belong and participate in any churches, organizations. Even if you took your daughter occasionally to meetings etc that would help. But you and your family must learn to be more positive etc. We have been dealing with cancer for 3 years, now in remission, and I refuse to let it or my family to control me. We work together. I have hobbies, belong to 3 different groups, have offices and keep busy. Yes I get upset and depressed, but not for long. Yes we do things together, and he cannot do much, but what he can do we try to do together, or with other people. We do not let cancer control us....See MoreBuilding permit obtained, demo starts Monday
Comments (29)Shades, the timbers for the framing are 2x6 and then some are larger. When they were doing the verticals, they were 2x6 also. I see some 2x4s on the ground waiting to be used, but do not know where they are being used. I believe even the "eyebrow" pieces which will cover the back doors and all the windows in between (using metal roofing on that part) are 2x6 as well. I'll pay closer attention to it when I go out. They are working hard to get it closed up to weather before it rains. I see a stack of plywood for the roof deck, ready to go, but they must get in all the work while they can stand up and move freely up high. When it is closed in, and the windows/doors are installed, they'll open up the interior walls for demolition. The lead carpenter framed in the doorway to take my 83" tall old cypress door, and will add more blocking at the top to handle the heavy hardware for that. I must scrape off the old paint and get the rustic look I want. I mean, it is very old and I want to keep it looking old. I might just oil it, with mineral oil and beeswax. It would be very warm looking. Yesterday I removed all my RevAShelf cabinet inserts that I want to use in the new cabs, cleaned them up, removed all the cab doors, took out a 15" wide cab that I will salvage for the Teahouse. I'll have two now, and put a top on them for fabric cutting and such as that. I'm thinking something must have wheels on it, or I'll be breaking my back when I get an urge to MOVE FURNITURE....which will happen sooner or later, knowing me! Trying to plan ahead, and remove as much unnecessary items now before the crew squeezes us into the living room and sun porch and front bedroom. We'll have to access the small bath with the shower, most things from the bedroom will be moved into the walkin closet and master bath. I'm already doing laundry at the laundromat twice a week. Oh yes, I also removed the door jambs and framing (??) so the fridge can once again be moved further into the house, like maybe the living room where there is a 3-prong plug. DH does not like his routine messed up, but I already have him down to 1 chair--his desk chair on wheels--for dining table as well. Chairs take up so much space. I don't know what we would have done if it were not for the Teahouse being so roomy for storage. It is PACKED FULL, and will only have wiggle room when the flooring begins to be laid. Speaking of flooring, I noticed the old KITCHEN FLOOR has hardwood beneath a 1/4" sheet of plywood and then about 2 layers of linoleum or sheet vinyl, and then DH's sticky back tiles. All that must come up and hopefully it won't damage the original hardwood too much in the process. I tried to take some up yesterday, but it was beyond my ability or my tools were inadequate. "Back in the day" I could have demolished with the best of them though. :) My sleep schedule is greatly disturbed by having to arise soon after daylight. The dogs must be fed and given a run out to the back yard, by way of the front door. Then the crew arrives about 6:30 to maybe 6:45 I barely made it inside before they arrived last two days. It takes me a while to fall asleep, since I am imagining what I must do to keep ahead of the work. It is great to see the building process and finally know the sequence of work. Watching it come together is interesting. Adding the closet in the hall (utility type) will be a godsend for ugly stuff like the vacuum and bulk supplies, as well as a couple of shelves to hold electronics and WIRING for the DVD. router, all sorts of chargers on a shelf. By having the WiFi router in this spot, it's signal should reach the entire house, every room. Valerie, I've stocked up on paper plates. Keeping the soup bowls close to hand though. Perhaps plastic hot/cold cups are something to remember next shopping day. I go out each evening after the crew leaves and use the magnet to pick up nails. And I take pictures then. However, they've worked for almost 3 hours now this morning, trying to cover the roof before rain begins, so the picture below I took from my bedroom window--the one which will come out along with much of that back wall to join the old with the new. And, the contractor says it will be finished near the end of the year. Not too bad, actually. Based on weather of course. We usually have a wet winter, so closing it to the weather is a top priority right now. Then the inside demo can be done without making mud pies....See MoreTotal gut and demo starts Monday...what do you do for water?
Comments (28)We're doing...okay. :) The water heater should get here Thursday or Friday, and DH will get the laundry sink hooked up hot and cold. Once that happens life will get much, much easier. I've also ordered a 2nd portable induction hob which is also on the way. For plumbing, for now, I'm using the garden sprayer on our front porch for quick rinsing (the "don't let stuff dry and get crusty before I actually wash it" rinsing) and for actual dishwashing, we're using the bathtub in the main bathroom on the second floor. Hauling a big plastic tub with all the dishes up and down is...sub-optimal. (I'm snorting). As I sit and type my back is on freakin' FIRE. I wish, wish, wish we could do pizza or subs or whatever...but half our house is basically wheat, corn, and soy free...and I'm on a 3-mth protocol that doesn't allow for a bunch of other stuff that makes it extremely difficult to find anything "legal" that's not from scratch. It sucks under normal conditions. With the demo in full swing, it's making me tear my hair out. I'm hoping hoping hoping that we'll gain efficiencies as we go along and figure more stuff out. For example, I was prepping some ribs today for smoking (had to work from home with a sick kid) and realized I had a box of food prep gloves from a previous life that would be MUCH easier than washing my hands every 5 minutes while working with raw pork. AH HA! So the good news, by the end of this coming weekend, we should be as set up as we can get for the next two months. The bad news is that unless our reno is the extreme outlier that gets done earlier than scheduled (I'm snorting again) we're looking at 7 more weeks MINIMUM until our new kitchen is ready for prime-time. I keep thinking about how amazingly awesome it really will be, and how easy everything will seem with this behind us. It's just about time to pick some slabs and tile...2nd most fun thing ever after appliance shopping. :)...See More- 8 years ago
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